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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: sowmya_jairam


Varsha, lol! You called and I'm here 😃 Hola all🤗 How have you guys been? Happened to catch todays update from mom and decided to check the forum for the dhamakedaar reactions. As expected, it's buzzing with activity😆

Ankita's back as Archana 😲 She got to know about purvi already 😲😲 AND she did not hug her crying about how she surpassed everyone in sainthood😲😲😲. Wow! Now that was unexpected, that she didn't melt after the totally imaginative, but fake story of just how it came to pass and all the pleading. The writers take pity on us sometimes, looks like. All sense is not lost in the world, even in a world where the "Red wedding😭" happened😡!

Poor arjun and purvi😭 They did the deed anjaane mein! The weather, the car, the stupid hill, the rain 😳 Uff! It was a conspiracy I tell you! Nobody understands the poor souls. All kept blaming them when the only thing they did was to have their celebration a little early 😉 That too only coz the whole universe conspired against them. The eyelocks, the hugs, the stalking, the secret meetings n all was for everyone's bhalaai! Even the sex before that! I mean, see Onir now. He was a naive doc before, now he's become a wise man😆 And how I'm loving him 😳 And Ovi! Sheesh! Difficult to change her, she just doesn't understand the concepts of bhalaai! Ovi was stubborn before, she's stubborn now. At least she got the gyaan that she shouldn't come between amar premis. Now that was just wrong, I tell you😡!

Punni and mittal have nicely settled down with their devious little minds! How else could they have bonded than by collectively trying to ruin Ms. Indestructible? Pari! Both the warring aajis have come together for a common cause. Usually they plotted against each other. Now they were using their immense but ultimately useless resources together! Pari! The whole family has been united with common hate 😡! Pari! Varsha n soham got the chance to become gyaani n do some bhalaai of their own. How does it matter that they were trying to be welcomed back into sulo aaji's warm embrace? They got the chance to earn punya by doing bhalaai, that too of the great saint purvi! And pari! The beacon of hope for the pooor, unfortunate, misunderstood amar premis 😭 I mean, since pari is here they just have to get together. Then, and only then is the (PR) world and all unfortunate living beings in it safe. But nobody sees the sarva lok bhalaayi of the actions and reactions of arjun and purvi! Nobody understands! The fools 😡 The ignorants and their poor souls!😒

Wil archana continue to be a roadblock for the amar premis? 😲 Will she support ovi over purvi?😲
😲 Will she and manav be on the same side for once when it comes to their children? 😲😲😲 Will she encourage purvi to remain with 😈 Onir 😕? Or will she slowly recover her own sant-ta from her coma'ed soul and become saint purvi's idol and guru saint archana Jaan ne ke liye dekhiye somvaar se shukravaar sirf Zee tv par (or online if you so wish 😉) Pavitra Rishtaaa tere mere mann ka! Please do, coz I'm not gonna and I do love reading everyone's comments here 🤗

Sowmya, just saw you here virtually😉🤗
Your post was too good👏 PAri!!!😆😆 JAi ho bhalaayi!!!😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
Ankita and Shruti outshone Asha yesterday although
Asha had the most scope to act yesterday but oh well
Shruti with her expressions and ankita with her great acting did an amazing job 😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
thank you kools..am not as experienced as many people on the forum, i dnt deny tht..i also have very controversial views abt a lot of issues..but nobody gets to comment on my profession and get away without a reply from me..so i ws less careful than usual in posting a reply..like i said, those who dnt know the pits tht sum people live in, are the ones who point fingers at others..i also have had people blasting me for being pro-divorce at sum point of time, i tihnk instead of "improving" their husbands..i say to those, have u seen the situation of wives of alcoholics??of anti-social elements?? its rosy ONLY in movies and films, where the hero "realises" the worth of his self-sacrificing adarsh wife and turns miraculously good..in real life, the woman lives and dies in the same crappy situation without as much as a thank you from the ingrate she is married to..ideologies are fine and good, but look around and see the real world as well..
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: anu rulz

kalapi apparently am not a real doctor coz am "pro" abortion..and am sure, my reply to tht post will get me a warning but the original post, will not..😆
i wonder really, whether all the people who are pro-life have seen unwed mothers, dementic elderlies, terminal cancer patients, neglected people with mental illnesses before stating such things..once u have seen these people, u will realise why there are so many times, i, as a doctor, wish for early death for sum of the patients...its a torture living like this..
i have seen teenaged girls who lament over their stupidity in having unsafe sex..even those who say tht they dnt want an abortion coz they "love" the father of the child, who btw is either not traceable/married/underage/in prison for alleged sexual assault as the girl is underage..to these girls, if am advising abortion, am callous and insensitive, is it?? how easy for people to get moral and look down on those saying sumthng practical coz it offends their sensibilities and POV..
well, i guess i learnt my lesson in venturing out of this thread...now onwards, am not "offending" others by my "insensitive" talks..

Anu yaar, what you say is absolutely true. My conclusion that most folks in this forum are probably between 15 to 24 yrs with little experience of the real world...and older members, who are bashing for a rightful Q, is just doing so to prove how bad Ovi isShocked. This is my problem, that members aren't really saying what they feel - when I know I had heated debates here in this very forum - where both sides were presented. And back to PR - what is an option of a young girl in India preggo out of wedlock and without any family support - even going to a Doc for a prescription for abortion pills ins't easy. Btw, how was Purvi planning to survive, if Onir didn't show up - maybe Ekta should show us that and show us how progressive Indians has become in the last decade or so...
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Posted: 12 years ago
Something happened in my life that changed me . I am pro life on a spiritual level . But i DO understand the unhappiness that makes one take such a decision . It is not a HAPPY decision when u have a down syndrome baby or ur a teenager who is pregnant with an alcoholic father and a mother who is a drug addict , the boyfriend has moved on after knocking u up . Just like constantly KNOWING that ur husband fantasizes about another woman while having sex with u and thinks throwing money on ur face for household expenses is enough ...the woman is terribly unhappy when she conceives . That kind of unhappiness upsets me . No spiritual yardsticks r possible where there is hard core brutal unhappiness . I had a conservative mind set about same sex relationships but a debate with my son changed that .He often tells me to argue from the opposite side as it gives him good practice ...he was on the school speech and debate team . Once this was the topic and i argued from the opposite side . He argued so well , with so much passion and his points were so valid that it changed my mind set as i later turned them over in my mind . It was a turning point in my life ...letting go of the sanskaars i have been conditioned with . I realized that nothing is greater than humanity ...nothing .
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Posted: 12 years ago
i understand kools..and i appreciate it as well...as do i appreciate those who feel abortion is a sin..i understand many feel its a life and tht cannot be taken..and these decisions are never taken lightly by anybody..
but one shud not sit on a high pedestal and judge others..tht is my one and only point..i dont find abortion a sin, i feel and will always do, tht giving birth to a child and not giving it the life it deserves is worse thn aborting a fetus..
and sumhow i feel, tht todays kids and teens have such a warped idea of romance, it makes me feel old..and am not even 30 yet..just the other day, there was this girl, who was referred for an MTP, unwed primi, she was refusing to get the MTP done, as it was her boyfriend's baby..and as she was over 18, her parents couldnt consent..the OBGY resident explained the whole situation and left the decision to her..she was referred to us, and her mother is literally in tears, saying tht the girl is leaving her studies, saying she will take care of the child herself and even if she cant marry her boyfriend, she will manage..on asking HOW, she has no answer except a dialogue-like statement tht her love needs nothing more..(i was actually tempted to ask which movie it was from), but no, i did not say tht..😳
she kept saying, she will get work, i was like fine, but what are u qualified for, she says she is not a graduate, coz she left studies halfway..but again, she insisted tht she will manage..her mother was literally begging her to not ruin her life..my lecturer took over, and said sumthn very pertinent, he said, u might be thinking ur killing ur child, but can u guarantee tht u wil be able to give this child a life of respect and fulfil its needs?? what if u give up and then resent this child for stopping u from achieving what u CUD have? who does this child have then? he said, u are adult enugh to make ur decision, but look at the issue from ALL aspects instead of just one..
finally, what she decided, am not aware of, coz she dint follow up..but i agreed totally with sir..there are many times one has to be "cold-hearted" to save a lot of heartache..
on a lighter note, i can imagine ur debates with ur son..and soon, u will be debating with the twins as well..double fun, na??
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Something happened in my life that changed me . I am pro life on a spiritual level . But i DO understand the unhappiness that makes one take such a decision . It is not a HAPPY decision when u have a down syndrome baby or ur a teenager who is pregnant with an alcoholic father and a mother who is a drug addict , the boyfriend has moved on after knocking u up . Just like constantly KNOWING that ur husband fantasizes about another woman while having sex with u and thinks throwing money on ur face for household expenses is enough ...the woman is terribly unhappy when she conceives . That kind of unhappiness upsets me . No spiritual yardsticks r possible where there is hard core brutal unhappiness . I had a conservative mind set about same sex relationships but a debate with my son changed that .He often tells me to argue from the opposite side as it gives him good practice ...he was on the school speech and debate team . Once this was the topic and i argued from the opposite side . He argued so well , with so much passion and his points were so valid that it changed my mind set as i later turned them over in my mind . It was a turning point in my life ...letting go of the sanskaars i have been conditioned with . I realized that nothing is greater than humanity ...nothing .

I know absolutely what you mean. Abortion isn't easy, but in many cases the best option. Besides from an Indian POV, abortion isn't that much of an issue nor a raging debate ongoing. I guess over population supersedes all issues here. I have seen many close relatives routinely taking the abortion pills even after marriage. In one case, a bahu was scolded by the MIL for its repeated use. So, just blaming Ovi just asking a Q, is only a means to show how selfish she is...and that I do not like...
And I fully know about same sex relationship yaar - it is so hard to accept, but then I guess everyone needs time to change and accept. Btw, isn't that all what is personal growth is all about - how else, a person develops if he/she is all accepting???
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Posted: 12 years ago
Yes , and a person develops very strangely . Can never tell WHAT will change the mind set . Doctors , Police officers , criminal lawyers etc r the people who see the WORST of human life . They deal with misery all the time and each miserable situation is unique ...can u even compare to that mind set ? That mind set , according to me , is unique.
It can be NO other way . And it should never ever be judged , as they have perhaps seen far more than u have in ur sheltered little life .

hahaha Anu , dunno if i will have the energy when they grow up . Son was an excellent debater , i am nothing . He trained others with his coach as he graduated . If those 2 grandmothers follow in brother's footsteps , i am khalaas .😆😆 The best part of son's debating experience was that he was given a topic AND a side ...it was not his choice . He HAD to argue from that side . It broadens the mind and raises the objectivity level . U keep aside ur own feelings and learn to look at an issue from all angles . His debating years had an effect on MY mind ...they moulded me .
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Posted: 12 years ago
😡 I don't think I am ever going to post outside this thread
this is the limit, people are making mockery posts on arovi and telling me what i should do 😕
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

😡 I don't think I am ever going to post outside this thread

this is the limit, people are making mockery posts on arovi and telling me what i should do 😕


It's ok for them to bash Ovi and make fun of Shruti but when someone points out something about their favorites that doesn't sit well with them, that person gets reported 🥱. I find a lot of posts making negative comments about Ovi/Shruti but I hardly report them because they're not so offensive as to need reporting. But someone says something like "Asha needs to modulate her voice properly, that baby voice is annoying" you can get reported. It's like this forum is meant for just praising the actors and the characters. Someone had obviously said it right, turn the entire IF forum into a fan club because that's what it basically is. No one seems to tolerate constructive criticism against their favorites and then there are the accounts of people being personally attacked just because they don't agree with the majority or like the same actor as the other.

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