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Winzy

@nicegirl_good

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Posted: 12 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: rayadallie
I am sorry but if I love someone else prior to my marriage (purvi's case) and for that reason I really cannot move on, then it would be best for me to walk away from that marriage. Walking away from a marriage does not mean that I dont have a mutual understanding with my spouse. It simply means that both of us would be better and happier individuals if we go our separate ways rather than having to live in a marriage that is burdensome. Sticking to a marriage and just going thru the motions really doesn't matter?

No one is justifying extra marital affair. Where did this surface from? I am saying that purvi is not having an extra marital affair with arjun neither has arjun with purvi. Just for the records, an extramarital affair is a relationship outside of marriage where an illicit romantic or sexual relationship or a romantic friendship or passionate attachment occurs. Is this really what is happening between purvi and arjun?

I am simply saying that by virtue of the arguments that purvi is having an affair with arjun, then Onir can be blamed for the same. therefore, if we say Onir is not having an affair, then we can also say the same for purvi. the same standard applies in both instances.

Why will you marry someone else if you can't move on

I mean in purvi's case she didn't have to get married

If I were her and loved Arjun some much I'd never marry anyone else UNLESS I could completely move on

See, , marriage is a commitment and why will I get into a commitment where my heart lies with so done else

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Winzy

@nicegirl_good

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: naomihyuga

well that situation is totally different from loving someone else n marrying someone ele

That's the point! You have no control over who you love but you do have control over who you marry

When Purvi and Onur got married they got married as friends

Purvi was never interested in getting out of the marriage

Even after they gave pari to ovi and Arjun

If purvi was not happy she could move out

But she didn't she stayed

And that's why they have a husband wife relationship

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

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Posted: 12 years ago

#23

If the marriage is loveless than why get into it to begin with?

Marriage is not a child's play nor is divorce..

There are repurcussion to each action.

It is not fair to Ovi or Onir..

ArJun and Purvi never should have married the people they married..

They should have married each other and we would have seen how long their so called love of the century lasted...

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soniiyaa

@soniiyaa

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Posted: 12 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: Dabulls23
If the marriage is loveless than why get into it to begin with?

Marriage is not a child's play nor is divorce..

There are repurcussion to each action.

It is not fair to Ovi or Onir..

ArJun and Purvi never should have married the people they married..

They should have married each other and we would have seen how long their so called love of the century lasted...

I wish ovi had used this logic and realized her love was one sided and let arvi be so purvi wouldn't be an unwed mother, wouldn't give her baby away, wouldn't have married onir etc etc etc

Kaash I wish she realized her love was an infatuation ...a one sided love and her marriage to this man would never work. Kaash...

Edited by sk11 - 12 years ago

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MissMona

@MissMona

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Posted: 12 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: Dabulls23
If the marriage is loveless than why get into it to begin with?

Marriage is not a child's play nor is divorce..

There are repurcussion to each action.

It is not fair to Ovi or Onir..

ArJun and Purvi never should have married the people they married..

They should have married each other and we would have seen how long their so called love of the century lasted...

arjun and purvi wanted to look as god and goddess.
but look what happened..many lives are ruined because of these two.

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Winzy

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Posted: 12 years ago

#26

But I support Arvi reunion

I am plain disgusted by both of them

But I think they should move on and do what they can right now

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

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Posted: 12 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: sk11

I wish ovi had used this logic and realized her love was one sided and let arvi be so purvi wouldn't be an unwed mother, wouldn't give her baby away, wouldn't have married onir etc etc etc

Kaash I wish she realized her love was an infatuation ...a one sided love and her marriage to this man would never work. Kaash...

So wish Arjun had realized that his feeling for Purvi was infatuation and not dump Ovi who he was engaged to...He should have never two timed with these 2 sisters...And here we are still stuck with Ovi and her deal...If Ovi's love was infatuation than she would not have suffered so much...Infatuation is what Arjun has for Purvi the indian novelty...

But I respect your opinion and so do I have right to my own 😃

Edited by Dabulls23 - 12 years ago

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soniiyaa

@soniiyaa

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Posted: 12 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: Dabulls23
So wish Arjun had realized that his feeling for Purvi was infatuation and not dump Ovi who he was engaged to...He should have never two timed with these 2 sisters...And here we are still stuck with Ovi and her deal...If Ovi's love was infatuation than she would not have suffered so much...Infatuation is what Arjun has for Purvi the indian novelty...

But I respect your opinion and so do I have right to my own 😃

I fail to see how Arjun's love for purvi is infatuation since he left everything (home, father, his name etc) to prove he's worthy of this female. But ok. He may have fallen for purvi while engaged to ovi but he fessed up to ovi which was the right thing to do. Ovi just couldn't set him free. So much so she had to sell her mother for Arjun. And purvi brought into it and sold Arjun... And still then ovi did not accept her aai...until the truth of savita was revealed.

Thanks for the respect tho! ;)

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

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Posted: 12 years ago

#29

Ovi has set Arjun free now so what is stopping him from getting in with his ex lover Purvi?

Trust me what Arjun is feeling for Purvi is nothing but Infatuation...he wants to go back and experience what he did with her once...Nothing more...She was a novelty, a challenge for him...

I dont want to repeat what I have said many many times regarding his love..

If he loved Purvi so much why would he marry Ovi, Sleep with her numerous times during their marriage and last but not least initiate romance in rain as Ovi was abt to leave him. BTW Aai like Archana does not deserve SOham, Ovi or Teju's love or respect...She abandoned them all...Savita has been the guinea pig to take the blame and the fall for Archana's kaands..Why? Because the son Manav is weak...He let his lust-weakness for Archana throw mother Savita under the bus...

Have you not seen in real life sometimes people are confused abt who they love or not??? I rest my case..

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soniiyaa

@soniiyaa

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Posted: 12 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: Dabulls23
Ovi has set Arjun free now so what is stopping him from getting in with his ex lover Purvi?

Trust me what Arjun is feeling for Purvi is nothing but Infatuation...he wants to go back and experience what he did with her once...Nothing more...She was a novelty, a challenge for him...

I dont want to repeat what I have said many many times regarding his love..

If he loved Purvi so much why would he marry Ovi, Sleep with her numerous times during their marriage and last but not least initiate romance in rain as Ovi was abt to leave him.

Have you not seen in real life sometimes people are confused abt who they love or not??? I rest my case..

This is way different now. Purvi is married now. There is no comparison in terms of time. Before they were all unmarried with no kids or weird ladies like kinshuk involved. Someone called the two Os onir and Ovi the big O which is obstacle. They both stand between them.

I'm sorry but I cannot trust you and believe Arjun's love his infatuation based upon your thinking he wants to experience that again or she's a novelty or a challenge. These are assumptions. Arjun never said purvi is an experience or novelty for him in the show.

He did and does love purvi very much because that night of the deal he argued over and over with purvi to not do such a thing until she made him by saying if he doesn't he never loved her. GOD KNOWS WHY but Arjun married ovi on purvis saying. Arjun slept with ovi after purvi kept saying if you love me you'll do it..etc. This is when Arjun and purvis characters became butchered.

As for Arjun sleeping with ovi etc. after a while you can learn to love anyone. Arjun did just that. He loves Ovi. She's his best friend and wife. He loves her but not in love with her. As far as what I've seen in PR Arjun has suffered emotionally remembering purvi etc but he has always tried to make his marriage work with ovi. Has he not? So much so he went to Canada after the girl.

But again all of this would have been avoided had ovi realized why go into a loveless marriage in the first place as you said.