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Tulsey

@Tulsey

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Posted: 11 years ago

#61

What is going on? Why has a war broken out on this topic?
I read all topics as everyone's own opinions. No need to bash.
Don't have to comment if you don't agree and no one is asking the bashers that they have to write a comment. Stay away from the topic if you don't like it. This is so childish!!!

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onirfans

@onirfans

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Posted: 11 years ago

#62

Needs to apologize to Purvi for never telling her about Ovi wanting to marry him (and he agreeing even tho he never loved her ).

Needs to apologize to both Purvi and Ovi for stringing both of them along so many times...afraid to let Ovi know the truth that he loved Purvi, and constantly telling Purvi he "would straighten it out".

Needs to apologize to Purvi for for not being strong enough to say no to the forced marriage. If Arjun had refused Ovi's blackmail of Purvi, and said he would wait for Purvi, it would have turned out differently.

Needs to apologize to Purvi for his extreme anger towards her when she was trying to straddle the line between Arjun her husband and Manav her father regarding the Shirish case. She was between a rock and a hard place and trying to do her best.

Needs to apologize to Purvi for not caring about the 2nd baby and indirectly causing it's miscarriage (we must assume it miscarried.)

Needs to apologize to Purvi for lying to her so many times. Especially in Canada regarding Ovi and Pia, and now with the Ovi pretend marriage.

Needs to aplogize to Purvi for hurting her so badly so many times.

Purvi

Needs to apologize to Arjun for succumbing to Ovi's blackmail and forcing him to marry Ovi.

Needs to apologize to Ovi for swapping the babies even though she was trying to protect Ovi.

Need to apologize to Arjun for not trying to listen to his explanation re: Pia and Ovi in the beginning.

Now i am sure i have forgotten a few as well but just wanted to help you out Kools.

needs to be apologise purvi to onir for gaving false hope about arjun

purvi needs to be appologised always interfering in arovi life

purvi needs to be appologised always hiding truth to everyone and especially she should apologised to ovi for passing her all wrong activity to name ovi's bhalayei ...which was not true

purvi and arjun both should appologised to ovi for telling lie and ruining her life

purvi should appologised ovi tooking advantage of ovi's absence when she in one side told she wanted arovi's marriage and otherside took advantage of ovi's absence

arjun should be appologised for two timing with two sister

arvi should apologised with each other for giving importance to ego not the love

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CoffeeCake

@CoffeeCake

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+ 5

Posted: 11 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: peachesnplums

That's a good one - I got tired of seeing the no one put the gun to their head for ArVi, doesn't that apply to others too 🤔

Great posts Ash & Nura!

I dont understand the logic of not taking responsibility of ur own action.

If given a chance people wont mind blaming Arjun and purvi for natural calamities. Logic should go to hell only they r responsible. How? That we dont know. Example is available in this post itself. Now peole hold purvi responsible for natural miscarriage which was coz of stress. In real world also people never blame a woman for miscarriage but in PR world purvi is not allowed to go through it.

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beautifulchaos

@beautifulchaos

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Posted: 11 years ago

#64

I dont understand the logic of not taking responsibility of ur own action.

If given a chance people wont mind blaming Arjun and purvi for natural calamities. Logic should go to hell only they r responsible. How? That we dont know. Example is available in this post itself. Now peole hold purvi responsible for natural miscarriage which was coz of stress. In real world also people never blame a woman for miscarriage but in PR world purvi is not allowed to go through it.

@ Bold : That is what I have not been able to understand too...

In the PR that I have watched, no character is a SAINT. Each character has its own strengths, its own weaknesses, its own fallacies and its own flaws. Each has his/her own faults. So in my opinion, each person right from Savita and Damodar to Archana and Manav to Ovi to Arjun and Purvi all need to apologize to one or the other character for one reason or another. I do also agree that Ovi has already apologized numerous times. We cannot ignore the character growth of this character...

But Now how is Purvi to be blamed for the miscarriage? As far as I remember she goes to Canada with a great hopes of making amends with her estranged husband, sees him with Ovi and the child... till then she doesn't miscarry. She then comes to the hospital wherein Dr. Onir shows her Pia's medical report which CLEARLY indicates Arjun Kirloskar to be her father and Ovi Deshmukh as her mother... Wasn't that a ROCK SOLID proof of Pia's parentage? Even if Purvi was suspicious before, didn't she miscarry AFTER seeing that report and the resultant stress?

But yeah since it is Purvi, even the things that happen naturally and can happen naturally to anyone is her fault...

Edited by bitasta - 11 years ago

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naava

@naava

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Posted: 11 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: bitasta

now peole hold purvi responsible for natural miscarriage which was coz of stress. In real world also people never blame a woman for miscarriage but in PR world purvi is not allowed to go through it.
@ Bold : That is what I have not been able to understand too...

In the PR that I have watched, no character is a SAINT. Each character has its own strengths, its own weaknesses, its own fallacies and its own flaws. Each has his/her own faults. So in my opinion, each person right from Savita and Damodar to Archana and Manav to Ovi to Arjun and Purvi all need to apologize to each other for one reason or another. I do also agree that Ovi has already apologized numerous times. We cannot ignore the character growth of this character...

But Now how is Purvi to be blamed for the miscarriage? As far as I remember she goes to Canada with a great hopes to make amends with her estranged husband, sees him with Ovi and the child... till then she doesn't miscarry. She then come to the hospital wherein Dr. Onir shows her Pia's medical report which CLEARLY states Arjun Kirloskar as her father and Ovi Deshmukh as her mother... Wasn't that a ROCK SOLID proof of Pia's parentage? Even if she was suspicious before, didn't she miscarry AFTER seeing that report and the resultant stress?

But yeah since it is Purvi, even the things that happen naturally and can happen to anyone naturally is her fault...

You are quite right. All the characters have done things that hurt others. Some of them apologized some didn't. Ovi did apologize in words, but when she came back into the picture & was continually confronting Purvi with gloating & condescending rude comments, criticizing her looks, her dress, and clearly enjoying it to the max, having nothing to do with Arjun's illness, it was obvious she didn't really mean it. Another example is that Onir has never apologized for swapping the babies, for altering medical records, for showing Purvi the private medical records of Arjun and Ovi, for lying many times. And others have never apologized. Savita, to her credit, did finally apologize.

The only reason i commented on this thread in the first place is that the TM presented a totally lopsided picture with NOT ONE apology to Purvi, and again all the blame going to her for even living. The most disgusting for having a miscarriage due to shock. That's a pretty vile accusation that a woman is blamed for the miscarriage of her baby through no fault of her own..

I have stated this before but after watching several soaps i have to say NEVER in all my years of viewing have i ever seen such disgusting treatment of a character...both by some viewers and by the PH and the creator of the show, Ekta.. Purvi has been called the most vulgar names for even being born, for how she was found after the accident of her parents, names i would never repeat for any human being, let alone for a sweet but stubborn girl like Purvi. It rather boggles my mind and while i would like Purvi anyway, seeing all this totally unfair treatment makes me want to protect her and come to her defense. I have never seen, not once, the kind of words used against Ovi, that are said against Purvi.

I am so glad that Asha is leaving this show because quite frankly, it has to somehow affect her no matter whether the terrible things are said about the character and not her personally. And Purvi is a protagonist and one of the lead characters...SMH !! We can see the blurring of those lines even on this thread.

Asha & RD's exit cannot come soon enough.

Edited by naava - 11 years ago

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Candylicious

@Candylicious

Voyager

+ 3

Posted: 11 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: Tulsey
What is going on? Why has a war broken out on this topic?
I read all topics as everyone's own opinions. No need to bash.
Don't have to comment if you don't agree and no one is asking the bashers that they have to write a comment. Stay away from the topic if you don't like it. This is so childish!!!

Don't have to comment if you don't agree and no one is asking the bashers that they have to write a comment. Stay away from the topic if you don't like it - Do you have the right to tell other members here not to comment and to stay away from the topic?? Who granted you this authority???

Edited by rkis - 11 years ago

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beautifulchaos

@beautifulchaos

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Posted: 11 years ago

#67

^^ naava

I agree to everything you have said Naava...

I completely agree to the apologies that you added to the initial list...

My comment was to the comment that Ovi has apologized numerous times: I agree to that.

I also agree to your word of Ovi being mean and offensive to Purvi with her words and gestures... At least I can give her a BOD here that all those caustic remarks and snide gestures were on Arjun's insistence...

One more thing with regards to Purvi's miscarriage : I understand that no woman wallows in that much of a self pity ( that too a deliberate one) to miscarry a child conceived within wedlock and out of love .

And yeah the remarks about Purvi has now hit the ALL TIME LOW. It is now wished that Archana rather than adopting Purvi should have let her die and then the vultures should have fed on her corpse...

Rest I agree to you word by word, sentence by sentence... You resonate my sentiments exactly...

I'm also glad that Rithvik and Asha are leaving. More so after seeing those comments on this thread that it is not Arvi they loathe but the actors playing them...

Edited by bitasta - 11 years ago

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933624

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Posted: 11 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: rkis

Don't have to comment if you don't agree and no one is asking the bashers that they have to write a comment. Stay away from the topic if you don't like it - Do you have the right to tell other members here not to comment and to stay away from the topic?? Who granted you this authority???

moral policing against IF rules...

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933624

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Posted: 11 years ago

#69

i dont think anyone has blamed purvi for miscarraige.. i think the TM has blamed arjun for giving so much stress to purvi and it resulted in miscarraige. thats what i infered.

well I personally feel a woman should never be blamed for miscarraige. whether ovi or purvi

and how many ever mistakes purvi made and tried to be extra mahaan, its very cruel and rude to blame the character for something upon which she has no control. i am sure purvi herself must have suffered when her 2nd child died. she dint miscarry by her own will.

Edited by pari-kirloskar - 11 years ago

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Jagruti

@AnAvidReader

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 11 years ago

#70

Originally posted by: White-Rose

I dont understand the logic of not taking responsibility of ur own action.

If given a chance people wont mind blaming Arjun and purvi for natural calamities. Logic should go to hell only they r responsible. How? That we dont know. Example is available in this post itself. Now peole hold purvi responsible for natural miscarriage which was coz of stress. In real world also people never blame a woman for miscarriage but in PR world purvi is not allowed to go through it.

@Bold-Word !Arjun and Purvi are responsible for each and every bad thing that happens in this world..and see they are now asked to apologize..Everyone makes mistakes...no one is God to be perfect..Arjun Purvi Ovi are equally responsible for the mess that they've created..Only Arjun and Purvi cannot be responsible for all this coz it was Ovi who initiated this..If Arjun Purvi need to apoligize..then Ovi also should apologize..coz if not for her,ArVi would have been living happily by now..!!
Its okay if we get a confrontation scene of Arjun Purvi ovi..(but I highly doubt it..cv's are goin too fast with ArVi story)..!

strictly my POV

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