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Winzy

@nicegirl_good

Sparkler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#1091

^ nina, you've no idea and this crosses the limits everyday

I mean sure you do not agree with someone's opinion but for you to question their fandom is alright

they are making personal attacks

and making posts , like Arovi is the best couple as a mockery and that's okay

if we make a mockery post like that

what would they do 😔

there is no point posting outside this thread

no matter how tempting it is

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pari87

@pari87

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#1092

Loved the posts on pro-choice and no judgement guys! Went through last few pages..

hilly, nina, anu, umi, sowmya and all...so good to read you guys after long! Loved the posts! Hope teju and tiya can drop in soon too! :) Keep them coming girls...

About pro-choice, I am completely with anu and rest on this one...It is a thin line, but some situations/circumstances call for the option...Whether it is rape, unwed pregnancy, domestic violence, teenage pregnancy, disease/disorder or simply unhappiness etc...anything at all...if a woman does not feel like she can give that baby a life of happiness/comfort, she should have teh choice to decide to keep the child or not...Each circumstance has it;s own issues with bringing the baby into the world...

A woman in a violent/abusive relationship may not want her kid to suffer this...a bad marriage of parents, a violent father, abusing him/her and his/her mother...so she is deciding what is BEST for her child...a woman who may have a rape pregnancy knows she may never be able to love the child the way she should...or give the child blank slate cuz he/she will always remind her of the scarring trauma...she should have that option...unwed mom who knows that her circumstances are at best just about survivable, should have that choice to not bring up a baby that she thinks will not have the most comfortable life...and any other woman with any other issue should have that choice to think what is best for child..

Yes, children are god's gift, but if you know before hand that you are not going to be able to do justice and only make the child's life harder or uncomfortable in your present circumstances, then best is to give up foetus instead of giving a child a lifetime of issues and unhappiness. That is a bigger sin in my opinion...a living wreck of a life is worse than an unborn foetus. Strictly my opinion.

mindset changing is by giving this option to women...

coming back to purvi and the question asked to her...it is not by any means a problem that she brought the child into the world, but how was she planning to give th child a decent life if she had not met onir? It is easy to talk big, but reality speaks a different language, especially in a country like India, which is still grappling with their third grade treatment to women...purvi, single mom, living in not so affluent or safe circumstances in a different city all by herself...would not be safe for her or for her child...She had def not thought about it...only thought baccha is jeene ka sahara and kaisa karti, aai hoon na main...In tihs case, purvi was thinking about HERSELF, not about the kid...kid being brought up, without a dad, without a family, when grows up and asks questions about father and rest...how would the knowledge or lack there-of affect her/him...Would others go to school and try change mindsets of mockers for him? Or would people go and help him overcome the idea of abandonment by his own father...or help him get over his hatred for his mom to leave the father so horribly? the father who is now married to his own maasi? What was purvi planning to do with such situations when boy/girl was a teenager grappling with identity and other major issues...? Growing up would have been a task for this little boy/girl...Let us not kid ourselves about how most people in India still think about unwed pregnancies...There is nothing I judge about it, but have the strenght then to provide your child with a shield against these things...which purvi had no idea about...I would have been more supportive of purvi, if she had taken onir's help as a friend and gotten in touch with her parents at least...and told them of her situation...she should have thought of what is GOOD for her baby, not what is good for her or even arjun and ovi...

so the idea of purvi aborting the baby is not totally out of context...hence the question is valid by ovi...although i know that she asked this Q only to show purvi her own web of lies regarding saving arjun-ovi's marriage.

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pari87

@pari87

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#1093

waneeka dear,

I read some of those posts...Simply outrageous if I may say so...

So anyone with a different opinion, steps out of the KC, has to be ready to get bullied by fandom? The posts were simply about bullying anyone who had a different opinion that did not match up to arjun and purvi..

also mocking someone on their ID and making snide remarks..? Since when is that ok on the forum?

I agree with nina, they should tell us if this is all about fandom...and make PR Fandom and not PR forum. cuz day by day, this is less of a forum but more bullying by fans of actors/characters...

Waneeka,

This should not stop you from writing outside of KC...do not get bullied by people...MY advice to you..forum is for all and unless they make a rule ( I won't be surprised) that only people who worship arjun-purvi should write on this forum and label it as PR Fandom, only then you may opt out. ..as of now, no rule in the book demands you not being able to write what you want to...

ignore the ID mocking...it is better than being a blind fan and not being able to separate reel and real...:)

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Winzy

@nicegirl_good

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#1094

Originally posted by: pari87
waneeka dear,

I read some of those posts...Simply outrageous if I may say so...

So anyone with a different opinion, steps out of the KC, has to be ready to get bullied by fandom? The posts were simply about bullying anyone who had a different opinion that did not match up to arjun and purvi..

also mocking someone on their ID and making snide remarks..? Since when is that ok on the forum?

I agree with nina, they should tell us if this is all about fandom...and make PR Fandom and not PR forum. cuz day by day, this is less of a forum but more bullying by fans of actors/characters...

Waneeka,

This should not stop you from writing outside of KC...do not get bullied by people...MY advice to you..forum is for all and unless they make a rule ( I won't be surprised) that only people who worship arjun-purvi should write on this forum and label it as PR Fandom, only then you may opt out. ..as of now, no rule in the book demands you not being able to write what you want to...

ignore the ID mocking...it is better than being a blind fan and not being able to separate reel and real...:)

Oh Pari Di,

You are right. But the truth is whenever Ovi's character is here the forum activity increases

Like last week we went down

but ill bet this week we will be back on 7/6

it will be because Ovi is back

and people are writing countless posts on Ankita/ Archana 😕

then why should the credit go to Arvi only? 😕

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Kalapi

@Kalapi

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#1095

Waneeka, I agree with you that it is Ovi that creates the activity in this forum. Arvi as such and even Onir is boring. But life in IF is not fair at all...so eventually all credits goes to them ...what can you do if members want to only see if 'their' way😕...and give all credit to one couple, when that isn't true...but that is fandom, I guess😕

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Winzy

@nicegirl_good

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#1096

They can change everything according to their convenience but they can't change the trps

and the trps clearly prove that arvi is not sitting well with audience 😆

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#1097

excellently said Pari

The person who will suffer the most is baby Pari when she grows up .

Born out of wedlock

Parents getting back together after a rocking family scandal

Parents getting back together by trampling on many hurt and shocked hearts

illegitimate

the father who was going to give her legitimacy proved otherwise

the bio father was responsible for her illegitimacy

mother gave her up seconds after being born

mother swapped her

Mother responsible for her shuttlecock awful fate and father weak and unable to protect her as mother has a jabardast hold on him , a hold that has sapped his rectitude and himmat both , all he can do is babble about his love story instead of protecting his child by firing the liar mother who has played with her life .

Even when Pari grows up , this stigma won't leave her . Ever . It will always be flung on her face for no fault of hers . Her fate is worse than Sachu's .

Archana gave a child lifted off the streets a life , Purvi made a child who could have everything ...a father , wealth , legitimacy , ALL , Illegitimate with a complex fate .

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m_masti

@m_masti

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#1098

Kools we are 140+ pages...please do new KC today, i hope today's episode will be KC layak...

excellent posts everyone...good to see so many awesome posts...good start of the day for me...

regarding forum, less talk is better...but i want to talk

1. without base they start argument, i mean some people doesn't even know story properly or they watch only the scenes they want to

2. they understand the point but they don't accept it and start arguing about it

3. mocking action, and personal attacks saying fellow menber to stop, saying are you woman/man,

4. last but not least worst examples to support

5. creating a thread which makes nothing but arguments

6. not knowing the difference between character bashing and actor bashing, even if its understood but still argue instead of accepting...

7. unknown imagination of the scenes...i was surprised to read about this imaginary scene "ArVi saved Ovi life when she attempted suicide and got dried without blood"...😡

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Hillylove

@Hillylove

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#1099

Fab Posts Everyone!!

Don't laugh but I just woke up and it is 10:00 am..🤣 I could not stop sleeping. 🤣 I set my alarm 3 times this morning I wonder who drugged me...Then I started dreaming all sorts of crazy things and I decided it is now time to get up.🤣

Pari and Kools agree with you on how children are affected. Anu loved your post!!

I am generally Pro-life and Pro-Abortion depending on the situation. My religion speaks to Pro-life, and I can understand where they are coming from, as they are looking at the mere fact that we all should be married when we have children and serving God.

However, at the end of the day, I believe it is a personal choice.

Where I don't have tolerance, is the women with 5 children for 5 different men, none of the Fathers in the picture and they want me to support them with my hard earned money. This is what we experience in my country. So, if I am debating regarding my country, I am more Pro-Abortion, because of the crap that goes on here.

In Purvi's situation, I am Pro-Abortion for the mere fact that she insisted on bringing up this child in such a toxic situation. I don't think some parents truly understand how their actions can damage a child mentally and emotionally. Some, like Purvi do as they feel without thinking about the consequences for the child. She sits on her fake throne saying " I could not do it, this baby is my reason for living." I believe that is the most selfish thing any woman can say. (My POV) A baby should not be a pawn in your mixed up life, to make you feel better for losing a lover.

What about the baby's reason for living? Did she think the baby wants to live a life knowing that her Mother came between her Aunt and her fiancee and she became that result? Did she think Pari wants to be laughed at that her Jeeju and Saali brought her into this world. Did she think Pari wants to be brought up by her step-dad when she had her own Father alive and kicking?

You see one can romanticise about having a baby, but I believe a baby should not be brought into this world just for our own selfish agenda.

So, Purvi's speech really infuriated me, and I would love to have seen her Mother as a married woman who is older to her, slap her and say that her speech was utter rubbish.

At the end of the day, Pari is here and I really Purvi starts making some wiser decisions and stop passing her around like some ball.

She needs to confront Onir seriously, and find out where her marriage is going pronto. After all, we know that Arvi will reunite with Pari.