Onir 1:Warning Pg6&16:Mod note Pg17 - Page 2

Originally posted by: MissMona

@rayadille
you already make your conclusion about onir having an affair although the truth not come out yet.

If you feel that way, then so be it.

But I have not made any conclusion as yet since I too am waiting for the revelation of Onir's secret that he is keeping. I made my point based on your comments about purvi's affair with arjun as I think the same argument can be used in Onir's case if we want to be fair.

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

I think most marriages (arranged) start off without love and many a times , people don't fall in love but they stay in the marriage because of mutual understanding.

Loveless or lovefull lol , doesn't matter

As long as you are in a marriage you should respect your spouse

Whether you're a woman or a man , in no case should extra marital affair be justified.

I am sorry but if I love someone else prior to my marriage (purvi's case) and for that reason I really cannot move on, then it would be best for me to walk away from that marriage. Walking away from a marriage does not mean that I dont have a mutual understanding with my spouse. It simply means that both of us would be better and happier individuals if we go our separate ways rather than having to live in a marriage that is burdensome. Sticking to a marriage and just going thru the motions really doesn't matter?

No one is justifying extra marital affair. Where did this surface from? I am saying that purvi is not having an extra marital affair with arjun neither has arjun with purvi. Just for the records, an extramarital affair is a relationship outside of marriage where an illicit romantic or sexual relationship or a romantic friendship or passionate attachment occurs. Is this really what is happening between purvi and arjun?

I am simply saying that by virtue of the arguments that purvi is having an affair with arjun, then Onir can be blamed for the same. therefore, if we say Onir is not having an affair, then we can also say the same for purvi. the same standard applies in both instances.

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

I think most marriages (arranged) start off without love and many a times , people don't fall in love but they stay in the marriage because of mutual understanding.

Loveless or lovefull lol , doesn't matter

As long as you are in a marriage you should respect your spouse

Whether you're a woman or a man , in no case should extra marital affair be justified.

Originally posted by: muse10

I am not sure if the Onir-Purvi marriage is loveless, at least on his side. In the weeks before the delivery - there were many sweet moments when Purvi was asleep and Onir gently put blanket on her or caressed her hair wishing that he could express his love.

This strange track seems totally a result of the pressures CVs might be feeling to bring Purvi and Arjun together. But in succumbing to the pressures they have taken away the dignity of a character well-liked by so many. It is not at all in keeping with how Onir's character was initially developed. And yes, a person can have a darker side behind a sweet exterior. But soliloquies are supposed to reveal a character's inner thoughts. And in a number of earlier soliloquies Onir revealed his deep love for Purvi in a selfless manner. This track indeed such a strange turn!!!

On purvi's part, the marriage is loveless. She never really showed any love for Onir, it was just simply care, respect and commitment.

The track is indeed a strange turn like the turns before this when purvi was portrayed in a different light, then all of a sudden we had pre marital sex, baby donation, her marrying Onir etc etc. Like wise arjun too was such a good boy, he loved purvi, did so much to gain her mother's confidence and then too decide to marry Ovi in the name of love for purvi. the characters of arjun and purvi was butchered so much by the CV's, so I guess its now Onir's turn.

Originally posted by: muse10

I am not sure if the Onir-Purvi marriage is loveless, at least on his side. In the weeks before the delivery - there were many sweet moments when Purvi was asleep and Onir gently put blanket on her or caressed her hair wishing that he could express his love.

This strange track seems totally a result of the pressures CVs might be feeling to bring Purvi and Arjun together. But in succumbing to the pressures they have taken away the dignity of a character well-liked by so many. It is not at all in keeping with how Onir's character was initially developed. And yes, a person can have a darker side behind a sweet exterior. But soliloquies are supposed to reveal a character's inner thoughts. And in a number of earlier soliloquies Onir revealed his deep love for Purvi in a selfless manner. This track indeed such a strange turn!!!

How onir lost his job coz of purvi? Lets blame purvi for every thing is new rule of this forum.

She asked him to replace baby but i dont think onir was on gun point. Lol Famous dialogue of forum.

When a doctor is on duty he is only commited to his patient I guess at the time of baby swap both ovi and purvi were his patients. His duty was to put some sense in purvi's khali bheja and inform arjuna and ovi about death of baby.

But he was so excited to overtake arjun in competition of joru ka ghulaam. If we cant blame ovi for arvi seperation so lets apply same logic with purvi.

Coming to marriage. I m fed up with discussion of once u r married just live in it like hell. No matter u r happy or sad just go on for the ske of sindoor and mangalsutra. Its coming from Dill mill gayye forum. Same argument sindoor, mangalsutra and phera. So these materialistic things r more important than ur life.? Just move on if u r not happy. Not as arvi fan but as an unbias viewer i really want four of them to go out of this mess which they created on the name of marraige.

I really want arjun, purvi, onir and ovi to take life seriously (i know i m demanding much from this melodramatic show and if they started taking sensible decision that would be last day of the show) but seriously how could u stay in marriage where there is only one sided love? If arjun and purvi dont want to ruin their mahaan status better they stay alone bt end this stuff known as marriage. For me peace is in life is more important.

Originally posted by: ..aastha..

How onir lost his job coz of purvi? Lets blame purvi for every thing is new rule of this forum.

She asked him to replace baby but i dont think onir was on gun point. Lol Famous dialogue of forum.

When a doctor is on duty he is only commited to his patient I guess at the time of baby swap both ovi and purvi were his patients. His duty was to put some sense in purvi's khali bheja and inform arjuna and ovi about death of baby.

But he was so excited to overtake arjun in competition of joru ka ghulaam. If we cant blame ovi for arvi seperation so lets apply same logic with purvi.

Coming to marriage. I m fed up with discussion of once u r married just live in it like hell. No matter u r happy or sad just go on for the ske of sindoor and mangalsutra. Its coming from Dill mill gayye forum. Same argument sindoor, mangalsutra and phera. So these materialistic things r more important than ur life.? Just move on if u r not happy. Not as arvi fan but as an unbias viewer i really want four of them to go out of this mess which they created on the name of marraige.

I really want arjun, purvi, onir and ovi to take life seriously (i know i m demanding much from this melodramatic show and if they started taking sensible decision that would be last day of the show) but seriously how could u stay in marriage where there is only one sided love? If arjun and purvi dont want to ruin their mahaan status better they stay alone bt end this stuff known as marriage. For me peace is in life is more important.

mostly definitely. Peace and happiness is most important in one's life. Staying in a burdensome relationship for the sake of it is useless and may lead to all kinds of stress related illnesses.

Originally posted by: rayadallie

mostly definitely. Peace and happiness is most important in one's life. Staying in a burdensome relationship for the sake of it is useless and may lead to all kinds of stress related illnesses.

Thats the point. And honestly coz of ghisa pita marraige they r creating tamasha in others life too. Arjun and purvi should decide to take all blame, slaps, lectures, bhashans and sanskari batein in one day and end the crap forever. I seriously dont understand how they r living with so much disturbance? Purvi with lectures of all deshmukh over smart people, arjun taking shit from manav every day, ovi getting more and more addicted with alcohole and onir playing with multiple women. I cant tolerate such disturbance in my life.Just end and go on ur way forever. But its ekta show lol. Creating complications and problem is their fav hobby.

First of all, as Ovi's doctor, Onir should have forbidden her from going on that trip to whatever temple they were going to...he could have told Archu, Sorry Ayi, Ovi should not go as it may complicate her pregnancy even more. Usually "at risk" pregnancies are treated with kid gloves by doctors, patients are advised not to travel, especially by car on such bumpy roads. 😆