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@ParinConnects

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Posted: 12 years ago

#41

first of all this entire post is about onir, arjun and purvi...i didnt understood what was the need to drag ovi here 😕 😕 ..so fine it happens now as ovi is connected with arjun so we can drag her..fine...

now starting with what topic maker wants to convey..My review about the entire post is just as below...here is start my case and my request to everyone is to first complete reading it and then pass judgement 😆 😆

Now if i was in Onir's place then- --

First of all i wouldnt have asked an unwed pregnant women to marry me. Yeah i would have supported her..but marriage..K..i can understand people are tend to make mistakes...and this was the biggest mistake the onir did

and see he is still repenting for his mistakes...

ok he did a mistake but i dont understood one thing..he did all this because he has some good feelings for purvi...

he was always shown as being in love with Purvi...and see he also confessed the same to Purvi when he was drunk..and as far as i know when a person is drunk he is bound to say truth right 😕 ..

and now all of a sudden the so called goody goody man and so called caring husband and so called lover is suddenly shown with grey shade

but why now all of sudden and that too when he is not in kolkata...where were this kb and shalini at that time when he was in kolkata...😕 😕

this is totally undigestable for those viewers who doesnt have time to talk about every episodes like v net surfers do on this forum...they just see the episode today and with that thought they are bound to see the next episode which catches them...now i think majority of the audience not liking this goody over sweetness man turning negative and people are just changing their channels or turning of their tvs...😆 😆 ..because after all they also demand some entertainment which is worth watching and not seeing something which suddenly turns out of the box 🤣

Now according me there can be only two reasons behind onir's such a behavior -

1. First is the he was always like this -

now if the first one is right then as i said before what was all the drama of loving purvi and her to be born child unconditionally. 😲 😕 ...

i know he also made the mistake to swap babies on the insistence of purvi..he shouldnt have done dat and for that he has deserved his punishment...he lost doctor's practice certificate and that was worth and he deserved that...but than too at one point he did the baby swapping act on purvi's saying as he loved her and at time he didnt thought about being a doctor he was thinking about being a good husband doing joru ka gulam duty for purvi... 😭 😭 ... so if he was always like this and why he did all this drama of loving purvi and telling in the drunk state that he loved her...

Also if he was always like this then why didnt he used purvi when purvi went ahead and told him to lets consumate our marriage...if he wanted he would have used her at that time and i would have be 100% sure then that he is negative since start ...

totally unacceptable atleast to me 👎🏼

2. Second is that Onir is really suffering from any kind of mental disorder -

Now all of a sudden the goody man is turning negative then i could only think of this option only..he is suffering from split personality which is making him do like this..his one personality is making him love purvi 😆 😆 😉 and his other personality is making him negative by taking the support of kb and shalini 😆 😆

so i think he seriously needs to be sent to mental hospital for proper treatment..so that his mind can decide on which side he is

So that's all i wanted to say..and before resting my case i would just say onir this thing ---

Aisa na kar na kar na kar na kar na kar na kar onir yaar

And now for haters who dont like my pov are free to scroll down rather then quoting it and making an issue out of it...😛

thank for u patience reading 😉 😆

Edited by pkarvi - 12 years ago

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

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Posted: 12 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: arvifanalways
Aree yaar, onir's time is up. Time for him to be thrown out of the show. he is the most boring person on the show with his non stop fake diabetes inducing dialogues. Any time spent on him on this show is time wasted. The psycho onir is still better than mishta, but having said that i still think writers need to get rid of him🤢

A final warning regarding name calling of actors/characters ... Words like psycho or Mishta will no more b tolerated and might result in strict action including member ban

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pari87

@pari87

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Posted: 12 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: rayadallie

I am sorry but if I love someone else prior to my marriage (purvi's case) and for that reason I really cannot move on, then it would be best for me to walk away from that marriage. Walking away from a marriage does not mean that I dont have a mutual understanding with my spouse. It simply means that both of us would be better and happier individuals if we go our separate ways rather than having to live in a marriage that is burdensome. Sticking to a marriage and just going thru the motions really doesn't matter?

No one is justifying extra marital affair. Where did this surface from? I am saying that purvi is not having an extra marital affair with arjun neither has arjun with purvi. Just for the records, an extramarital affair is a relationship outside of marriage where an illicit romantic or sexual relationship or a romantic friendship or passionate attachment occurs. Is this really what is happening between purvi and arjun?

I am simply saying that by virtue of the arguments that purvi is having an affair with arjun, then Onir can be blamed for the same. therefore, if we say Onir is not having an affair, then we can also say the same for purvi. the same standard applies in both instances.

See, disclaimer I am not looking to argue or fight...simply wanting to understand your logic and reasoning behind this idea...

You have written yourself that an extra-marital affair is a relationship outside of marriage where an illicit or sexual relationship or a romantic friendship or passionate attachment occurs...

What is between arjun and purvi., is it not a passionate attachment? If not, they still love each other? Outside of their respective marriages? RIGHT> This is the basis on which you all want this arvi re-union to happen...So when this is what you claim as an extra-marital affair..then why make claims that it is not? It does not matter if they loved each other before their respective marirages, but if they still meet and Arjun still confesses his love and purvi still shows him how much she loves him, it is an extra-marital relationship...This is what you highlighted yourself...forget jeeja-saali, because that you guys contend every now and then...but...as 2 adults in different marriages loving one another, but not their spouses..what do you call that?

If they love each other, no problem yaar..But why not behave like grown up adults, confess that they made mistakes, by accepting a deal, by agreeing to a deal, by marrying another man just for the sake of the baby and now they still realize they love each other...why this naatak of trying to work on their marriages, while clearly holding the torch for each other instead...one has sex with his wife while being in love with purvi, one cares for husband and does not want him to leave her for another woman, while not giving him any pati ka darja...what are they proving exactly?

Why are the very smart adults apparetnly wronged by Ovi and the D family and so bichara in love with each other, cannot walk out of their marriages, divorce the spouse and get back together? Why wait for Onir to come up with a past or for Ovi to leave him first.. ?

And if you claim that they are WORKING on their marriages and have no affair or passionate attachment between them, why should they re-unite? Because they are parents to Pari? Are children with separated parents not brought up nicely? Are their parents forced to get back together for child's sake? I don't think that's how it works. If they have separated, they have separated and both parents give child equal love and in this case Pari has a foster father too in Onir. ( we don't know ywt if Onir is evil so let's not rule out his niceness so far)..so why should the parents re-unite just for Pari's sake? In that case, if Ovi comes up with her baby with Arjun later, should they both also re-unite for the sake of their bio child? Is that how it will work then?

Just wanting to know logic behind this?

Edited by pari87 - 12 years ago

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soniiyaa

@soniiyaa

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Posted: 12 years ago

#44

Pari87 ... Sadly we have to wait until the CVs think its time for them to be grown adults and leave their marriages. Until then we must continue to watch hopelessly...& just wait for the time the orginal purvi and Arjun come back who wouldn't have ever done any of this based upon their character sketches at the time.

So we wait.

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And to add to the why they should reunite. I ask you why not? Two people who were actually committed and IN LOVE and actually proved this love to their parents were set to marry and it didn't happen because of ovi's deal. Wasn't this this just as illogical? Even though the deal was made it was only fulfilled on one side which was purvis. Ovi did not complete her deal. But that's that.

Now it's discoverc they have a child together and are in love and care about each other so WHY NOT be reunited?

People divorce or separate when relationships fail. Arvis relationship didn't fail. At that point its better for a couple to stay away for each other especially for kids sake so they sont fight infront of them. arvi relationship didnt fail...It was manipulated. So if Arjun and ovi do have a child...it's still a loveless marriage as romantic love is only from ovi side and then just a mutual understanding is on Arjun's side. I mean if I were a dude and was with a woman who drank during her pregnancy etc and constantly accused me of cheating I would leave that marriage...child or not.

Personally I think it's high time arvi reunite so PR can move on in terms of track. I'm not a fan of arvi but we all know they're the leads and meant to be so why not just complete the track so we can get a new track?

Edited by sk11 - 12 years ago

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rayadallie

@rayadallie

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Posted: 12 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: pari87

See, disclaimer I am not looking to argue or fight...simply wanting to understand your logic and reasoning behind this idea...

You have written yourself that an extra-marital affair is a relationship outside of marriage where an illicit or sexual relationship or a romantic friendship or passionate attachment occurs...

What is between arjun and purvi., is it not a passionate attachment? If not, they still love each other? Outside of their respective marriages? RIGHT> This is the basis on which you all want this arvi re-union to happen...So when this is what you claim as an extra-marital affair..then why make claims that it is not? It does not matter if they loved each other before their respective marirages, but if they still meet and Arjun still confesses his love and purvi still shows him how much she loves him, it is an extra-marital relationship...This is what you highlighted yourself...forget jeeja-saali, because that you guys contend every now and then...but...as 2 adults in different marriages loving one another, but not their spouses..what do you call that?

If they love each other, no problem yaar..But why not behave like grown up adults, confess that they made mistakes, by accepting a deal, by agreeing to a deal, by marrying another man just for the sake of the baby and now they still realize they love each other...why this naatak of trying to work on their marriages, while clearly holding the torch for each other instead...one has sex with his wife while being in love with purvi, one cares for husband and does not want him to leave her for another woman, while not giving him any pati ka darja...what are they proving exactly?

Why are the very smart adults apparetnly wronged by Ovi and the D family and so bichara in love with each other, cannot walk out of their marriages, divorce the spouse and get back together? Why wait for Onir to come up with a past or for Ovi to leave him first.. ?

And if you claim that they are WORKING on their marriages and have no affair or passionate attachment between them, why should they re-unite? Because they are parents to Pari? Are children with separated parents not brought up nicely? Are their parents forced to get back together for child's sake? I don't think that's how it works. If they have separated, they have separated and both parents give child equal love and in this case Pari has a foster father too in Onir. ( we don't know ywt if Onir is evil so let's not rule out his niceness so far)..so why should the parents re-unite just for Pari's sake? In that case, if Ovi comes up with her baby with Arjun later, should they both also re-unite for the sake of their bio child? Is that how it will work then?

Just wanting to know logic behind this?

@red I am wondering if you actually read my entire definition or you just choose to read a part of it. Just for clarity, I will restate the definition how it should read if you were to choose the bold part as you seem to have done. 'an extramarital affair is a relationship outside of marriage where a romantic friendship or passionate attachment occurs'
Now, I would choose not to bother about your assumptions but to answer based on my definition. Is it really a relationship that arjun and purvi is having outside of marriage? When was it arjun confessed his love for purvi? I thought he almost told her but did not actually say it. Moreover, you make it seem as if Arjun and purvi meets on a regular basis to have this relationship/affair and profess their love for each other as if being married does not matter. I dont think this is what I saw in PR. I may have to relook at the past episodes as I may have missed this important bit.

Regarding the rest of the post, I dont think that purvi is waiting for an excuse to walk away from Onir. She has been trying to keep her marriage in tact . She never come out and say to arjun that she still loves him and that she wants to leave Onir and so lets wait and see what his secret is and we will decide if we should get married. She does not even know that Onir is hiding something important from her. Arjun is now trying to find out what the secret is also. She is asking arjun to work on his marriage too. They are already in what they are in. So its totally unfair to say that they should just decide to walk away if they still love each other and also to claim that they have an affair outside of their respective marriage.

I am not saying that purvi and arjun should reunite just for pari. They should reunite because they love each other and whatever they share its special. Pari is a result of that bond they share and is an added responsibility to both of them and an added reason why they should reunite but its not the only reason. I would be the first to say that children do grow up with one parent or both parents living separately and turn out to be good and respected individuals in society. So I am in no way saying that pari cannot grow up without her parents reuniting. What I do say is that if her parents are still in love with each other and are both currently living in loveless marriages for whatever reasons, then its best they walk away from those marriages and get married and be together and bring up their daughter pari in a loving and happy home. All will be happy in such a situation - ARJUN, PURVI, ONIR, OVI AND APRI.

Edited by rayadallie - 12 years ago

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Shweta laxman

@-Stardust-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: rayadallie

@red I am wondering if you actually read my entire definition or you just choose to read a part of it. Just for clarity, I will restate the definition how it should read if you were to choose the bold part as you seem to have done. 'an extramarital affair is a relationship outside of marriage where a romantic friendship or passionate attachment occurs'
Now, I would choose not to bother about your assumptions but to answer based on my definition. Is it really a relationship that arjun and purvi is having outside of marriage? When was it arjun confessed his love for purvi? I thought he almost told her but did not actually say it. Moreover, you make it seem as if Arjun and purvi meets on a regular basis to have this relationship/affair and profess their love for each other as if being married does not matter. I dont think this is what I saw in PR. I may have to relook at the past episodes as I may have missed this important bit.

Regarding the rest of the post, I dont think that purvi is waiting for an excuse to walk away from Onir. She has been trying to keep her marriage in tact . She never come out and say to arjun that she still loves him and that she wants to leave Onir and so lets wait and see what his secret is and we will decide if we should get married. She does not even know that Onir is hiding something important from her. Arjun is now trying to find out what the secret is also. She is also asking arjun to work on his marriage also. They are already in what they are in. So its totally unfair to say that they should just decide to walk away if they still love each other and also to claim that they have an affair outside of their respective marriage.

I am not saying that purvi and arjun should reunite just for pari. They should reunite because they love each other and whatever they share its special. Pari is a result of that bond they share and is an added responsibility to both of them and an added reason why they should reunite but its not the only reason. I would be the first to say that children do grow up with one parent or both parents living separately and turn out to be good and respected individuals in society. So I am in no way saying that pari cannot grow up without her parents reuniting. What I do say is that if her parents are still in love with each other and are both currently living in loveless marriages for whatever reasons, then its best they walk away from those marriages and get married and be together and bring up their daughter pari in a loving and happy home. All will be happy in such a situation - ARJUN, PURVI, ONIR, OVI AND APRI.

Wonderful post ray! 👏
U explained ua pov beautifully and i wholeheartedly agree with it

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Winzy

@nicegirl_good

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Posted: 12 years ago

#47

Why is ovi always dragged here

Right now the. Situation doesn't even involve ovi

It's arvi and punir

Not ovi

People leave no occasion to dwell on Ovi's mistakes

Purvi is allowed to cross all boundaries but one mistake of ovi is always repeated

God

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soniiyaa

@soniiyaa

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird
Why is ovi always dragged here
Right now the. Situation doesn't even involve ovi
It's arvi and punir
Not ovi
People leave no occasion to dwell on Ovi's mistakes
Purvi is allowed to cross all boundaries but one mistake of ovi is always repeated
God

I think because she is the antagonist or whatever you call it in the show. She's one of the main characters and her deal began this track. It's good though na? Ovi gets importance!

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pari87

@pari87

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Posted: 12 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: rayadallie
See, disclaimer I am not looking to argue or fight...simply wanting to understand your logic and reasoning behind this idea...

You have written yourself that an extra-marital affair is a relationship outside of marriage where an illicit or sexual relationship or a romantic friendship or passionate attachment occurs...

What is between arjun and purvi., is it not a passionate attachment? If not, they still love each other? Outside of their respective marriages? RIGHT> This is the basis on which you all want this arvi re-union to happen...So when this is what you claim as an extra-marital affair..then why make claims that it is not? It does not matter if they loved each other before their respective marirages, but if they still meet and Arjun still confesses his love and purvi still shows him how much she loves him, it is an extra-marital relationship...This is what you highlighted yourself...forget jeeja-saali, because that you guys contend every now and then...but...as 2 adults in different marriages loving one another, but not their spouses..what do you call that?

If they love each other, no problem yaar..But why not behave like grown up adults, confess that they made mistakes, by accepting a deal, by agreeing to a deal, by marrying another man just for the sake of the baby and now they still realize they love each other...why this naatak of trying to work on their marriages, while clearly holding the torch for each other instead...one has sex with his wife while being in love with purvi, one cares for husband and does not want him to leave her for another woman, while not giving him any pati ka darja...what are they proving exactly?

Why are the very smart adults apparetnly wronged by Ovi and the D family and so bichara in love with each other, cannot walk out of their marriages, divorce the spouse and get back together? Why wait for Onir to come up with a past or for Ovi to leave him first.. ?

And if you claim that they are WORKING on their marriages and have no affair or passionate attachment between them, why should they re-unite? Because they are parents to Pari? Are children with separated parents not brought up nicely? Are their parents forced to get back together for child's sake? I don't think that's how it works. If they have separated, they have separated and both parents give child equal love and in this case Pari has a foster father too in Onir. ( we don't know ywt if Onir is evil so let's not rule out his niceness so far)..so why should the parents re-unite just for Pari's sake? In that case, if Ovi comes up with her baby with Arjun later, should they both also re-unite for the sake of their bio child? Is that how it will work then?

Just wanting to know logic behind this?

ummm, yes maybe you should...loving a man instrinsically while being married to another man is called mental cheating...I don't know what moral code is followed in the world, but this is how I see marriage...it's been a year, 365 full days to their marriages...by now they should have known they cannot move on from their past or they should have completely gotten over it and been happy with their spouses...Mature people accept the realities of their life and act accordingly...these two go on loving each other for 1 year while faking the marriage..You cannot be working on your marriage, while going on loving and meeting your ex...Yes, if you really want to work on your marriage, then even if you have a baby together, avoid him until you can move on completely and ask your husband to help out with sending baby to bio dad/meeting bio dad for baby's needs...You do not have such intimate encounters with your ex, while claiming to work on your marriage ( train incident, where arjun blatantly asks her if she has been able to forget him...such questions in a supposed marriage from an ex are simply inappropriate). hugging your ex (during the courtroom scene) especially when you are WORKING on your marriage and still have feelings for him is outright inappropriate..i wonder if husbands and wives fo such spouses simply have to look at it as "working on marriage" while they hug their exes publicly in front of you...if you so love another man, walk out of your marriage...divorce is an acceptable ground...why lead another man on for eternity, while holding torch for ex forever? What sense does that make? it has been 1 year and neither arjun nor purvi have moved on supposedly in their marriages...so why are they still hanging on? Working on a marriage in this lame possible way - husband sleeping on floor, wife being neglected. while you are continuing thoughts about ex...what working on marriage?

Regarding the rest of the post, I dont think that purvi is waiting for an excuse to walk away from Onir. She has been trying to keep her marriage in tact . She never come out and say to arjun that she still loves him and that she wants to leave Onir and so lets wait and see what his secret is and we will decide if we should get married. She does not even know that Onir is hiding something important from her. Arjun is now trying to find out what the secret is also. She is asking arjun to work on his marriage too. They are already in what they are in. So its totally unfair to say that they should just decide to walk away if they still love each other and also to claim that they have an affair outside of their respective marriage.

I am all for this re-union if you ask me...Looking at them torture their respective spouses and still hold some amar prem ka diya for each other is ridiculous...there are babies born and babies dead...and they still haven't been able to move on from each other...love still persists...so why still work on this sham of a marriage? Why blame Ovi and Onir? Why can't two adults simply make up their minds instead of leading their partners falsely on and re-unite? Why did Ovi have to leave Arjun? She had declared one month into their marriage that she was ready to move on and could not handle his obsession with purvi..why he went back to beg a second chance when he was clearly not happy with her? What was stopping him?

Purvi has accepted her life with Onir it seems and I will take that. Let us leave aside her, because I see her actions a certain way and you see hers a different way. Purvi got into this marriage by consensual agreement...He asked, she said yes, no underhand deals. So let's give a shot to her. But arjun from night 1 into his marriage knew about the deal, one month later he knew he could not get over purvi and ovi was ready to quit on him..so why go beg for one more chance? Chalo theek hai he did, but could never get over Purvi...which is a fact...so why not walk out instead of leading your wife on falsely..?

I am not saying that purvi and arjun should reunite just for pari. They should reunite because they love each other and whatever they share its special. Pari is a result of that bond they share and is an added responsibility to both of them and an added reason why they should reunite but its not the only reason. I would be the first to say that children do grow up with one parent or both parents living separately and turn out to be good and respected individuals in society. So I am in no way saying that pari cannot grow up without her parents reuniting. What I do say is that if her parents are still in love with each other and are both currently living in loveless marriages for whatever reasons, then its best they walk away from those marriages and get married and be together and bring up their daughter pari in a loving and happy home. All will be happy in such a situation - ARJUN, PURVI, ONIR, OVI AND APRI.

Last part, I agree. I think 4 of them will be happier if arjun-purvi re-unite, simply because watching them pine for each other will never give happiness to their spouses (won't even be justice) and arjun-purvi can never seem to be happy with anyone else but each other. So I do hope they re-unite and give us something new to look forward to instead of this ghisa pita sadness they are going on showing...This way hopefully forum war will end and you guys will be happy and if Ovi gets the right treatment to her character, some of us will be happy and if onir is not shown in a negative light and given a decent track/farewell onir fans will be happy...but simply to re-unite two consenting adults by making onir a criminal and ovi some drunkard, that is simply ridiculous..because if 2 people love each other, they should not wait so that their spouses falter in the relationship, they should be adult and brave enough to re-unite for the sake of their love and spare their marriages this second hand treatment...THAT will be justice and I won't complain if they re-unite. I might actually stop commenting on them completely cuz by one bold, brave move they will redeem this pathetic quadrangle they are creating, which is childish and really ridiculous to watch

Edited by pari87 - 12 years ago

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soniiyaa

@soniiyaa

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#50

Again pari87 what you say why can't they just reunite already and let others live... Spot on. I've been wanting the same.

You don't ever forget your first love especially in EK shows. And whts exactly stopping them and why don't they walk out? Ask the CVs... I want to ask the same of them. The questions you pose are relevant towards a real life couple ...not a fictional couple of EKs show. They cannot simply walk away without all the drama involved.

So we wait for the CVs.

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