Ovi or Purvi?:Mod note Pg7 - Page 3

No one BASHES Purvi's character

Initially ArVi were my love. But as the story progressed and Purvi became a flowing river of tears, I lost it.

SO for me ArOvi!
People always ask how Ovi could do the "Deal". But I think many don't realize and remember that she was never close to her mother, and honestly hated Archana at that time. She could have cared less if Archana came back or not. Also, she never felt that connection between her parents as well and thought that her father could live on just fine.
But still, it was a mistake on her part ( along with the alcoholism)

But Purvi... the list will continue...

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

No one BASHES Purvi's character

We put down FACTS.

But people use all sort of bad names for Ovi/ Shruti

Ovi's not exactly the parallel lead, idk why people love her so much. Because she is real? I have never met a person like Ovi in my life, thank god. And since when are characters in Indian dramas supposed to reflect real people... as viewers we're supposed to see her as the kabab mein haddi and hate her, she was even nominated for it! I honestly don't care what Purvi has done, she will always be better than Ovi to me because Ovi just seems like a rich spoilt brat to me who ran after a boy who was in love with someone else. People need to stop making Ovi look like the poor girl cuz just like Purvi, she brought everything upon herself! Never love a fictional character in a soap, it's just gonna let you down.
Shruti is wonderful, and I've never seen a post bashing her but unfortunately everyone on screen in the public's eye gets bashed.

I completely agree with ur post. Both have made their share of mistakes, Ovi's being that she put forth the deal, and maybe the fact that she constantly hoped that her marriage was going to get better and gave Arjun another chance after the one month anniversary party. But acc to me Purvi has made many more mistakes under the pretext of bhalaai.

I am with purvi always...she did mistake bt for someone's goodness.

If ovi is good for some people then purvi is good for us both had done mistakes but purvi has done for others happiness n ovi done for hers thats the grt difference btwn the two so fr me purvi is far better than ovi n atlast dis is my opinion n i stick to it

II don't understand why they interfere in each other's marraiges to this extent and why nobody pulls them up for it . I mean its not normal .

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

II don't understand why they interfere in each other's marraiges to this extent and why nobody pulls them up for it . I mean its not normal .

Its not Ovi who has interfered even once in Purvi's marraige . Its Purvi who has constantly interfered in her marraige . Right from her monthly nniversary presents, her sex life [ when it should start ] to her baby [ not telling her of its death and keeping another one thats not hers in its place ] she has interfered in Ovi's marraige .

Ovi did not once interfere in her marital life . She took no interest in it . Thats how it should be . Even when she gauged that Purvi was lying to her decent doctor husband in the initial stages of finding out that she was married , she merely remarked it to her husband in the bedroom . She did NOT go and squeal to her husband about those lies ...actually Purvi was her arch enemy , Punni would have done exactly that if someone had made her marital life a mess .

But Purvi is so interested in her marital life that she wants to decide EACH aspect of it .

Now u go and give her a present .

Now u go and have sex with her .

Now u go and exchange the babies and see to it she never knows her baby died .

Did u go to Canada to bring her back ? What did she say ? [ This after being forbidden by the family to even take Arjun's name as far too much damage had been done by the irresponsible fickle decisions of the two .]

There Arjun hires a detective to spy on the private life of Purvi's husband . His excuse ? ONE conversation he overheard . Even if he had heard many fishy conversations he has NO RIGHT to do this and can be sued for it for no one has a right to do this snooping in anyone's marital life . Ovi did NOT hire a private detective when she found Purvi was lying to her husband . Onir did NOT hire a private detective to find out about Purvi's past .

So why this level of interference from Arjun ? And why this level of interference from Purvi, right up to deciding the sex life ? How is that acceptable , right , normal , and what lies do they both tell to the world that they r working on their marraiges and moving on ? They hardly have interest in their spouses , they have interest in each other's spouses . The interest has now become ghoulish .

A word about DK . He observed correctly that his son was doing all this co he wants unconsciously for Onir to be found bad and Purvi back in his life .

But i hold DK and his detached attitude responsible too for Arjun going this far . He should have slapped his son when

Son married another girl at last minute without even informing him as marraige is no joke

Son announced excitedly in party inspite of being a married man that he loved his saali

Son did NOT tell him privately about his illegitimate child . The fact that he himself knew some days back and was debating whether it was the opportune moment to tell his wife can be understood by some but he should have gone INSTANTLY to his dad and told him about the serious development .

Son hires a private detective to snoop in his ex's life when his own marraige is in shambles .

There were many opportunities for DK to slap Arjun and make him see sense , that is what the iron hand of a parent does when offsprings behave in an out of control way .

Either divorce and remarry or really work on the marraige , what you r doing is nonsense . I would advise strictly the latter as she is ALREADY married . This should have been DK's strict warning . He lets Arjun do whatever like a detached neighbour . And that has worked out fine for Arjun .

Archana is not detached as a parent and has the capacity to slap and enforce her discipline but unfortunately she has blind faith in Purvi , an ego about her upbringing which makes her a partial and biased parent .

Ovi never had a problem with Purvi just coz she was high handed or spoilt or because she didn't like her face . She has given Purvi many chances , the serial shows that .Each time this girl Purvi has done utter nonsense and driven her to the wall . Ovi has only and only spoken up when Purvi has fingered her ...right from taking her fiancee away to taking her baby away .

I think all fathers in the world who have their babies with their moms should hire detectives and check up on his ex 's marriage just to ensure safety for his child 🤣