do u feel bad for dr. onir? - Page 6

Originally posted by: sashashyam

My dear peaches (and Cutie too, what delightful ids you both have!),

I am so sorry to contradict you, but I am afraid the problem is not at all about Purvi's past. Seeing the kind of man Onir is, and how besotted he is with his Mishti, he would not have bothered even if he had learnt, out of the blue, that she had had a dozen ex-lovers in her past.

It has only to do with Purvi's wanting Onir to treat Ovi, despite his explaining that no doctor can treat a patient who does NOT want him to treat her, and her leaving him on that specious count.

Please do not confuse the two things, which have nothing to do with each other.

Onir has, till now, been a consistently and rationally good person, and I hope he stays that way, like Rajat Kapur in BALH, another Balaji soap. In fact it is Rajat who gives me some hope for Onir.

The only reason why one should feel sorry for Onir is his misfortune in getting involved with and falling for this serial ditching specialist, aka Purvi. Exactly the reason for which my heart weeps for my poor Arjun, who is in a desperate state now, worse than anything one could have imagined, saddled with a termagant of a wife for what looks like the whole of the rest of his existence.

This said, I think all of you are really angry about what has happened to Arjun, as indeed I am as well, but that should not stop us from facing the facts where Purvi is concerned.

All the very best to all of you for a healthy, peaceful and fulfilling New Year 2013.

Shyamala Aunty

Originally posted by: Kalapi

Yes, it is a 21^st century thingy, I guess. Hubby having a mind of his own isn't a prized catch, rather it has become having an attitude...but, of course, the problem is, most men actually do have attitude and will stand their ground, and we can call it manliness, ego, attitude or whatever. At least most men, I have seen, know that if they are right, they will stand their ground...and, I agree too, it has nothing to do with knowing Purvi's past...as with Onir benevolent character helping the poor, he probably doesn't care a thing about her past, as long as Purvi is true to him now...some men can be very confident and comfortable not to care at all...

Oh, btw, I am still waiting for a thread on Purvi and her travelling on a train alone in her preggo state😉😉...well, we had quite a few of those to criticize the other 'preggo' character of the show, isn't one going to be even started for her and her unique way in 'taking' care of her unborn baby😆😆

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Kalapi this is new 21st century where it is genuine reason for seperating 😲...When a husband does not do what ever dear WIFI asks him to do is labled as "No understanding or bonding" and on that ground she can surely end the relationship..She was very clear in her letter to Onir she was leaving him as they did not have Understanding or bonding in their 6 months relationship..😳

Now my silly brain knows Onir is going to be shown turning into a -ve character just to make our MMLA sound, wise, tyagi, mahan and caring sister or wife. It will be silly Onir who was not understanding to his wife's whims..😉

Not getting love should make one psycho with issues but here tooo much love is making one psycho with deep rooted cause..

Originally posted by: sashashyam

My dear,

With your @blue, as Goethe once wrote about Kalidasa's Shakuntala, "all at once is said", and I have nothing more to argue about.😉 I too do not know, really, why I keep letting these idiotic characters get on my nerves, and that too when I have a bout of conjunctivitis!

Pure folly, and so I shall stop at least now, and wish you and your family a healthy, peaceful and fulfilling New Year 2013. I have purposely left out the conventional happiness, but if you have these three, contentment, which is more lasting than happiness, is sure to follow.

Shyamala B.Cowsik

PS: As for Onir he is a paragon of a spouse, and I only hope that he stays that way. Of course he is neither a wimp nor a pajama right now, but I am deeply apprehensive that he too will be shoved soon into that race!

Originally posted by: Gewels

If a man can marry a woman and exhibit such a lack of interest in her past life, frankly he is going to be unpleasantly surprised at some stage. He is the least interested in Purvi's family etc. As far as we know he never asked her anything about why she left her family. I find it odd.