Arjun did the right thing

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Posted: 12 years ago
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After today's episode, I am of the opinion that Arjun did the right thing by walking out and leave Ovi this time around. He tried his best to make things work but she is took much stuck up on purvi that she cannot even live her own life and be happy. She wants arjun on one hand and does not on the other. She told him to leave and then come looking for him. She need to get a grip of herself and arjun seriously need to move on from her.

What she should have done in the beginning she is doing now. She was hell bent on getting arjun at all cost because she love him and it did not matter if he love her back. Its sad that she now realise that purvi is his first and last love when she ruined his and purvi's life in the process. Even pari now is in an unstable position. As far as I am concerned she just wanted to prove a point to purvi that she can get arjun but never really loved him. It was just to show that she can achieve whatever she wants in life but to her surprise she could not control arjun's feelings.

My advice to Arjun is to give up Ovi, take her clean out of your life, concentrate on pari, your career and if purvi is free and available and feel that they can make it together with onir out of the picture, then go right ahead. He seem to be a man that loves deep.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Exactly, I made the same point on another post. Why would arjun have a video chat on and entertain purvi for ovi to see. The relation is already broken, there is nothing he will achieve by doing so.

Manav character is being downgraded as far as I am concerned, all he thinks about is Ovi. He too seem confused to me as he wants for Ovi and arjun to make up on one hand and on the other he is telling her not to listen to arjun's words when he visited her in canada. He is just like his daughter.

I wished that when archanna gets out of her coma she does not go back into one after all that has happened. She might be the only one to put some sense in manav head.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I too think Arjun should LEAVE THIS alcoholic lady , whom no one can ever please. She snatched his love purvi, then wanted him to give up his daughter. ARJUN , SHE IS BAD NEWS, RUN AWAY FROM HER AS FAST AS YOU CAN
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rayadallie

After today's episode, I am of the opinion that Arjun did the right thing by walking out and leave Ovi this time around. He tried his best to make things work but she is took much stuck up on purvi that she cannot even live her own life and be happy. She wants arjun on one hand and does not on the other. She told him to leave and then come looking for him. She need to get a grip of herself and arjun seriously need to move on from her.

What she should have done in the beginning she is doing now. She was hell bent on getting arjun at all cost because she love him and it did not matter if he love her back. Its sad that she now realise that purvi is his first and last love when she ruined his and purvi's life in the process. Even pari now is in an unstable position. As far as I am concerned she just wanted to prove a point to purvi that she can get arjun but never really loved him. It was just to show that she can achieve whatever she wants in life but to her surprise she could not control arjun's feelings.

My advice to Arjun is to give up Ovi, take her clean out of your life, concentrate on pari, your career and if purvi is free and available and feel that they can make it together with onir out of the picture, then go right ahead. He seem to be a man that loves deep.

superb post.. i agree with u totally...
@bol: i totally second u in this thing. for me even ovi's love was more of obsession and something like a ziddhi.. she wanted to win arjun and that was what shown once in the show where she will say to manav and whole family that if arjun is not gonna be hers then she will not let him be others also.. he need to hers and hers only.. that all says that he was her obsession and never a true love..
glad that she realised it atleast today but there is no use of it as all the three lives are spoiled due to all the three's mistakes.. all are equally responsible for it...
but i dont know till when she will keep this in her mind and stay with that word.. im sure even she wants to move ahead all her family will make many brain washes of her and will make her life more confused.. i think they need to realise first that what all happened was not just one's mistake but of all and need to solve it that way but saddest part is they are not understanding the reason and are not even trying to understand it..

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Barbie Princess Ovi wanted Ken doll and she GOT him by hook or crook...mostly by crook!
Now she realized Ken doll she got is just the shell...its heart is not there, but elsewhere.

Princess Ovi always got what she wanted, Dad Manav and Aaji Savita pampered and spoiled her to make up for absence of a mother. So Princess Ovi thought she had a claim on Prince Arjun, he wasnt a human being with heart and feelings of his own. Now at last she has realized you cannot buy love, you cannot barter for love...it has to come from within.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25

Barbie Princess Ovi wanted Ken doll and she GOT him by hook or crook...mostly by crook!

Now she realized Ken doll she got is just the shell...its heart is not there, but elsewhere.

Princess Ovi always got what she wanted, Dad Manav and Aaji Savita pampered and spoiled her to make up for absence of a mother. So Princess Ovi thought she had a claim on Prince Arjun, he wasnt a human being with heart and feelings of his own. Now at last she has realized you cannot buy love, you cannot barter for love...it has to come from within.


I so agree with every word you wrote, AWESOME POST👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Superb Post. Completely agree with U. No doubt obviously Arjun did right thing.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I want arjun to understand that there is nothing left in this relationship. He tried his best. And i appreciate this guy to try on this forceful relationship. He was nt like deal wali wife is out so i m free to do anything. After leap he never behaved like he is in forceful relationship. To make any relationship successful there should b compromis frm both the side bt ovi is nt making 1% effort.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25

Barbie Princess Ovi wanted Ken doll and she GOT him by hook or crook...mostly by crook!

Now she realized Ken doll she got is just the shell...its heart is not there, but elsewhere.

Princess Ovi always got what she wanted, Dad Manav and Aaji Savita pampered and spoiled her to make up for absence of a mother. So Princess Ovi thought she had a claim on Prince Arjun, he wasnt a human being with heart and feelings of his own. Now at last she has realized you cannot buy love, you cannot barter for love...it has to come from within.

👏 Very good points, Love is something that just happens, its not something anyone can decide. I will love you and you will love me. Its does not work so. You are absolutely right in every aspect of your comments
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..aastha..

I want arjun to understand that there is nothing left in this relationship. He tried his best. And i appreciate this guy to try on this forceful relationship. He was nt like deal wali wife is out so i m free to do anything. After leap he never behaved like he is in forceful relationship. To make any relationship successful there should b compromise frm both the side bt ovi is nt making 1% effort.

Yes, He is a gentleman, he tried, he always considers others feeling even Ovi as they grew up together and he apparently knows her more than she knew him. He did not jump and celebrate as if he was waiting for Ovi to say go. He tried at least he will have no regrets when he move on(depending on CV). He gave her his word that he will work with her to make their marriage a success and he did. It was really her mindset that cost her the marriage. Ovi only focused on purvi and now pari and choose to see her own things in her own world rather than look at the bigger picture. Sometimes we are all victims of our minds and it can really make us or break us. Ovi is a perfect example.
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