do u feel bad for dr. onir? - Page 5

No. It's his own fault for not wanting to learn about her past, and hence, her behaviour. He didn't even care about what he was getting into and now he's paying for it.

Originally posted by: jdronamraju

Why should we feel sorry for Dr. Onir? What has happened to him? It is his wife, his call, if he wants to follow her and his fate. Isnt that what everyone said about Arjun? How is this guy different?

Originally posted by: Cutie4197

because he knew evrythng, yet he married ovi. he didnt think logically just went flowing in purvi's river of luv n crocodile tears..

onir doesnt know anythng, his wife left him widout tellin a word. wasnt it wrong on purvi's part?

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Kalapi this is new 21st century where it is genuine reason for seperating 😲...When a husband does not do what ever dear WIFI asks him to do is labled as "No understanding or bonding" and on that ground she can surely end the relationship..She was very clear in her letter to Onir she was leaving him as they did not have Understanding or bonding in their 6 months relationship..😳

Now my silly brain knows Onir is going to be shown turning into a -ve character just to make our MMLA sound, wise, tyagi, mahan and caring sister or wife. It will be silly Onir who was not understanding to his wife's whims..😉

Not getting love should make one psycho with issues but here tooo much love is making one psycho with deep rooted cause..😕😲😳

yup i feel bad for onir becuz he is a good hubby and person so he doesnt desreve all this shit!!!!!!!!

My dear peaches (and Cutie too, what delightful ids you both have!),

I am so sorry to contradict you, but I am afraid the problem is not at all about Purvi's past. Seeing the kind of man Onir is, and how besotted he is with his Mishti, he would not have bothered even if he had learnt, out of the blue, that she had had a dozen ex-lovers in her past.

It has only to do with Purvi's wanting Onir to treat Ovi, despite his explaining that no doctor can treat a patient who does NOT want him to treat her, and her leaving him on that specious count.

Please do not confuse the two things, which have nothing to do with each other.

Onir has, till now, been a consistently and rationally good person, and I hope he stays that way, like Rajat Kapur in BALH, another Balaji soap. In fact it is Rajat who gives me some hope for Onir.

The only reason why one should feel sorry for Onir is his misfortune in getting involved with and falling for this serial ditching specialist, aka Purvi. Exactly the reason for which my heart weeps for my poor Arjun, who is in a desperate state now, worse than anything one could have imagined, saddled with a termagant of a wife for what looks like the whole of the rest of his existence.

This said, I think all of you are really angry about what has happened to Arjun, as indeed I am as well, but that should not stop us from facing the facts where Purvi is concerned.

All the very best to all of you for a healthy, peaceful and fulfilling New Year 2013.

Shyamala Aunty

Originally posted by: peachesnplums

@Bold: Onir chose not to know anything about Purvi's past, when wanted to marry her. He may or may not have foreseen what good/bad will come out of it. However, I think it's wrong to say he doesn't know anything. He made that choice to not know anything.

Don't really feel sorry for the guy, except the reasons Amy mentioned earlier, crazy D family.

Originally posted by: Cutie4197

because he knew evrythng, yet he married ovi. he didnt think logically just went flowing in purvi's river of luv n crocodile tears..

onir doesnt know anythng, his wife left him widout tellin a word. wasnt it wrong on purvi's part?

Originally posted by: jdronamraju

Why should we feel sorry for Dr. Onir? What has happened to him? It is his wife, his call, if he wants to follow her and his fate. Isnt that what everyone said about Arjun? How is this guy different?

My dear,

I do not want to repeat myself and tire you out, but as I wrote to peaches and Cutie above,
I am afraid the problem is not at all about Purvi's past. Seeing the kind of man Onir is, and how besotted he is with his mishti, he would not have bothered even if he had learnt, out of the blue, that she had had a dozen ex-lovers in her past.

It has only to do with Purvi's wanting Onir to treat Ovi, despite his explaining that no doctor can treat a patient who does NOT want him to treat her, and her leaving him on that specious count.

Please do not confuse the two things, which have nothing to do with each other.

I do not know what you think about a wife behaving like this, and that too with an excessively indulgent husband, but for me it is totally unacceptable. Perhaps I am just too old fashioned!

Onir has, till now, been a consistently and rationally good person, and I hope he stays that way, like Rajat Kapur in BALH, another Balaji soap. In fact it is Rajat who gives me some hope for Onir.

The only reason why one should feel sorry for Onir is his misfortune in getting involved with and falling for this serial ditching specialist, aka Purvi. Exactly the reason for which my heart weeps for my poor Arjun, who is in a desperate state now, worse than anything one could have imagined, saddled with a termagant of a wife for what looks like the whole of the rest of his existence.

My very best wishes to you and your family for a healthy, peaceful and fulfilling New Year 2013.

Shyamala B.Cowsik

Originally posted by: nalonynnej

No. It's his own fault for not wanting to learn about her past, and hence, her behaviour. He didn't even care about what he was getting into and now he's paying for it.