It is not apavitra rishta

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't really understand why people keep posting this same stuff over and over again. Arjun and Purvi had NO INTIMATE relationship after their separation so there is NOTHING apavitra about their rishta. I do not see any reason to hold these two to higher moral standards than regular people. They were separated for reasons other than misunderstandings or incompatibility, they were completely in love with each other even until the day of Arjun and Ovi's marriage ( Purvi's decision here was wrong and everyone can agree upon that.) So even after a year later it is not unjustified to have feelings for someone whom you have loved deeply enough to want to spend the rest of your life with, especially if you are forced to see them so often. (Im assuming lot of you have watched Hum Aapke Hai Kaun..which was a hit and Madhuri was to marry her brother in law - so if you want to come up with the saali-jeeju rishta argument...)

I think both of them have made a legitimate efforts to work out their marriage..maybe you could blame purvi for not being intimate with Onir, while Arjun has. Regardless, the bigger reason that Arjun/Ovi marriage did not work out is that it was because they were forcing feelings that were not there...in real life people can go their whole lifetime being ok with this. Ovi was not ok with having just mutual understanding but not the deeper love that she saw him have for Purvi...she tried and gave up...hence the video message she left arjun before she went to Canada.

Anyways, that's my two cents.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Completely agree with U. I am really tired this nonsense stupid debate who are all time dragging same thing.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Completely agree with your post! I have argued abt this too, but then I retired...when people just want to spew hatred without any logic, what can one do? 🥱
Since Arjun Ovi marriage, ArVi have never been intimate...so where is the apavitrata?
Oh, and according to some, hugs and eyelocks are called intimacy...😆
When 2 people love each other they cannot just turn off the feelings for each other, especially when they have a child together.
And when they do reunite, Im sure they would have divorced their respective spouses and then they can legally remarry each other. People do remarry, first marriages go wrong, either incompatible, or no love, no feelings, then its better to divorce especially when there is no kid and both sides agree to divorce. Ovi already agreed, now Onir is also removing himself from Purvi's life. And then ArVi can reunite without any impediments. 😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25

Completely agree with your post! I have argued abt this too, but then I retired...when people just want to spew hatred without any logic, what can one do? 🥱

Since Arjun Ovi marriage, ArVi have never been intimate...so where is the apavitrata?
Oh, and according to some, hugs and eyelocks are called intimacy...😆
When 2 people love each other they cannot just turn off the feelings for each other, especially when they have a child together.
And when they do reunite, Im sure they would have divorced their respective spouses and then they can legally remarry each other. People do remarry, first marriages go wrong, either incompatible, or no love, no feelings, then its better to divorce especially when there is no kid and both sides agree to divorce. Ovi already agreed, now Onir is also removing himself from Purvi's life. And then ArVi can reunite without any impediments. 😃



Very Good Post Pallavi Di. I completely agree with U. Eagerly waiting ARVI united with Pari. All Arjun-Purvi-Pari need to each others. No one between them.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Pi agree, this whole jeeju saali argument is full of crap. The ONLY most important thing we need to understand is that Arjun and purvi are parents of pari.

For me and majority of viewers, pavitra rishta is Arjun, purvi and pari😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: arvifanalways

Pi agree, this whole jeeju saali argument is full of crap. The ONLY most important thing we need to understand is that Arjun and purvi are parents of pari.


For me and majority of viewers, pavitra rishta is Arjun, purvi and pari😃



Completely agree with U. 👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I wish that Purvi is able to see the selfishness of the people whom she had considered her family.She gave up everything she had for them and these people are behaving with her like an urchin. she need to go far away from this madding crowd called Deshmukhs and Karanjkars and build her own little world full of happiness with Arjun, Pari. Purvi has no one on her side. Perfect timing for both Arjun and Purvi to now support each other.

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