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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sherma

ovi is a young girl-19 years,if she isnt ready 4 her pregnnacy,i is it such a big deal

i am not sayingyoung girls dont get pregnnat,but if ur husbnd luvs u and cares for u then its different
arjun wldnt have lft her,if she wld opt for abortion
andi if ovi really wnted ti harm the bbay(by drnking wine),she could very easily do it befre too
here her husband has made her pregnnat but is still dreaming of her ex,and this wasnt the first time arjun was dreaming abt purvi
yes ovi knew where was she going,but pregnnacy is sumting different
having a baby is end of road for any1,thats y people plan
and here arovi has married 7mths ago,and ovi is 5.5mth pregnnat
i am not saying any1 forced her,i ahve seenmy ssiter freaking out like mad whn she was excepting,although she had a luving hubby and wanted baby too
ovi seems fed up wid arjuns natak
techically arjun alwy did that,
watever he said in speech was so fake

sure Arjun is wrong, but how can you blame him, he made a promice to purvi that he would give ovi that status and rights of a wife. and he did.
when ovi got pregant Arjun still told her it was her choice weather to keep the baby or not. Arjun wanted the baby but he didnt force ovi to keep it. ovi on savita advise decided to keep the baby so that she can tie Arjun to her, she new even then the Arjun did not love and was still in love with Purvi. but selfish ovi wanted to be no one in Arjun life, she wanted him to love her. so she kept the baby. hoping the this would make Arjun love "HER".
i dont feel any sympity for ovi, she brought this on her self. knowing Arjun loved Purvi, she forces litery blackmailed purvi to give her Arjun. she willing married a man who was in love with another woman. was still in love with that woman 1 month after their marriage, and now 6 months later he is still in love with the woman. Arjun cares for the child and ovi. but he doesnt love ovi,
ovi resents this face the Arjun will never love her, he will love the child and he will always love purvi . but he will never love her.
no ovi not only resents Arjun, she also resents her own baby.
and as for the speech that Arjun gave he pointed to ovi but everyword was ment for purvi. the scean where Arjun is talking to purvi proves that. she is his phylosopher and guide the love of his life. his speech was ment only for purvi. and not ovi. that is why ovi is so resentful. and i believe she deservs this. and i feel sorry for Arjun becaues he doesnt . he deservs to be happy and he clearly isnt.
there is nothing but haterad and resentment between Arjun and Ovi. but in public they pretend to be happy becauese Ovi doesnt want to be humiliated in front of everyone. by people finding out that till now she could not gain her husbands love. the man she did so much to attain, stole him for her sister on their wedding day, knowing he loved her sister, she married him and he will never love her ever is humiliating.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ovi should be the last one to complaint about wanting to do x,y or z with her life and a baby will tie her down...what she felt that spreading she legs wouldnt have consequences...19 or not she should know the respeonsibilties coming with marriage ,rites and sex...Arjun is jus a typical man ,having pysical relations without love...if ovi as a woman/female doesnt respect her self who the hell will???she looked for what she got...then she should have gotten an annulment,keep she legs closed and continue with her career...now she screaming bloody murder when she pregnant,steups.when she was romping in bed with arjun and enjoying estacy and bliss she wasnt thinking she was 19,wanted a career nor arjun still loved purvi...but now she making excuses for her lack of sense and critical judgement.just like varsha wanted her career, aborted baby and then turned out to be a kidnapping psycho...the question isnt what is wrong in it,but wats not wrong with it...learn to accept responsibilties for ur actions...well arjun either has great fantastic swimmers,a perfect shot or they have timed ovi ovulation date to a tee.the man have skills..
Edited by caribbeanchica - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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marriage may be and institution, but it means nothing if the two people who are partners in this institutuion are not happy.

Arjun should not have lisened to Purvi, but should have divoced Ovi.
Ovi should not have married in the first a man who is in love with another woman.
call me a romantic, but love is more important than marriage. if there is no love in a marriage the two people involved will never be happy.
resentment will always be there, Arjun deep down in his heart will resent Ovi for seperating him for the love of his life, his soulmate.
and ovi love is bound to turn to resentment and hate becaues Arjune is giving her all the rights of a wife, he sleeps with her, shares his life with her, shares everything he has with her but he cannot love her. his heart will always belong ot purvi.
if Arjun was putting up an act with the speach, so was Ovi with the party preparations. both are aware of what the other is doing as they have mutually decided to hold up pretences in public.
ovi knows Arjun does not love, Arjun has not told any lie to ovi the he loves her,
he is stuck in a relationship he never wanted in the first place,
and ovi is stuck in a relationship that she wanted out of her staboneness and now it is not working out the way "SHE WANTED IT TO" ie Arjun to adore her, arjun to love her, for her to be the most important person in her life. first purvi was the most important person in his life, and now the baby will be the most important person in his life. while Ovi will never be the most important person in anybody's life.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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A marrried woman should keep her legs closed and not hope that the child may cement her shaky marraige but Purvi should keep her legs unclosed inspite of being unmarried and not wait till the legal marraige takes place just in few days . Wow . And the man Arjun should kiss the hands of the tailor who made the zipper as it gave him such unbridled passionate moments .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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If Ovi needs to stick to her decision of keeping the baby, then Arjun needs to stick to HIS decision TO STAY MARRIED TO OVI and TO GIVE HER FULL RIGHTS as his wife!

I'm sorry I didn't know giving your wife all of her rights only consisted of having s** with her. What about emotional bonding? Is he even trying? NO.

So before Ovi is criticized for "not respecting her decision", Arjun needs to be criticized for not respecting his own decision of marrying her, a decision he took WAY BEFORE Ovi took hers. Hypocrite much, Arjun?
Edited by ChemistryMajor - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well I have no pity for either of them here they choose to do the deed.. Ovi is responsible for her actions she should have thought she oculd get pregnant before doing so... Its just sad that Ekta had to bring innocent babies into this..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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merrydock i agree

everyone need not give importance to this instititution . To each his own .

If one feels 'love' is more important , even more than babies so be it .

But there r live in relationships , right , there r divorces ? Don't go in for this instititution then !

Why did not Arjun take one after knowing he made a mistake by marrying Ovi on Purvi's word ? Chalo i will even look further than that . He announced in party that he loved Purvi who was now his saali right ? What did he have to lose , why not file for a divorce after that ? An unconsummated marraige and such declarations r the perfect ground for a speedy divorce . Who the hell had told him not to be with his love and be in a loveless marraige ?

Till then he had not even touched his wife , he could still get away from it all .

But instead of filing for a divorce he sleeps with the wife whom he has no intentions of ever loving bcozhis ex told tim to and this mockery is supposed to be a big noble deed is the story , what do u say of that ??


Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sherma

she went wid d decison cause she wnted to wrk for her marriage-suggestion by savita

she wasnt drinking,she jsut wanted arjuns attention,y wil she evn drink when her parents around
she looked for arjun,and to show off she was abt to drink
now its quite late to do abortion,and ovi will nevr harm her babay,no mom can,after almost keping in your womb for 22 weeks
she notices cause she is living wid it
for eg:arjun talking to purvis bhoot
i was the one who was alwys against arvi marriage considering they r too young to marry,but having a kid at such a young age is further worst evn physically
thats the reason i think arovi will consult dr onir



I will be sad if Ovi now does a Varsha and tries or aborts her baby.
Granted she is very young but there are women younger than her who
have had babies successfully. Too bad she did not think about her
career, modelling and all before all this.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Now abortion is not possible Anjili ...the pregnancy is too advanced .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

3 idiots were tooo young to be married let alone be in love with anyone..

Prego is not part of teenage life...Arjun is immature 22 yrs young man...Who does not think with the right head...His mind is stuck in the moment when ArVi had their little SEX in the cottage...Not even worried if he got ovi prego so quick, may be Purvi is prego too...
Nothing bothers him but his own feelings...Shameless dude that he is..
Kalapi Arjun has tasted Nector of Love-Lust (Sex with Purvi)...he cant get it out of his mind and from under his skin..He needs his fix now and pronto 😉 😆

I must say this Varsha these 3 idiots are damn fertile😆😉

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