OVI - The character .

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Who is she ?

Honestly , even though I'm an ArVi fan I'd say Ovi isn't a vamp . I can't classify her as bad . I mean her character has got way too many flaws but that doesn't mean she's bad . I thouroughly dislike the way she behaves though . I NEVER understood why Ovi-Teju were poles apart it's like Teju was always with Manav and Ovi was always with Savita judging by their characters .



Now , Ovi can be good we've seen her being nice to Purvi sometimes during the time when both of them were pregnant and during her initial days in Mumbai . Also , what I've seen is once OVI wants something she gets it by hook or crook which obviously is wrong BUT it's not her fault completely , no one EVER objects Her DECISIONS . She's obsessive , I don't really think she LOVED Arjun considering the fact that when you love someone obviously you want to see them happy but OVI always wanted him for her Arjun was a TOY who ALWAYS belonged to her never did she count how he felt .



Now obviously after the leap , we all saw how much Arjun tried to make this relation work out . Even though it was harder for him to see her as a wife . She never moved on . She always suspected Purvi . She was ALWAYS insecure .



Ovi also isn't completely a flawed character like when She saw How Onir moved on with Purvi she wanted to do that , she tried to as well . I blame Manav and The D clan . No one ever gave her a piece of mind . For her everything works out in MINE . She's selfish agreed but again I can't say it's wrong either . Her character is by far the most confused , indecisive , obsessive but yet its got its good side as well .



So well I also think Ovi is a modern girl and sincerely hope she moves on with her career and gets a Partner as good as Onir because she needs someone like him . Also , she's wrong most of the times and screams and shouts . I never understood this character .


I'd like to know what you guys think too :)
Don't completely hate me .. I just thought about it this way 😊
Edited by Sarunforeva - 12 years ago

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well I don't think that it's NOT ovi's fault bcoz she is not kid to understand the things and just be stubborn to get everything she wants..she has her own..I agree it's manavs fault who has made her like this..but she is mature enough to take her decisions and understand the things...which she never did and only played as problems for other😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: neha333

Well I don't think that it's NOT ovi's fault bcoz she is not kid to understand the things and just be stubborn to get everything she wants..she has her own..I agree it's manavs fault who has made her like this..but she is mature enough to take her decisions and understand the things...which she never did and only played as problems for other😡



Agreed she is immature , creates problems for others but its about time to bring sense in that character . I'd like to She never understood anything . Even I hate her 🤢 but its because of all of the others who pamper her like she's a baby . 😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well, I disagree as I think she has definitely vampish traits in her character. Shes rude, offensive, disrespectful, neurotic and obsessive! I remember the way she behaved with Archana even before she knew Archu was her mother. She was treating Archu like a servant, ordering her around because to Ovi, she was just her father's employee who could be bullied and commanded according to her will. She told Archu to call her Ma'am! Inspite of Archu being much older to her!
Ovi behaved like a typical obnoxious rich kid who has an inflated sense of her own entitlement because of having a rich dad! I cannot stand such kids!
I also remember how Ovi demanded that the then pregnant Purvi be thrown out of Deshmukh house simply because she could not stand Purvi to be in the same house as her! What kind of girl could throw out a heavily pregnant girl (I wont even say sister as Ovi never considered Purvi as her sister) just for her own whims and jealousy? And that too after Purvi dragged Onir to Mumbai to treat Ovi's pregnancy? Ingratitude is the worst sin!
Only later, when Ovi thought Purvi had moved on in life with Onir, then she softened slightly towards Purvi. Even then her insecurity always made her flare up with jealousy whenever she spotted Purvi talking to Arjun!
I wont even talk abt the infamous deal made by Ovi as all 3 are to blame for the deal going through. But yes, Ovi was desperate enough to propose the deal knowing fully well that Arjun did not love her and she could only get his hatred or indifference by forcing him to marry her!

Teju has inherited her parents' basic goodness, Ovi has inherited only Savita's selfishness! It often happens that in a pair of twins, one is born with good traits and the other with bad traits. Teju and Ovi are examples of that!
And yes, her family is to blame for a lot of this because they pamper her too much and dont point out her follies or try to reform her. Manav is being so strict and harsh with Soham. If only he used half of that tough love towards Ovi, perhaps she would be a different person!
Edited by pallavi25 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25

Well, I disagree as I think she has definitely vampish traits in her character. Shes rude, offensive, disrespectful, obsessive! I remember the way she behaved with Archana even before she knew Archu was her mother. She was treating Archu like a servant, ordering her around because to Ovi, she was just her father's employee so could be bullied and commanded according to her will. She told Archu to call her Ma'am! Inspite of Archu being much older to her. Ovi behaved like a typical obnoxious rich kid who has an inflated sense of her own entitlement because of having a rich dad! I cannot stand such kids!

I also remember how Ovi demanded that the then pregnant Purvi be thrown out of Deshmukh house simply because she could not stand Purvi to be in the same house as her! What kind of girl could throw out a heavily pregnant girl (I wont even say sister as Ovi never considered Purvi as her sister) just for her own whims and jealousy? And that too after Purvi dragged Onir to Mumbai to treat Ovi's pregnancy? Ingratitude is the worst sin. Only later, when Ovi thought Purvi had moved on in life with Onir, then she softened slightly towards Purvi. Even then her insecurity always makes her flare up with jealousy whenever she spotted Purvi talking to Arjun!
I wont even talk abt the infamous deal made by Ovi as all 3 are to blame for the deal going through. But yes, Ovi was desperate enough to propose the deal knowing fully well that Arjun did not love her and she could only get his hatred or indifference by forcing him to marry her!

Teju has inherited her parents' basic goodness, Ovi has inherited only Savita's selfishness! It often happens that in a pair of twins, one is born with good traits and the other with bad traits. Teju and Ovi are examples of that!


Well of course , I agree with almost everything you said she's most ungrateful creature but also to say that people willingly gave everything to her . Archana never objected , Purvi never objected . Why doesn't anyone stand up against her . No I understand she's the most annoying , irritating and a horrible character but she i don't know her character can be modified into a nice one easily .
Edited by Sarunforeva - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sarunforeva


Well of course , I agree with almost everything you said she's most ungrateful creature but also to say that people willingly gave everything to her . Archana never objected , Purvi never objected . Why doesn't anyone stand up against her . No I understand she's the most annoying , irritating and a horrible character but she i don't know her character can be modified into a nice one easily .


Manav and Archana shd show some of the "tough love" they are showing towards Soham to reform him! Definitely, Ovi needs more reforming than Soham! 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25


Manav and Archana shd show some of the "tough love" they are showing towards Soham to reform him! Definitely, Ovi needs more reforming than Soham! 😆


So true and Soham understands situations so much better than OVI 😆 It is amusing how Manav never had problems with Ovi's behaviour judging by his attitude towards Soham .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ovi is the antagonist.

I agree her love for Arjun wasn't love but obsession and infatuation. At the same time, I think purvis love for Arjun isn't that great either. Her love for him comes at conditions -- her family's happiness.

Ovi made mistake of marrying Arjun. I think had she put he suspicions aside and showed more love and care towards Arjun then maybe their relation could have last. Arjun has told her he would never accept her as his wife but if ovi had taken this challenge and stayed strong it would have been great. Ovi should have thought ok, he doesnt want me but i will show him that im right for him. She could have easily showed that she was the better woman for him by showing him more and more love. Eventually he would have seen that inspite of him not accepting this woman she still loves and trusts him and the woman he loved (purvi) left him even though he accepted, gave himself sexually and cared for her so much.

I think he would have learned to love the one that loves you and realized Ovi's love was the real one. She was ready to give her life for him. But the CVs didn't show it like this. They showed her as the obsessive drinking suspicious wife. They had her focus on all the negatives which pushed Arjun away.

This is my opinion. 😆
Edited by sk11 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sk11

Ovi is the antagonist.

I agree her love for Arjun wasn't love but obsession and infatuation. At the same time, I don't think purvis love for Arjun isn't that great either. Her love for him comes at conditions -- her family's happiness.

Ovi made mistake of marrying Arjun. I think had she put he suspicions aside and showed more love and care towards Arjun then maybe their relation could have last. Arjun has told her he would never accept her as his wife but if ovi had taken this challenge and stayed strong it would have been great. Ovi should have thought ok, he doesnt want me but i will show him that im right for him. She could have easily showed that she was the better woman for him by showing him more and more love. Eventually he would have seen that inspite of him not accepting this woman she still loves and trusts him and the woman he loved (purvi) left him even though he accepted, gave himself sexually and cared for her so much.

I think he would have learned to love the one that loves you and realized Ovi's love was the real one. She was ready to give her life for him. But the CVs didn't show it like this. They showed her as the obsessive drinking suspicious wife. They had her focus on all the negatives which pushed Arjun away.

This is my opinion. 😆


I respect your opinion but I never think Arjun would love Ovi . Even though they would have moved on their relation would be based on ADJUSTMENT not ACCEPTANCE . So I don't think he'd love her .
You know she reminds me of those Aunty types waali wives who suspect their husbands and stuff like they show in Ekta seriously . I hate myself for being so stereotype . Forgive me . 😭
Edited by Sarunforeva - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I respect you opinion but I think that if their relation would have have been about adjustment then isn't that acceptance? You have to accept a person in order to adjust with them. This happens in love marriages too. Adjustment is part of life. You must adjust and adapt to everything in life.

I am an arvi fan but I think Arjun would have learned to love Ovi and you don't. I guess we'll never know :)

But personally if I had to choose between two people like in this case where one left u for family and the other wanted me by hook/crook...I would pick the person who did the hook:crook thing. I know it was wrong but hey why stay with the one who left you? What's guarantee they won't leave again even if you stay together?

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