The ARVI exit:Mod note pg10 - Page 9

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Ovi then is responsible for her own miscarriage too, I presume? Drinking, acting like a fish wife when she yes, knew ARVI carried a torch for each other AND that they were to be married to each other the day Ovi prised Arjun away from Purvi like a toy with that exultant smile she had the day of the reception? Ovi inflicted pain upon herself by forcing a man to marry her by using her own mother, archana, as a pawn in the game, didn't she deck herself up as well on the night of marriage knowing full well her husband's heart belonged elsewhere? Arjun was faithful to her, was trying to be a good husband to Ovi but suspicious Ovi even after Purvi was physically far away from the scene took to drinking and harming her own unborn child.

Ovi should not only apologize to Arjun and Purvi for ruining their lives with her selfish, obsession for Arjun but also to Pari for ruining her life for playing a part in keeping her parents apart. She should apologize to Arjun for her own miscarriage as she brought it upon herself by all that drinking. She should apologize to Purvi for all her "Kaands" against Purvi - for trying to purchase Arjun with a check, for using their mother as a pawn and shattering Purvi's life into a million pieces, to Purvi for the accusation and slaps in public, to Onir cos if Purvi had not been snatched away from Arjun, Purvi would never have left Mumbai and never have met Onir and Ovi couldn't have been the reason for the case against him and his de-licensing, to Purvi for wanting her dead, to Purvi for throwing her out when she was pregnant, to Purvi for that public disclosure of pari's parentage, for Ovi's habit of washing her very dirty linen in public always, to Manav for making him blind to her faults and for being his weakness, to Archana for being selfish and blind and for having used her love as a means to an end, to teju for having always hogged the limelight, to her grandparents for making their old age less peaceful, to her brother and his wife for forcing them to live with two sisters, one unmarried and the other one divorced with child (if Arjun and Purvi had an ongoing marriage, Ovi's sister in law would not have been subject to fits of greed and jealousy against Purvi), to Pari for discarding her without a moment's thought when Ovi found the infant was not hers, and oh, last but not the least to Purvi for being the cause of breaking up her marriage a second time, for causing Purvi's miscarriage by Ovi's hiding of the truth and for playing hide and seek with her own Pia pregnancy, to arjun for keeping ner pregnancy a secret, AND for the gloating way she now made Purvi feel unwanted in Arjun's life, for hiding the truth (of Arjun's sickness) again from Purvi and for availing this opportunity to get closer to Arjun and for still managing to keep Arjun away from his family. Oh, for putting her own daughter's life in danger now, for if Ovi had disclosed the truth to Purvi, Purvi would not have agreed to marry RK and Purvi' and Pia's lives would not have been in danger, plus for putting Arjun's life in danger in the coming epis because in his present precarious condition he will still go after Purvi and Pia to save them. Oh, yes, Ovi is responsible for a lot of things going wrong in this serial ;)

Apologies if some find this list a little unreasonable but then the list against Purvi has never ever been held up to that litmus test of reasonableness, has it?

To others of like mind as me, the list of Ovi's misdeeds for which she needs to apologize are not exhaustive, I may have forgotten some, sincerest apologies for that ;)

Disclaimer: the thoughts expressed in this post are entirely mine and do not mean to offend anyone.

Originally posted by: altuphalu

Such long debates on tv characters (that even the writers have not given so much thought) is just mind boggling.

I like to think that these debates are helping people put some personal ghosts to rest and providing some needed personal therapy.

Originally posted by: ashfaque2012

Such a brilliant post Janvi Di. Many day I miss Your post. The way U post this matter I am really happy that U post. 1 thread I also post similar but Your post is more better.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

One is entitled to think what one wants and attribute reasons to people's posts but would be cautious of playing Freud and attributing "personal out of the serial realm" reasons for members' posts even if it is perhaps part of said attributor's personal therapy. For one, remarks of a personal nature even if only implied are against the rules of this forum, second, spending time wondering why anyone writes one way or the other would be a futile and mind boggling task. We are all different people, see and perceive things differently and so pen different opinions. The world would be a dull place if we all thought and spoke alike.

Originally posted by: altuphalu

Oh! Absolutely, everyone is entitled to their opinions! And it is indeed a futile task.

But still some opinions are so strong that such hatred for fictional characters defies logic.

The hatred for Ovi also defies logic...I guess the only way the character Ovi could be redeemed is by and (hopefully) only if the Cv puts the character before a firing squad and wipe it out...my POV strictly...