Originally posted by: pallavi25
If a nice, gentlemanly-looking famous gynae proposes to her so impassionately, how will she refuse?😉 She was in a strange city without family and friends and Onir was her only friend there. So she agreed when he convinced her it would be very tough to bring up the baby alone without a father.
All the "modern thinking" about jeeju-saali that you advocated in another thread so impassionedly, just YESTERDAY got suddenly DUMPED for the usual VERY TRADITIONAL-its hard to be a single mother-jaap?! At least try to be consistent in your views!! Yesterday, on another thread you were bemoaning how many of us were not modern thinking enough to look past A&P's familial saali-jeeju relationship and recognize their true love for each other. How come you don't see-in YOUR "modern India" Women being good, successful single mothers? WHY is it paramount for the child to have a father's name suddenly? That is why many of us feel that Pari is little more than a pawn in their largely distasteful Love Games-its just plain hog-wash!
A " Modern"- RATHER bold young woman suddenly becomes coy and so needy that she CANT refuse a gentlemanly looking famous Gynae's marriage proposal???
WHY is she in a strange city? She couldn't let her family find out about her pregnancy.
WHY is her family not with her? Because SHE ran away from them.
Onir was her only friend?? You don't HAVE to marry your ONLY friend!
Onir told her it was difficult to bring up a baby without a father??? SHE DID'NT KNOW THIS??
REALLY-you like the character or the actress-FINE...but it is absurd to contradict YOURSELF in the defense of the indefensible in a FICTIONAL person.
You like the Amar Premis?? FINE!
But love logic MORE!!
PS= Ummm...You DO know that the "Modern India" you were so loftily talking about is a MINISCULE part of the 2% of Indians that live in the FOUR metropolitan CITIES??
In the rest of India-they are still burning their brides, discarding their wives for not producing a male heir, killing their children for marrying within the Gotras or outside the caste, they are still molesting and raping young girls, spurned lovers are still throwing acid on their one time "love of my life"???? So, pardon my snort of disbelief when you mouth platitudes about "modern thinking" Indians one day and revert to the traditional clap trap YOURSELF about "needing a father's name" the very next day.
Edited by RangiliDhanno - 12 years ago