Manav is a hypocrite - Page 4

I hope that Arjun will keep on visiting Pari . Ok next time when Onir is also there because Onir and him get along so well... I hope Arjun and Purvi are on amicable good terms for the sake of their daughter .Pari should be important to both of them .

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Sowmya , I agree with you that Archana is also biased towards Purvi as she brought her up and she is also unfair to Ovi and Teju and when she does that , I call her a bad mother to Ovi and Teju ...but her daughter was wronged too and she feels more because Purvi and Arjun broke up because of her somewhere ...

Same way , I am accusing Manav of being a bad father to Purvi because he is neglecting his responsibilities towards her ..I can understand why he is angry ( the baby swaping ) and yesterday I backed him but I cannot forgive him for ignoring Pari and not taking care of Purvi ( even if he does it silently ) because Purvi is in a big financial mess...

And if DK is Pari's grand dad then so is Manav . Manav 's responsibilities are just as much as DK's ...

He should have tried to find out how the little one is doing and how is Purvi doing ...

Tanya,

Manav doesn't know that onir and purvi are kangaal. Manav knows that onir lost his medical license, but not that they don't have any money at all or a job. If he comes to know, he will not hesitate to do whatever he can to take care of them even if he's angry with them. Just like neither manav nor archana knew that arjun and ovi's marriage was terribly unhappy, and that Ovi had been drinking in her insecurities until they found her with a slit wrist nearly having nearly lost her own life and her baby's. Both archana and manav are somewhat neglectful parents, who do not like to confront harsh realities until they absolutely have to. And to be fair, Arjun had just handed over Pari to purvi immediately after which Ovi left. It must have been 2 days in PR calender since pari has been with purvi. Once things settle down, manav will probably check in to see how pari is doing.

And I made this point a while back. What ovi did with the deal and what purvi did with switching the babies are both wrong, but they're very different. The deal could be annulled, and was somewhat reversible. Arjun and purvi can still get back together if they really want to, Ovi has already left and Onir will if he comes to know that's what purvi wants. But ovi not getting to see her dead baby? That's irreversible. She will never be able to know how her baby looked like, or even if it was a boy or a girl. She will never have closure on that, and will always wonder. On top of it, the baby she had come to love as her own was not hers at all. If ovi now begs everyone for forgiveness and gets arjun-purvi married, thus reversing her deal; will she be able to see her dead child? Nope, and that's the thing that makes the biggest difference between ovi's and purvi's wrongs and why the first is more easily forgivable than the second. That and the fact that arjun agreed to marry ovi in his full senses, whereas switching the babies was done without the consent of either parent of the dead child. To me, at least.

Finally, do you really think that if archana was present she would do anything other than say how purvi did it for everyone's bhalaai and she should be praised? She might have slapped her, then embraced her saying how she's surpassed archana in tyaag and bhalaai. I don't believe she would have corrected her because she thinks doing things for bhalaai is fine even if they're wrong. And there's no doubt that the baby-switch was wrong. Instead, she would correct ovi saying she should be grateful for what purvi did. I'm very sure that's what she'll do as soon as she wakes up from her coma.

Tanya why should he do anything for Purvi ? It is his big heart that he accepted this stranger as his daughter ...this stranger walked into his life bcoz of his estranged wife only a year back . And ever since she did she has only done kaands and destroyed the sukh shanti of his family . Ovi is his blood who has grown with him since she was a baby . Archana is so attached to Purvi bcoz she grew with her since she was a baby ...so much so that she is blindly partial towards her and does not even love her bio children so much ...and Manav should love Purvi and Ovi EQUALLY ? Why ?

Of course what Purvi did was wrong and she should not have given up her child to Ovi .Purvi has been punished so much . Her husband is no longer the big doctor he used to be and all the horrible situations she had to go through ...I think she has been punished more than enough ..

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Tanya why should he do anything for Purvi ? It is his big heart that he accepted this stranger as his daughter ...this stranger walked into his life bcoz of his estranged wife only a year back . And ever since she did she has only done kaands and destroyed the sukh shanti of his family . Oi is his blood who has grown with him since she was a baby . Archana is so attached to Purvi bcoz she grew with her since she was a baby ...so much so that she is blindly partial towards her and does not even love her bio children so much ...and Manav should love Purvi and Ovi EQUALLY ? Why ?

Purvi is not a stranger ...

She is Archana's daughter , she is her life .She is the girl who kept Archana alive through those lonely dark days of her life ..If Archana is still with Manav it is because of Purvi also ...Manav knows what Archana feels for the girl and he is behaving this way ..

I have always called Archana a bad mother to Ovi and Teju and that is because a mother should love all her kids equally .With the same reasoning I am calling Manav a bad father because of the way he is behaving with Purvi .

He has done MORE THAN ENOUGH for that dratted girl who did these shameful kaands and destroyed lives and put his family under public limelight .

Ovi too has done lots of shameful things and troubled him and his family so much but he put up with it because Ovi is his daughter ...well , so is Purvi .She too is his daughter .I am not saying that he should not be angry .I supported him yesterday for blasting Purvi and Arjun but that does not means that his responsibility as a father is towards Purvi is over ...

He gave the doctor who broke his daughter a defence in court , went to bail him out , went to police station when Pari was kidnapped , went to buy off Mittal ...he should have stayed tight lipped and stayed out . He was more bothered about Archana's daughter who wrecked his daughter's life than his own .

Ovi too wrecked Purvi 's life .He still forgave Ovi .Manav has to take care of Purvi as she is in a serious financial mess.

As far as Pari goes , his responsibility ENDS there .

But he is Pari's grand dad ..Just as much as DK, so how can his responsibility end ????

The Kirloskars who r super rich should think about their blood and have talks with Purvi . Sulochana came to the kholi , saw the living conditions and ran away without taking responsibility Inspite of Purvi being raised there and Manav who was not even in her life a year back should do this and that ?

Shame on DK for not checking on Pari, shame on Sulochna for not asking about Onir 's job situation ...but when it comes to someone caring , parents are always over and above everyone else ..that is why Manav should care more than DK and Sulochna ...

He has even put that troublesome girl in his will but not his own son ...what should he do now ,sign away a large chunk of his estate to Pari ?

Well , he had gifted Pari a big property when she was Ovi's child ...but now that she is Purvi's all has changed ...

Where is Pari's fault in all this ?

If it was not for Ovi , Pari would have been living happily with her biological mother and her father living a great life ...Actually thanks to Ovi and Purvi, Pari's life has been totally messed up .

No way . If Archana wants to dance Purvi Purvi Purvi after waking from her coma let her ,

I want her to 😆, I really want her create hell after finding out how Purvi and Soham were treated ...

Manav should stay out this time , however beautiful Archana looks while crying . Archana did Varshu Varshu Varshu once same way and look where it got her , both blackened her face .

Even in Manav's life there are characters like Savita who have done some pretty bad things ( thus mostly nominated in the category of a villian ) .His mother too blackened his face when he found ou tthe truth and his son Sachin forged signatres and was breaking the law knowingly ...so it is not only Archana who has been let down by those she loved ...Manav is very much in the same boat ...

If Ovi's mistakes can be forgiven , so can be Purvi's ...that's all I am saying ...

And Purvi is her mother's jaan . He cannot have Archana and not know Purvi ...they come as a package deal...even Soham now is part of the deal.

As for Archana being beautiful , I think that is nice , nothing wrong with that ...

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

If Archana goes all defensive for Purvi , i want Manav to throw her out and not take her back this time . He did after that case and losing Soham but not this time . She better behave when she gets up from that coma and not start these sukh shanti destroying dramas again , her daughter has done ENOUGH . Manav is perfect now .

No no , I want her to fight for Purvi and Soham and if Manav and Archana split up, so be it ...let's see what happens ..I am having fun debating after a very long time 😆

Originally posted by: pari87

awww poor little arjun...he should probably take the next bed to Archu and fall into a deep coma...

I don't think they got the chance to agree or disagree to AROVI's marriage. Purvi madam forced it, did the pheras and they all 3 got home..Ovi was a fool to want Arjun, the most loser type of man anyone can want. Purvi left him high and dry each time. I don't think Manav or any D or K person told them to do something or not do something. They had a chance to divorce their spouses and they now also have that same chance. Why they are not doing it, you may better know...Ovi has walked out and Manav asked Arjun whether he loves purvi and told him that he cannot love two women at once..so who is stopping lover boy to now go and re-unite with the woman who has caused his ultimate downfall? Aliens? Supernatural forces keeping them apart? Pray enlighten me.

ohh but poor arjun with his limited IQ and ofcourse a coginitvely impaired brain that needs someone else to tell him what to do. Eternal Devdas type personality.

Archana ne kahaan, ghar baar chod do

Purvi ne kahaa, mujhe chod do

Manav ne kahaa, ovi ko chod do

Dk ne kahan, kisi ko bhi pakad lo

Everytime, someone else tells him what to do. Doodh peeta baccha hai kya?