Arjun Purvi...far from apavitra - Page 6

Originally posted by: sk11

I feel you are attacking me thinking I'm bashing Ovi. I will say this again, I'm an active viewer who has no biast towards anyone but Soham. He is my jaan. Otherwise I could care less about Arvi or Ovi for that matter. But anyway I'll answer you.

Thank you for putting ovi's POV out there for me. Next thing in my post I analysed everyone in this mess. Not just Ovi. Wish you had done the same so I could take you a little bit more serious. Anyway...

If arjun and ovi were a result of true love... there would NEVER be any room for Purvi or anyone else for that matter. This is true because although Arjun attempts to make his marriage work, he cannot love Ovi. His love is only for Purvi.

And just because a man fights to protect a female doesn't result in romantic feelings. Any male friend of mine or any other females' would protect me or that female. It doesn't mean they are in love with me or their female friend. Men have the natural instinct to protect any female they are with.

You're right purvi and arjun marrige was done quickly but wasn't there at least a month in between while arjun proved his love to Archana? I do not deny that.

And I'm sorry but do you really THINK for even a second that Manav & Archana would have not reconciled if arjun & purvi married? Do you REALLY THINK ovi was thinking of her parents? Armans problem were resolved with one truth and just communication. It iddn't need any sacrafices etc. Next, you proved my point. Ovi hated her mother because her father missed her which he rightfully should that his wife. Again, Ovi wants everything. Ovi wants everyones attention and love on her only. Thus she couldnt handle arjun loving her child.

And again you say Arjun was talking to purvis photo etc... OVI knew this. She went into this marriage with EYES WIDE OPEN. this wasn't a revealed after she married him. She knew he was in love with Purvi the entire time. Did she really expect Arjun to just forget Purvi that quickly when in fact she was ready to kill herself for Arjun? But there was no physical contact that would ensue cheating.

Ovi could have Arjun with the deal but never his heart. His heart always belonged to purvi.

As for Arjun & Purvi having sex. Purvi got a tight slap on that party by Sulo. Ovi did not from what i can remmeber. Correct me if im wrong please. Purvi has also been outcasted for having sex with arjun and having a child and being involed in swapping the babies.

Listen, I don't think Arvi are mahaan or anything. They did their wrong and Ovi has done hers. I'd just rather have them reunited. Ovi find someone else.

And finally see Soham's love story.

Originally posted by: Kalapi

Originally posted by: helloaamir

I'm not commenting on any other part of your post than the one bolded. Because I respect what you're saying, but I just wanted to point out that Purvi and Arjun were not married. Yeah they were aboouuut to be, but they weren't really married. Ovi and Arjun were, and Sulo wants them to salvage their relationship. So...thats kind of a big deal.

Originally posted by: mannisha

Thank you Manisha for your topic. I am so surprised that how Purvi and Arjun have been given all kinds of names when these two just truly loved each other

Originally posted by: altuphalu

Kalapi, In your arguments, I get the feeling that you always portray Ovi as the victim and Purvi as the perpetrator of evil that Ovi has to endure. Why do we have to bring Purvi's mistakes in order to defend Ovi's actions.

Please be aware that when I critisize Ovi, I am in no way saying that Purvi or Arjun are excused for what they have done. My arguments relate to Ovi's personality, how she handles situations in her life.

I feel that she has a warped sense of logic in that she feels that all her problems are due to what Purvi did/does - she never seems to take any personal responsibility for what happens to her.

She knew that even after committing to her, Arjun did fall in love with Purvi. She should have backed off then and not tried to get onto a path of self-destruction by still getting married to Arjun!!

Her actions defy logic!!

Altuphalu, Yes, Ovi is the victim here, who stupidly fell in love with a guy she grew up with. This guy, who was shown protecting her and agreed to marrying her on his free will,. Then when all was going well, when both families bless their union, this guy goes and falls for another girl, just within 2 months. How is that believable to anyone? How is that believable to the teenage girl who was madly in love? How could she believe or understand with love is true, in a sense even true love can be subjective. She has been the victim of circumstance that was beyond her control And like many young ppl, she failed to move and leaving Arvi to marry, and see how she has suffered. How many girls can just walk away? Is that, that easy, when one's world comes tumbling down? Saying that she should have just walked away, is saying and believing that her love wasn't true. Btw, who decides which love is true and which isn't? Is there a measuring tape that say, Arvi love is true? Really, when both these couples have moved on and Purvi is showing signs of a jealous wife right now?? Purvi isn't indifferent to the current situation, is she??

Btw, I personally don't believe the deal to be bad. She gave a deal to Purvi fair and square. No manipulation was involved. She said, leave Arjun. She didn't say marry him to me. That was Purvi's doing. Under that circumstance, both Purvi and Arjun could have walked away from the deal. What was preventing them? Why did Arjun walk away the very night of his wedding, when he came to know that he was a bargain in this mess?? What prevented him? After the wedding everyone knew about the deal, yet all went forward with that marriage? What was preventing Arjun wanting a divorce then, he didn't want that marriage, so isn't the onus on him to apply for divorce?? Now, how old is he? An infant, I guess…

Btw, I will have to bring Purvi in this discussion, for all are interlinked, and one can't discuss another with referring the other. Btw, my reference to Purvi was against your claim that Ovi is the manipulator here. No, I believe that the claim to manipulation lies of Purvi's door, and all done in the name of bhalaai. Btw, who asked her to act God? Who asked her to exchange the baby for Ovi's balaayi, did Ovi ask her. She lies through are teeth and claim bhalaai, when it is one destruction after another. She is the one to never say sorry to anyone. She said, I gave Pari to Ovi with Vishwas, what vishwas, may I ask?? Did Ovi want Pari? She said to Onir after he lost his license, kai na kai I am responsible for you losing the license, seriously, is she on drugs or what that she have such cloudy vision…no, dear, no heartfelt apology has yet come from her, whereas Ovi has said sorry to Purvi for being suspicious of Her's and Arjun's relationship. Ovi has said sorry many times for all that has happened in regard to Arjun. Her whole recorded message to Arjun, was her saying sorry….Want to see Ladli Purvi owe up wholeheartedly to her mistake and take the fall. Here Ovi has just left, leaving behind everything….when will Purvi show that level of maturity, I ask???