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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

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Posted: 13 years ago

#121

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

There was no need to do pheras in a temple then . One could have done a court marraige and as easily divorced too . According to me God was trivialised twice in this serial ...when the marrige was done in front of him but now it is being justified that feelings' are more important as they simple cannot be controlled . Second time was the dream before him .

And it still does not answer my question ...why not file for a divorce . It is in perfect accordance with his feelings actually . Whose permission is being waited for here and what reason do they need . Give importance to 'feelings' and divorce Ovi . It may not be a mutual consent divorce and Arjun will have a lot of explaining to do in front of an irate judge who will ask him the same question ...is marriage a gudda guddi khel or what . Still it can be done . If Ovi is so bad she will walk away with half his property for his lovelorn costly mistake but still it can be done . Why then is he not going for it . Waitting for what . Don't believe in marriage ...atheist ...or hardened enough to conveniently use god or hypocitically use him ...whatever . Divorce na . Don't stay for a moment in this loveless marraige .

Totally agree with you kools...I said this the day they got married in front of god...Why could they not do it in court? why plan this at the last minute and in mandir in front of god..

to the 2nd para, Ovi wants to be married to Arjun and won't initiate divorce but he got married only for Purvi's wish to make her momma happy...Why???? Now it is done and he is miserable as he cant forget Purvi and wants her so badly than why not divorce? What and who is stopping him from doing so??? DK would flip flop again and support this too...Archana would be so happy to see him do this as long as he marries Purvi again...Its Ovi and some of the Ds would be unhappy...I am not even including Manav in that some of the Ds as he is under my beautiful wife Archana and can't do no wrong spell..🤔

He is merely waiting either Ovi to give him up or a sign from Purvi to dump Ovi yet again...Arjun has become a puppett in Purvi's hands or emotionally controlled so badly..He cant even decide abt his marrriage whether to keep it or no on his own...I cant even recognize Arjun any more..

You betcha if he goes for divorce judge will defo interrogate him that why did he get married in the first place and under whose coersion did he do so??? I did not see Ovi telling him...It was Purvi who made him do it...Does this not sound like a 5 yrs old saying something..."Mommy he or she made me do it"

Marriage should be taken seriously...its not a kids play...these 18-21 yrs young wants to play adult games but they have maturity of 5 yrs olds..But than again who are they looking as role models?

Good post Kools..👏

Edited by Dabulls23 - 13 years ago

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Ashlaika

@Ashlaika

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Posted: 13 years ago

#122

Don't worry Kools - the divorce is coming soon enough. Just give the boy a few PR days to catch his bearings. He has been taken by storm... one thing after another (ArMan revelations, Savita's secrets, Soham-Varsha, JDJ 😃). Once that's all settled, he too will catch himself, hit himself over the head for his own stupidity and do the deed 😉 😆.

As for Ovi taking half of what is his... He technically has nothing. ALL his shares that he had already went to Ovi. She has them already - so she really has nothing to get. She is divorcing Arjun, not DK 😉.

AND... If she does go after Arjun for whatever money and property, I hope we can have a good go at her for her "greed" that u associate with all the K women 😊!

Come to think of it... all this money talk and money business... Ovi got Arjun's shares when Arjun left home for Purvi... now that Ovi has Arjun... shouldn't she hand over those shares to Purvi now???? 😆.

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#123

Thats what I say Kalapi and Varsha ...that now whatever will come will come with a price . Ovi is paying her price but these two will have to too for making a mockery of serious states of life . Evyrtthing will now av a price coz they decided to pay ,

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Kalapi

@Kalapi

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#124

Yes, Kool…it will be a huge price that all 3 will pay and even if Purvi marries Arjun eventually, she will not be his lover at that point….rather it will be an act of duty for her for far greater than her love for BF Arjun….that is the only way Arvi's union is possible….I think…

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#125

Kalapi fab post...👏

I as a viewer also like to know what EK will do abt this child play marriage, divorce , marriage with 2 diff sisters...I guess no one but few are bothered with even the engagement with one sister and falling in love with other sister and than plan to marry her...Than switching back..

Morality is lost in own cuture...Anything is allowed as long as I get to see the so called love and romance...Nothing is more important including marriage, children nothing...

My million $ Q is will the judge give the same time of 3 or 6 months to Ovi-Arjun to live together or give it a go when and if he files for divorce? I hope the judge finds out the whole truth how it all started out...

Judge made ArMan live together for the 3 months b4 the first time during divorce and 6 months this time...

Just my 2 cents..

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blokes

@blokes

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#126

thanx a ton kools- u save me hours of PR nonsense and add a delicious tadka to make the most d-i-t-d serial appetizing!

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vgiri

@vgiri

Navigator

Posted: 13 years ago

#127

kalapi, Varsha , kool & others...Now that u have seen one week of their married life, What do u want to see in near future?
1. Arjun has to right away accept Ovi and romance her and Run away whenever Purvi's name come up.
2. Arjun and Ovi divorce and Arjun not get married to Purvi
3. Arjun and Ovi divorce and Arjun get married to Purvi
4. Give all three of them time to adjust and create a balance...

We are going back and forth with amoral, bigamy, cultureless, taking marriage as a joke etc..
so I want to know your preference. I cannot sit with a problem for a long time, every problem should have a solution. It may or may not be a favorable result.

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jdronamraju

@jdronamraju

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#128

Originally posted by: Kalapi
True Humans are animals (although right now for the life of me, I can't remember the context), but what differentiate Humans from animals are the use of 'fire' (meaning using this tool to devastating level) and the power to 'differentiate between 'good and evil'...for what is the difference between the dogs in the street of Mumbai who openly engages in a sexual act compared to human's who also engages in such acts, but in the privacy of their home...or the difference between the lion killing its prey for food or if threatened and the Hilter's invasion of Poland or people killing animals not necessarily for food or dominance, but for mere sports or trophies...so the 'intent' are different and hopefully depends of the thought process on "good vs evil' and the act of self restraint or the lack of it...

Modern Indian society does not allow bigamy, although it was once practised. In fact, I hear many countries in African allow active bigamy...does it matter in the context of an Indian serial, though? Rather as modern readers will we advocate such actions, which basically degrades women? In Western Societies, 'live in' are extremely popular and the few couple who are in a 'live in' relationship, all tells me to avoid tax payments (and here I talk both about US and Canada)...so, the couples preferring to do a 'live in' do it because of tax evasion not necessarily any other reason. Indian customs doesn't encourage such acts nor encourage divorces without an effort...see how Ekta Mata gave twice 6 months 'trial' period to Arman...by that same logic, in Arjun/Ovi's case same logic is applicable...but, even I want to see how progressive is Ekta and Indian audience to watch a 'divorce' for love to someone else...yes, I too want to see Arjun applying for a divorce...could love to see the Indian audience reception of that idea...

I, also want to see how Indian audience, in general, are receptive to the idea of a Man divorcing one sister to get married to another (even if you don't believe Ovi and Purvi are sisters), I could like to see how receptive Indian audience and Ekta is to such an idea of marriage as an institution is belittled beyond my belief...my POV is that if Arvi is to unite, there is only one way...and that comes with a price...this seed has probably been sowed today...in my POV

How is Armaan divorce case and Arjun--Ovi divorce case if arises, be judged on the same basis? Armaan were married for a few years, lived as husband and wife, had kids in the equation. how is that the same as Arjun-Ovi marriage which is in name only and is of a few days or even weeks.
You are right, when you say courts do not advocate divorce without an effort. But, that is primarily in the case, when there are children involved, not in such 'in name only' cases.
I did not understand the reference to bigamy here. Where does the question of bigamy arise?
By definition, Bigamy means the criminal offense of marrying one person while still legally married to another. Arjun and Purvi are not marrying each other as long as he is married to Ovi. The topic in question is Arjun being in love with Purvi even after he is married to Ovi. Isnt it? In a situation such as this, how do we expect people to fall out of love in a matter of days, and get all pally with the new wife, who is one of the reasons for his misery? According to me, the main reason. may not be for some, but that is not the point here. It is a matter of heart than anything else. I repeat, again, yes, it is not a switch to be turned off. If a one-sided love could not die even after knowing that the person who you are in love with is totally committed to another girl, even after witnessing it for a month, then how do you expect the same guy to forget his love in a matter of days? Why is there such a disparity in judgement? Just because, there was a name sake marriage? They are not sages or holy men/women to have such great self restraint to do this in such short period of time.

I think the indian audience are being grossly underestimated if we think that a divorce between people who do not want to live with each other is imagined to be a impossible situation to be accepted. In such cases, a divorce is filed under Incompatibility.
And when it comes to divorces, much wierder cases are seen and heard, forget the case of sisters as you mentioned. And as far as indian TV audience, they have seen I am sure, in the hundreds of soaps that are shown in all channels, much wierder stories than this and have been accepted with aplomb 😊..The TRP janta, as we have seen, thrives on melodrama and what can be more melodramatic than this? :)

So, yes, as a modern reader, I am advocating that a couple who are not in love with each other, or rather, if one is in love with someone else, should not be living with each other. And also, would like to see the new wife to be herself and not try to become a clone of his love, but stand up for herself and try to win him on her own terms, who should not have hankered for a man who really does not want her in the first place. In essence, want her to be the modern woman.
But, will the writers let her be that, dont think so. Will they let the divorce happen so easily, dont think s. Will anyone come out of this unscathed, dont think so either. Unless something drastic happens, which I have no clue what it can be as of now, there will be a price to pay by all three of them, for they have all 'sinned' in their own way. I do not mean in the exact meaning of it. but, you get my point.

Edited by jdronamraju - 13 years ago

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Axiom

@Axiom

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Posted: 13 years ago

#129

This show is really the best joke - especially on the viewers - for it doesn't teach anything of value. It should be the "What Not To Do" show. It demoralizes religion, culture, relationships and spirit. We all watch it though for the tamasha, don't we? 😉

We only saw Arjun's thoughts to sensationalize the situation - nothing more. The CVs are doing this to incite people's emotions and to get them talking about the show - case in point. I'm not trying to change anyone's opinion about what Arjun feels or his morals - its up to the viewer to decide. In the same breath, I'm not challenging anyone's moral/cultural/religious beliefs - simply stating my views as everyone else is doing.

Marriage and true love are not mutually exclusive. Both instances can co-exist in the same relationship and it doesn't have to be an either/or type situation. Love can either be classified as a gift from God or a chemical imbalance - anyone's choice - but same for Peter, same for Paul. One person's love is not above or below anyone else's. Ovi loves, Purvi loves, Arjun loves.

Morality and values are passed on from generation to generation and is greatly influenced by society. People adapt and change as is the way of the world - there's no survival without change. Religion does not escape this either. Any passage/verse can be interpreted so many different ways because that's how our minds were created. We receive information, comprehend and process and implement action. It is up to the individual to determine and fortify their own beliefs. Why compare humans to animals? It's apples to oranges.

Marriage is not a game and should not be portrayed as such either. In fact it took me by surprise that some are for the divorce so early. What it boils down to at this point in the show is that Arjun and Ovi are married. Ovi is trying to make her marriage work however she can and no one denies her that or is standing in her way. Arjun is trying to cope with the situation as best he could. He's trying to be civil to his wife even though his heart belongs to someone else. He gets marks for trying. Purvi is finding herself all sorts of projects to stay away from the both of them yet they both seem to seek her out, don't they? I do agree with Janhvi though. You cannot control someone's heart or mind simply because you've taken marriage vows together - the minds still work independently. You never know what the other person is thinking even those closest to you.

People can only be true to their nature as suggested earlier so that will be the determining factor in how this all unravels. In my humble opinion, God determines relationships. Families may marry their children but they cannot guarantee that relationship's success or happiness - it's up to the individuals to do that.

The spark of divinity within us guides our daily thoughts and actions - marriage is not exempt from that since you have to work at it just like anything else.

Anyway, enough of the serious for the week - I'd like to get back to fun.

Kools, I really think your commentary is hilarious and I quite enjoy it so thank you for regaling us with your takes on the daily episodes.

Thank you all for sharing your thoughts 😃

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Rich`

@cs-07

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#130

ohh a new astha attack. i dont even want to know the reason!

and varsha, soham is ten times better with varsha, he is still safe and living than with being grated between the trio. i mean the childhoof or the baby that he was, a mother would never part with her first born and yes, sachin was a child too but she did take complete control of everyone in K house before marriage. i hated the romantic scenes with manav archana when they cudnt handle two children between them. utter bullshit.

i feel bad for ovi, she doesnt deserve a devdas, i hope she realises the arjun in front of her and the naatak happening, i mean they are just short of jumping into an extra marital affair and the sanskari couple disgusts me.

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