Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
That is precisely my point . She is Archana's daughter . Not his . He is obliged to do NOTHING for her .
Adopted child is the same as biological child .His wife adopted Purvi and Manav had given his support in this .He himself promised Purvi that his baba ( his words not mine ) will always be with him .So what happened now ..He cannot do this ..He said that he is her father so he can't abandon her just because he is angry .If he is nice , his big heart . If he forgives Ovi , it is bcoz Ovi is his daughter . Purvi is NOT . There can be NO comparison between his treatment of Ovi and Purvi . There should be no expectation either .I differ here . Adopted daughter has to be treated the same way as his real daughter .He was always so forgiving for Ovi , he has to show the same big heart for Purvi ...Purvi was not even legally adopted by Archana but taken in after finding her on the roads 19 years back .Archana was lucky that Purvi came in her life ..Who cares if she came from the road ( everyone comes from somewhere ) , not Archana and not even Manav , to them this is totally irrelevant .The fact is that Purvi is Archana's life .She has made some mistakes , yes ...but so did Ovi and sachin ..If they can be forgiven then why not her ...Varsha was going through proper adoption procedures but Archana just took her in out of humanity . After 18 yrs Manav got back with her and respected this humanity but one must not eat a sugar cane till its roots just because it is a sugar cane . Just bcoz Manav is nice it does not mean far too much to expect from him .If he wants Archana back then he has to have Purvi also in his life ...if he does not want Purvi then he has to forget Archana also ...He was the one who left Archana alone 18 years ago and even took her kids now he has to accept whoever came in her life after he left her .Thanks to Purvi , Archana is still alive ...
Time for Archana to be a mother to her abandoned baby for once instead of being a partial , vicious 🤬 like she was when she rooted for the ARVI marraige and went to rub the wedding card on Ovi's face and drove her to suicide and then partied herself .Yes, she should take care of Ovi like she has been ever since she came back in her life and I think she did a pretty good job throughout Ovi's pregnancy .She is also doing a pretty good job with Teju now . Archana neglected Soham also but she is workign really hard to make it up to him ...but now I want Manav to check himself and start caring about the conditions that Purvi is living in ...if she has a modicum of akal she will see that Purvi has blackened her parvarish and cut her nose foerver in front of people whom she once lectured . If this time she is NOT a mother to her kids but only HERS , Manav should throw her out .OK, so Purvi slept with Arjun before getting married , Tha tis wrong but that does not means that Archana should stop loving her and being a mother to her .Purvi is human and humans make mistakes but our parents are there to hold us and to help us out of the mess ..Such people who taunt Archana about nose cutting and what not have never mattered to her anyways ...What is more important , your child or such gossip mongersPurvi did this mistake but she has done so many other good things for her mother ...I don't want Archana to be a grudge keeper ...and just think about her daughter's mistakes .Purvi really needs her right now ..and about Manav throwing her out , well that should not be a problem for him as he has done that before ...only to come back later begging on his knees ...His coming back or not is not important to me , Archana 's relationship with her children ( all 5 of them specially Soham and Purvi as they are in trouble ) is more important ...I reall ydon't want Archana to abandon Purvi at this stage of her life ..I will be very disappointed with her if she does this ...
As far as Soham goes i agree somewhat . I agree with Manav that he should yet not be entrusted with the money ...what with his connection with Balan and wielding guns and all that . But i do agree that a dialogue with his son should be attempted .