STOP being a peeping Tom Onir... DTnote pg10/14 - Page 5

Originally posted by: ambolove

I'm sure if I heard correct, Ovi is to stay with Arjun until the divorce has come through and you know what that means? Poor Arjun won't be able to keep it down, resulting in another 'ACCIDENTAL' child between him and his 'BEST FRIEND'!

Oh and his excuse? 'I was dreaming of Purvi, oh shit! I thought you were PURVI!!! ARGHH!!!'

Some people claim Onir and Ovi to be the immature ones but why is it then that Onir only loved one person I.E Purvi, and Ovi only ever loved one person I.E Arjun.

Originally posted by: arvifanalways

I always love reading your posts and this one is spot on!! Poor arjun and purvi have the 2 O's that are just OBSESSED about them...in real life this could be a very creepy situation...

Originally posted by: pallavi25

If Ovi has to stay with Arjun for 6 months, how could she leave Mumbai and run away to Canada? She would not be allowed to by law to leave...otherwise she wouldnt get the divorce! Like Manav had to stay back in India earlier.

I suggest u watch the episode again where Archu tells Ovi that she will have to stay with Arjun for 6 months. Ovi clearly said she cannot do that, it will be impossible to her so she asked Sachin to expedite the divorce. Thus she could leave the country that night. Manav returned the papers to Sachin in defeat when they accepted Ovi's decision at last to get a fast track divorce.

Originally posted by: ambolove

I'm not sure where I lost you on my comment, 😕 It's perfectly clear. Look, Purvi and Onir married without telling anyone right? But the deshmukhs didn't know, so does that make the marriage invalid because they didn't know?? NO! Because they did it with religeous rights! Whatever the lies, the truth is still the fact that Onir LIED and the truth is he DID NOT have a first wife. It's perfectly clear then that ACCORDING to RELIGEON and NOT the deshmukhs that Purvi and Onir are still very much married. All I'm saying is first get the divorce then Purvi and Arjun can make love and have sex however much they want. I'd rather they do it with respect for not only their religeon but respect for each other and respect for their current partners by DIVORCING properly then getting MARRIED to each other properly.

P.S YES divorce can be expedited but all this means is that it can be fast tracked.

Originally posted by: ambolove

Apologies, I'm not an indian so I'm not sure exactly how FAST a fast track divorce is. Although I did read somewhere that indian law does not have the required services of a fast track divorce. But maybe that's quite old.

If I heard correct, with Archu's explanation Ovi said 'I know' As in she's willing to stay with Arjun but then again I might have been slightly distracted.

I always assumed a fast track divorce would take a couple of weeks in the least. Divorce is not that easy surely?

Originally posted by: pallavi25

But how will Purvi and Deshmukh know that Onir is lying abt his first marriage until he confesses that he lied? We as audience know, Onir knows, Shalu and Kinshuk know and the CVs know 😆...but how and when will Purvi and Deshmukhs know that Onir and Purvi marriage is STILL valid and Onir lied abt his 1st wife?

Only then Onir Purvi divorce can be planned, naa?

Do you get my point now?

BTW Onir Purvi had a court marriage, not a religious one.

I dont see Purvi and Arjun making love or having sex, why does SEX always come up in these debates? They are working together, travelling together to worksites, yes sometimes even touching each other, but not in bad places though,😆... so when did they have sex? 😕😆

I think they are more concerned abt Pari's future than when they can have sex! 😆

Marriage is not only abt sex, its abt commitment. And until Purvi can commit herself to Arjun completely without feeling guilty abt Ovi and the Deshmukhs, until then she would not agree to marry Arjun, I think.

Originally posted by: ambolove

Well I suppose that's the problem, but didn't Onir send divorce papers recently? Something about freeing Purvi.

But what get's on my last nerve is the fact that Arjun Purvi DIDN'T commit to each other before they consummated.

Commitment is extremely important. But where is it in Arjun and Purvi's story? Absolutely nowhere.

Right now, if they are deciding to fall in love again, I guess they need to commit first before anything else.

As for Pari, nurture VS nature and Nurture will always win. All she needs is Love and Care, both parent's do not need to be living together for her to grow up into a healthy good all rounded adult.

Though I agree that she needs guardians whom she can call Mother and Father. I don't necasserily agree that it HAS to be Arjun and Purvi. But since they are her biological parents... well good luck to them.