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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Ok so Arjun and DK are rich but so what ? That does not mean that Manav is no more responsible for his daughter ..That is his kid , he has to look after her more than anyone else ...

No one can take place of your dad when it comes to caring .
It is Purvi's right that Manav should look after her if she is in trouble ..He is angry with her but still he should make sure that she is comfortable ...
He has to find out if Arjun and DK are indeed looking after Purvi and Pari financially or not .If Arjun had not seen poor Onir lift those boxes , he would have never come with the money ...
Why did Manav come with the money ?????
I really really hope that Archana has a big fight with Manav for being horrid to Soham and for neglecting his responsibility towards Purvi and Pari .



Tanya, Manav is a good man, but he's not God. He knew about the existence of purvi a year back, he did not bring her up and from the time he knows her, his family, the daughter he brought up has been in trouble. Ideally, yes he should treat all children equally. But we are not ideal, perfect people. Even archana, who gave birth to ovi and teju, does not love them anywhere close to she loves purvi. When she came to know ovi was suicidal, she cried but didn't stop or delay the marriage. At least here, manav went to mittal to ask him not to take action against onir, he was ready to give whatever money mittal wanted to drop the case. He also went with the lawyer personally to bail onir when he knew he was arrested. Not a lot of dads in his shoes would be able to do that; be even that much fair that he understood onir and purvi's actions didn't deserve such a permanent punishment as onir losing his medical license.

It has nothing to do with purvi being adopted and ovi biological. Sachin is not manav's biological son, but he is as good as because he's been raised by manav ever since he was a baby. That's also the reason manav hasn't been able to connect with soham yet. He automatically loves him in the abstract because he's his son, but the only way he knows soham is as a person who's brought nothing but trouble to his family from the time he's back in their lives.

And pari has her millionaire dad and grand-dad to take care of her every need. It is not only their responsibility, but their greatest wish. They are fully capable of doing it too. If manav can get over his anger and remember his responsibilities towards purvi, that will honestly be his really big heart and more than can be expected of him. Already, even now, he allows purvi to come to his home and be part of family discussions--both when pari was kidnapped and when ovi left. Even sulo hasn't allowed purvi back home yet.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Ok so Arjun and DK are rich but so what ? That does not mean that Manav is no more responsible for his daughter ..That is his kid , he has to look after her more than anyone else ...

No one can take place of your dad when it comes to caring .
It is Purvi's right that Manav should look after her if she is in trouble ..He is angry with her but still he should make sure that she is comfortable ...
He has to find out if Arjun and DK are indeed looking after Purvi and Pari financially or not .If Arjun had not seen poor Onir lift those boxes , he would have never come with the money ...
Why did Manav come with the money ?????
I really really hope that Archana has a big fight with Manav for being horrid to Soham and for neglecting his responsibility towards Purvi and Pari .


Tanya, so agree with you, a parent is a parent even when one is angry with the child, the responsibilities of parenthood don't magically disappear because the child has erred. But who are we kidding, looks like Manav never considered Purvi his daughter in any sense of the word and only accepted her to please his long lost wife. Poor Archana, I hope she takes him to task for being such a hypocrite.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

So what if Pari has Onir ? Onir does not have a job and his medical liscense has been taken away ...

Most definitely manav should take care of Pari finanially ...And if Purvi ruined Ovi's life then Ovi too ruined Purvi's life ...


yes, for sure be angry with Purvi for the baby swapping ...but if Ovi can be forgiven for making that evil deal, if Savita can be forgiven for making Archana suffer for 18 years ...then why can't Purvi be forgiven ...Why is Ovi over and above everyone ...??????


I have blasted Arjun and Purvi both ..Still am angry with them .But Manav never stopped caring for Ovi when she was at fault so why is he not concerned about Purvi and most of all her little baby ..When Pari was Ovi's daughter , he bought a property on her name and now he has no money to give for Pari , not even for her every day upbringing ...


I really really hope that Purvi's mother wakes up and she has the biggest fight with Manav for not taking care of Soham and Pari and also for totally cutting himself with Purvi 😡


as long as Archana is his wife , Purvi will always be his daughter ...

Purvi was the girl who saved Archana's life when he left her alone and took her babies away ...


Again I will say that Purvi is making a mistake by being way too concerned about Ovi and Arjun ..( makes me very angry withher for this ) but now the time has come for Manav to take care of his responsibilities as a father ...


he did a great job in settling Ovi back in her career ...Now look at your youngest daughter and help her get out of her financial mess...



Has soham been forgiven ?
It's simple assumption that Arjun loves pari a lot so he is helping her financially
Plus how is Manav supposed to know what's happening behind closed doors
Ovi , made the deal but what would happen if she was disowned ? Would she divorce Arjun?
Plus Ovi was suicidal then
Arjun promised to marry Ovi first anyway
Purvi should mind her own business and concentrate on her own family
I am not angry at Manav
I am angry at sulo
Because she seems to have forgotten she had the opportunity to help onir and Purvi
Purvi didn't hand her house over to Mittal and punni and she should be grateful rather than yelling at her
But see when Ovi made the deal
She didn't LIE about anything
It was very upfront
Purvi lied about her miscarriage, exchanged the stillborn and then even his the reality the baby is biologically Arjun's baby
And when the truth did come out , it rather same out abruptly
I think Manav is right where he is
Archana has been partial to Purvi
So Manav has been partial to Ovi
He is his little girl and its okay
He is the father after all
Plus Purvi is really not his responsibility
Archana didn't consult him about adopting Purvi
Manav even gave her equal property shares as Ovi and Teju
That's quite the other thing , that Purvi can't seem to use them :-
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I hate almost all the characters in pr, they are disgusting and very annoying, that's all I'm gonna say about them.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't think Manav would be angry if he was told all this before and not abruptly
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sowmya , I agree with you that Archana is also biased towards Purvi as she brought her up and she is also unfair to Ovi and Teju and when she does that , I call her a bad mother to Ovi and Teju ...but her daughter was wronged too and she feels more because Purvi and Arjun broke up because of her somewhere ...
Same way , I am accusing Manav of being a bad father to Purvi because he is neglecting his responsibilities towards her ..I can understand why he is angry ( the baby swaping ) and yesterday I backed him but I cannot forgive him for ignoring Pari and not taking care of Purvi ( even if he does it silently ) because Purvi is in a big financial mess...
And if DK is Pari's grand dad then so is Manav . Manav 's responsibilities are just as much as DK's ...
He should have tried to find out how the little one is doing and how is Purvi doing ...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: soapwatcher1


Tanya, so agree with you, a parent is a parent even when one is angry with the child, the responsibilities of parenthood don't magically disappear because the child has erred. But who are we kidding, looks like Manav never considered Purvi his daughter in any sense of the word and only accepted her to please his long lost wife. Poor Archana, I hope she takes him to task for being such a hypocrite.


Agree with that.. I feel as if if Manav does not consider Purvi his daughter honestly he should just tell her that to her face.. I know its harsh but don't just deceive her like that.. Tell her to her face so she doesn't have expectations.. But don't put that sham up.
When a kid is on the wrong path that is when he/she needs the parent the most just to get them straight. Mnav is just mad and more mad. He needs to be a father and explain to Purvi what she did wrong and so on, then get her on track in her life. Probably what Archana would have done, she would have been mad, but she wouldn't have reacted this way.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

I don't think Manav would be angry if he was told all this before and not abruptly
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Ok so his daughter kept him in dark ...Ovi too kept him in dark before marrying Arjun and breaking up Purvi and Arjun ...but what did he do then , gave a party and forgave Ovi ...
So why this behaviour with Purvi ...because he did not raise her , fine ...then I cannot call him the big hearted person that he was once ...and let's wait for that person to wake up who raised Purvi , when she will bring the roof down ( I sure hope she does ) after finding out how Purvi and Soham were treated then I hope everyone will understand her point of view too...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Ok so his daughter kept him in dark ...Ovi too kept him in dark before marrying Arjun and breaking up Purvi and Arjun ...but what did he do then , gave a party and forgave Ovi ...

So why this behaviour with Purvi ...because he did not raise her , fine ...then I cannot call him the big hearted person that he was once ...and let's wait for that person to wake up who raised Purvi , when she will bring the roof down ( I sure hope she does ) after finding out how Purvi and Soham were treated then I hope everyone will understand her point of view too...


I cannot wait for her (archana) to set him straight.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird



Has soham been forgiven ?
It's simple assumption that Arjun loves pari a lot so he is helping her financially
Plus how is Manav supposed to know what's happening behind closed doors
Ovi , made the deal but what would happen if she was disowned ? Would she divorce Arjun?
Plus Ovi was suicidal then
Arjun promised to marry Ovi first anyway
Purvi should mind her own business and concentrate on her own family
I am not angry at Manav
I am angry at sulo
Because she seems to have forgotten she had the opportunity to help onir and Purvi
Purvi didn't hand her house over to Mittal and punni and she should be grateful rather than yelling at her
But see when Ovi made the deal
She didn't LIE about anything
It was very upfront
Purvi lied about her miscarriage, exchanged the stillborn and then even his the reality the baby is biologically Arjun's baby
And when the truth did come out , it rather same out abruptly
I think Manav is right where he is
Archana has been partial to Purvi
So Manav has been partial to Ovi
He is his little girl and its okay
He is the father after all
Plus Purvi is really not his responsibility
Archana didn't consult him about adopting Purvi
Manav even gave her equal property shares as Ovi and Teju
That's quite the other thing , that Purvi can't seem to use them :-

I am glad that Purvi is not using the property shares given to her by Manav . If he cannot give her the understanding and care that a father should then he can take his shares and do what he wants ...Purvi was never after his money , all she wanted was his love and his blessings ...
Being a father should not depend on your mood .One has to be a father no matter what , 24 /7 .He was totally with Ovi , through thick and thin and also when she destroyed the happiness of another girl .not once she was slapped or he stopped talking to her ...he forgave her immediately ..I guess because Ovi is his little girl and it is his duty to protect his little girl , fine ...
then I hope the same kind of understanding will be given to Archana when she comes to protect her little girl , support her , guide her and do whatever it takes to help her out of this mess ..
About Purvi not being his responsibility, all I will say is if he feels this way then he is thankless because if he has the love of his life Archana still alive and well then it is all thanks to this Purvi who came in Archana's life when Manav's mother tricked her own son and seperated husband and wife for 18 years ( of course he forgave her for this but finds it hard to forgive Purvi ...)
If it was not for Purvi, Archana would have gone insane ...
I am not saying that Purvi is not making mistakes ..She did when she gave up her daughter ...but the way Manav is treating her , I feel bad , very bad ..I am just hoping that Archana wakes up and there is world war in the Deshmukh house for the way Purvi and Soham were treated .
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