Ovi or Purvi?:Mod note Pg7

Originally posted by: Veronica.

Some people hate Ovi and love Purvi. Fine! I understand. Everyone has their own favourites. But putting down Ovi to glorify Purvi isn't right at all.
Bashing Ovi won't make Purvi a saint.

Don't tell me that Purvi can ruin other's lives but Ovi can't ruin her own. Moreover, she is the 'unsanskaari' daughter, it is expected of her😉 so bc another one does it, it makes it okay?

u state that bashing ovi wont make purvi a saint. neither will bashing purvi make ovi a saint. ovi and purvi are wrong in their own ways. one with her stupid sacrifice and another with her me me me, im always the victim entitlement.

Don't tell me the alcoholism part. If she was drinking during pregnancy, it was injurious to her and 'her baby'. She was not harming anybody else. So if she was drinking, it was her problem, not her 'mistake' for which she can't be forgiven.

u have got to be joking. it was only her baby. then by your logic, when archana handed over soham to her crazy sister, she was only harming her baby so it was only her problem. by that logic then there is no need for child protective service. and it was hardly just "her" baby. r we forgetting the father here too or did ovi get pregnant on her own? and don't tell me arjun didnt care after he found out that his and ovi kid died. arjun faults do not negate ovi's selfishness.

Originally posted by: Veronica.

Some people hate Ovi and love Purvi. Fine! I understand. Everyone has their own favourites. But putting down Ovi to glorify Purvi isn't right at all.

And I have never seen anyone defending Purvi. Whenever someone posts something against Purvi, her supporters do come up to argue but the only thing they do is to criticize Ovi. Bashing Ovi won't make Purvi a saint.

Let's summarize what both did-

Ovi's mistake(s): The deal.
That's it!!! And she payed for it dearly.

In the end she accepted that she was wrong in separating Arjun Purvi and even left for Canada so that they can reunite. Why are people questioning the way in which she did it?

Some people have problem that why did she sleep with 'purvi's arjun' if she had to go. My answer: what was this 'purvi's arjun' doing at that time? Refusing her advances? Wait..what advances? He initiated it! She slept with him, because she loved him. What is 'purvi's arjun"'s excuse?
I mean if she had sex with Arjun before leaving him, what's so wrong in it? The fact is, she left him! She did what was required.
(Unlike Purvi who never does the reuired things and sheds a truck load of tears when everything is spoiled.)

Some people are saying that why is she blaming Purvi for everything?
Well..whom should she blame? Padosi's daughter? Arjun cannot get over his past and is pretending that he's the only person who ever fell in love. Purvi's continuously interfering in her marriage, giving her babies and her husband eyelocks. What is she supposed to do? Yes, she came between the amar premis but that's a thing of the past now. She and her husband almost had a baby together. It was required of Arjun to move on.
She tried to leave Arjun but he followed her begging for her to come back. Whom shouls she blame?

Some have problem with her alcoholism.
Don't tell me that Purvi can ruin other's lives but Ovi can't ruin her own. Moreover, she is the 'unsanskaari' daughter, it is expected of her😉


Tell me one more mistake of hers. Anyone?

Don't tell me the alcoholism part. If she was drinking during pregnancy, it was injurious to her and 'her baby'. She was not harming anybody else. So if she was drinking, it was her problem, not her 'mistake' for which she can't be forgiven.
Moreover, she was doing all that because her husband didn't love her the way he should have done. Why didn't he initiated divorce if he was so in love with Purvi? She didn't, coz she loved him. What was his problem? He was sleeping around with his wife and dreaming about his ex. Which wife would not loose her cool seeing all this?

So, we see that Ovi has committed just 1 mistake even after remaining away from Archu's sanskaars for 18 years😆
I can even justify that mistake of hers, but that would divert me from the main topic.😛


Now let's talk about Purvi.
People who watch the show on a daily basis, please correct me if I am wrong.

Purvi's mistakes:
Accepting the deal, conveniently hiding the sex part. (Why didn't she tell? Even if it wouldn't have helped her. What Ovi would have done is a different thing. She should've atleast told if she felt so much love towards her 'sister')

Continuously poking her nose in ArOvi marriage.

On one hand having long eyelocks with Arjun and on the very other hand, asking/ordering him to consummate his non-existant marriage.
Lying to Onir about her family. (I thought she was a 'pavitra naari' who didn't lie😆) but not apologizing once. (Or did she? Regular viewers?)
Swapping babies.🤢

Not detaching herself from the baby even after giving it up. (Why give it up in the first place if you are so filled with 'mamta'.)

Constantly interfering in other's lives for their 'bhalaai'.

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How can people overlook Purvi's mistakes when they constantly criticize Ovi for hers? Hell, Purvi deserves to be jailed for the baby swapping fiasco. It's Ovi's goodness, that she is out and kicking.(Even giving some muft ka sanskaari gyaan to the police😉)

So, choose people, Ovi or Purvi? Whom do you support and on what basis?

P.s. Is ArVi bigger than all moral values?
I think ArVi deserve each other. They are just causing pain to others while they are separated. But why can't they accept their mistakes for once, apologize, divorce their respective spouses and then get back together? Why should Arjun abandon Ovi because she is an alcoholic and not because he can't stay without Purvi? Why can't Arjun, the MAN, tell her that he can't tolerate this separation anymore and want to hook up with Purvi ASAP and she should just get lost because he will never love her?

Superb post Veronica...You covered it all...All I want to add is one more mistake to Purvi's List