The ARVI exit:Mod note pg10 - Page 11

Originally posted by: White-Rose

@sweet tania
If purvi exchanged the babies without informing ovi then even ovi is no where behind purvi. When it was time to end this never ending love triangle or square (whatever it was) again she started new history by getting arjun and purvi married without informing purvi about her daughter. It was not like purvi killed ovi's baby. It was a miscarriage or doctor was not able to save the child. But at the end of the day Whatever goes around comes around. Ovi played her game very well. For her benefit she made deal of her parent's happiness, emotionally tortured a bride to give up her groom just few days before marriage, tortured her own child with alcohol in pregnancy ,how badly she treated arjun when purvi was not around
asked a pregnant woman to leave the house in her last days of pregnancy. So in return she was not able to mourn for her child. Thats karma never spare anyone. Not even purvi. Purvi ignored the feelings of a mother in her mahanta and ignored the fact ovi deserves to know about her child and in return she lost the support of onir and arjun both and even lost her child but it does not mean purvi decided the fate of ovi's child. Ovi lost her child coz of accident or alcoho (whatever was the reason ). The way it was ovi's right to know about her child same way it was purvi's right to know with whom she is getting married have a kid with first wife. But for.mahaanta ovi decided to hide the truth and becoz of same truth purvi lost her child. So everything here seems equal. No space for sorry and apology. They should take responsibility of their action instead of playing apology game and move on.

How on earth few months old child was affected for anything? Arjun and purvi sorted out their marital status issue before pari's first bday. Later it was different misunderstanding. And pari is ArVi's child. Its on them what kind of life they wish to give. Neighbour's kids were not affected by their decision. And they should not apologize to others for life they have given to their kid.

I guess its useless to talk about who was more responsible for that deal? In past endless pages of this forum were wasted and conclusion 3 of them r equally responsible. Then why only arjun and purvi should apologize?

But I agree punni was most innocent. I want purvi to say sorry to her. Lol.

Dear white rose

1) in my reply i have not said anything like purvi is responsible for death of ovi's baby... i have only said that she should not replace baby without other parent's permission dats it... so there is not any point regarding purvi killed ovi's baby and all that...its all your own story... not mine...my point is versy simple about child replacement... so first understand dat what point is mentioned by writer... nd ya still you want to continue with your cooking story than plz bold my that particular words where i have said that purvi killed ovi's baby😊

2) you are narrating here ovi's karma ...but main point is... purvi's child replacement idea is not having connection with ovi's karma...yeah ovi lost her baby due to her own karma but purvi's baby replacement idea is result of ovi's karma!!🥱 ... not found any connectivity in your statement.

3) regarding pari's point... not only few month child but grown up adult is also deeply affected due to parent's separation...nd yeah definitly its parent's choice what type of life they wants to give to their child...purvi chooses fatherless life for pari...not interested in discussion of emotional trauma of purvi from my side...so to be short purvi should feel and say sorry to pari after knowing arjun's truth. whether pari is expecting or not but as a viewer so many peoples are seeing that purvi is at fault for her own child pari.when public see such type of parents on television than its not just matter of arvi and pari...public is free to give their opinion regarding purvi's mistake for her own daughter.ovi's point is different as pia is not lovechild neighther arjun is sulking for pia.

4) again you are cooking your story...in previous discussion point was arvi is not having decision power which is written by you...so my reply was if she can take punny's decision than why not for herself?????? i have never mentioned that punni was innocent... if i have written such type of statement than plz bold it...

PS:- in your reply majority of your statements are not related to my words or my opinion...you have written completely new cooking story which is not related to previous conversation...still i am replying you becoz i can't tolerate such a baked story which is replied by u by mentioning my name.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Forgot to add - Ovi should also apologize for keeping mum these last 20 years, she knew Arjun was living alone miserably yet made no attempt to clear misunderstandings with her parents or Purvi. In the event Ovi did make an attempt to contact them (if the CVs show flashbacks of some sort) then Ovi should apologize for not having tried harder to explain away the differences. 🤣

Jhanvi!! Come on!! She had their "bhalaayi" at heart, such a kind soul she is. She let them stay apart for their own good..
Cldn't resist :) reminds me of old times..
U go, gal !! :):)

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Purvi couldn't do the math herself , she didn't listen to Arjun clarify himself

That's why her baby died

So she is to be blamed

The guy who couldn't love I I after marriage and kept dying for purvi

Why would he cheat on purvi for ovi ?

If purvi gives herself unnecessary trauma , overreacts , doesn't think through

Then she is to be blamed

Originally posted by: jdronamraju

Jhanvi!! Come on!! She had their "bhalaayi" at heart, such a kind soul she is. She let them stay apart for their own good..
Cldn't resist :) reminds me of old times..
U go, gal !! :):)

I know, Jyo, how could I have forgotten that balaayi factor! :)
Yes, me too, reminds me of the good old days :)

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

I know, Jyo, how could I have forgotten that balaayi factor! :)
Yes, me too, reminds me of the good old days :)

Janhvi, Nura, White-Rose - Loved your posts and responses!!!

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Purvi couldn't do the math herself , she didn't listen to Arjun clarify himself

That's why her baby died

So she is to be blamed

The guy who couldn't love I I after marriage and kept dying for purvi

Why would he cheat on purvi for ovi ?

If purvi gives herself unnecessary trauma , overreacts , doesn't think through

Then she is to be blamed

@sweet tania
How ovi's life was affected by hiding the fact of her child? Fact that she should know on the spot was informed later. Becoz of same hiddent truth she experienced the motherhood for the first time. Thing was that child was no more and informing her or not was same. If there was any formula to get back the life of child by informing mother and still purvi chose not to inform than surely I would like to blame purvi. But I guess no such formula was there. And if i m not wrong there was no dead body. So lets take it as miscarriage. And ovi's life never took U turn coz of her lost child.

Thats all. I dont want to go in deep and explain else once more u'll feel i m making my own stories. For me her life was not affected. Even after the truth she was more disturbed with pari's identity.

Coming to pari- Many couple go through divorce and seperation without legal divorce and children have to either stay in hostle or with one of them. Many sort out difference and get back togather and many stay seperate forever. Its their life. I guess even parents have right to live as they want. Same with pari's parents. They seperated coz of whatever reason and back when they sorted out the differences. Pari was given good life even without arjun. Father is important part of life but even pia deserved that love. It does not matter which child is from love lady and which from loveless lady. Both girls are his daughters that what is important. If he cant be with both better to stay away from both. And under no circumstances it was possible to be with pari and pia both. So its justice by nature or crazy creatives.

I have no words to justify purvi on punni's matter.. So I agreed. What else u want me to do?
Why only punni she should apologize to manju for giving her headache by exposing her daughter. Even savita also for ruining her 18 years struggle of seperating archana and manav. These r sane people and were really affected by purvi. I agree here with punni's point. LOL.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I have been pmed to clarify myself on the Purvi miscarrying point .

I have again stopped seeing the serial .

I have said that not bcoz i blame her for miscarrying her baby deliberately . I blame her for all the trauma she gave herself in the pregnancy with her impulsive , thoughtless and egoistic nature . That trauma was self inflicted as it never existed , her husband never ever cheated on her . That stress i believed led to to the miscarraige ? Or was it some accident ? Correct me if i am wrong . And if so , it was so unnecessary and self inflicted was my point .

To this day does he know btw that she was carrying ? Like his first child , did he he know that it had come in the world ? Each time the poor man does not know a thing about his children , is this fair ?

When Ovi drank , the stress was not imaginary but she KNEW for a fact that those two carried a torch for each other . Yet , what did i say ? Let the adults step in , confine her to a sanatorium and take the baby away from her .

Here what did i say ? The stress was imaginary , Arjun was never unfaithful to Purvi ever . The stress she took was completely avoidable if she had talked to him . Nothing of this would have happened and they had everything going for them , Purvi did NOT have a drinking problem , nothing . Yet she took imaginary stress due to her flawed nature which she carried throughout her LIFE .

She has wronged Arjun a lot . A lot . Right from dumping him the first time to not telling him about the babies to filling his baby with hate about him to not allowing him to mourn his dead baby , to exchanging his blood , there has been injustice to Arjun , he ultimately got NOTHING in his whole life ...the way his children were taken away from him for no fault of his is the ultimate pain of a father .

Lets not make it a woman's issue for the sake of it . Purvi needs to apologize to Arjun period . To the point the shares of his company went down and he lost credibility in the market and suffered economic loss , he has been terribly wronged . He has been wrong in many many things , especially his equation with his kids , but he needs an apology . Making each issue a woman's issue and evading apology egoistically should not be ARVI exit is my only poiint .