Purvi's backless blouses.:Warning Pg11&Notepg22 - Page 13

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Dear Waneeka, you are right, we are all absolutely entitled to our opinions and our right to express them, no disputing that at all.

That said, let me also say that I believe Ovi's first digging of that grave for Arjun's and Purvi's love is what triggered all that later transpired. If Ovi had not dug that initial grave (both Arjun and Purvi willingly fell into that hole and should be held responsible for their stupidity), the subsequent actions of Purvi would not have occurred, she would have been happily married to the love of her life, had Pari, been indulged with any number of backless blouses and fancy saris to DK's parties, no baby swap, no keeping the baby truth from Ovi, nothing, nada, all would have been hunky dory in the Arjun Purvi world. If only Ovi had the sense then that she has suddenly discovered, everyone could have led merry lives. Ovi could have been on Vogue and pursued her career and Arjun would have been a mere blip in her existence.

Of course , Ovi dug her grave when she married Arjun
But then didn't she want to walk away ? Who asked for a second chance ? On insistence of whom ?
If she walked out of that marriage then , Arjun fought for his love
All this wouldn't happen
😕

Not sure how the grave was dug by Ovi when it was Arjun the one who dug the grave hole

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

OH MY GOD, who involved Asha negi here ? We talked about Purvi
Why is Asha being dragged over here ?
Purvi is a character of her own irrespective of who plays it

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Of course , Ovi dug her grave when she married Arjun
But then didn't she want to walk away ? Who asked for a second chance ? On insistence of whom ?
If she walked out of that marriage then , Arjun fought for his love
All this wouldn't happen
😕

Originally posted by: pallavi25

You mean Purvi hasnt suffered at all? Yet many here are saying Purvi cries all the time! So what was she doing? Trying out a new brand of glycerine for her eyes?😆BTW I think OVI cries a lot too but nobody seems to comment on that...

Purvi is paying for her "crimes" also, shes living in a kholi, her daughter Pari is being deprived of a comfortable life (its weird how nobody ever thinks abt pari nowadays or her welfare)

Yes, Purvi had money in first few months to make new blouses but she was expecting to go back to Kolkata so she didnt bother...do u remember how many times she told Onir lets go back to Kol and he refused for some reason?

I only agree with you abt last part in bold.

Even if she sacrificed Arjun she shd never have forced him to marry Ovi, she shd have respected his free choice in this. Same way I blame Gunjan in SSLK for tricking Mayank into marrying Charu by bride switch under ghunghat. That was totally wrong of her...she could have just refused Mayank and walked away. Same with Purvi she could have walked away after telling Arjun she cannot marry him. But Ekta loves to do these convoluted tracks of sisters loving same man...whats going on in Kya hua tera vaaada...😆

I know her sisters from different mothers loving the same
People are getting old 😆
No we blame her for crying because she cries in regret
Remember the baby swapping , court drama etc
Ovi is crying now because she walked away now
But Purvi did everything , she didn't think and do them
Then started crying
Ovi was very annoying too
She slit her wrist and that was disgusting
And then she was a whiner for a man
I don't support her for that
And I never will
I am not as biased as you think I am
Ovi made mistakes , Purvi made more
Yet she has the advantage of goodness
While Ovi being normal is a sin

@dabulls23

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Purvi is being portrayed by Asha Negi and whatever clothes are being worn by Purvi are being worn by Asha Negi...who else?😆And if CVs or director doesnt give Asha Negi nice new saris to wear, then how will Purvi wear them? Got it?

It's not about the actor who plays the role
It's about the character itself
I am sure you all are not blaming shruti for wearing the clothes Ovi is wearing because is supposed to
But we are talking about fiction and they are all characters
So lets forget about the PH
It's not asha's fault nor is it Shruti's not is it Jia's
I didn't involve asha once :S
Please don't drag her

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Of course , Ovi dug her grave when she married Arjun
But then didn't she want to walk away ? Who asked for a second chance ? On insistence of whom ?
If she walked out of that marriage then , Arjun fought for his love
All this wouldn't happen
😕

Arjun's weakness cannot be laid at Purvi's door. He did what he felt was right, if he felt influenced by either Purvi or Ovi, he should be held responsible for that, he is a grown man. If we can argue that all Ovi did was place that proposition in front of Purvi and it was not Ovi's fault but Purvi's fault for accepting, same principle, Purvi advised Arjun to move on in his life and be a good husband, and Arjun followed her advice, his fault going by the first premise. Each and every character in this show is flawed so one character cannot be blamed to the exclusion of every other, that is all. :)

@soapwatcher1

Pallavi u r wasting ur time here.
What is connection between ur cloths and sanskar?
Purvi never had any problem when 50+ archana was wearing barbie doll type cloths (btw ankita was looking super gorgeous in that and i felt that sushant is really lucky to have such beautiful woman in her life), she never had any problem with ovi's ovi' s dressing where ovi;s legs were clearly visible. She never give bhasan on cloths and dresses. So why problem is with her backless blouses? Is fashion. Now what u are expecting from her to wear? Burkhas and dresses of 18th or 19 th cetury just because she is sanskar. Dont we wear such cloths in our life? So it means we r not sanskari ?

Its on u how u want to present urself. If u feel uncomfortable in short dresses or blouses in public place thats ok. Dont wear. But dont expect from others to follow u. Anyone comfortable in backless bouses or shorts in public place doesnt mean she is characterless or her parents forgot to install sanskar in her.

Purvi never had any problem with dressing of any lady. I dont think she would have any problem if savita and sulochana start wearing short skirts or backless blouse or bikini. She never never commented on others dressing style so why question mark on her dressing?

Many of my friends r from village. They r in city for further and higher education. Even they wear short dresses so what does it mean? They r sanskarless? Or they r characterless? Or their parents forgot to install sanskar in them.?

If onir and purvi were rich and still purvi prefer to wear backless blouses or any other western cloths. What is wrong in that? I dont get mentality of people. If ladies cover them from top to toe they want them to become modern and bhashans of equal right of woman starts. But when same woman try adopt modernization same people give then bhashan of sanskar.