Never Reformed, Ovi Deshmukh - Page 4

Ovi could have very well just asked this lil thing too directly to Purvi...cause Miss.Grab Grab knows full well that Miss.Give Give can give away anything for her...(remember the statement that Manav made about Savita and Archana)

Originally posted by: jdronamraju

That is exactly what I was saying with this post, Jhanvi.. The new found "goodness" and "correctness" of Ovi, is what I do not agree with.

see hw much i see ovi as a chrcter is she is gud with her own people,

Originally posted by: simusha

Sherma we all know that you hate purvi,thats why in your eyes ovi is never wrong,please and go watch todays episode again without hating anyone,and tell me then of ovi is wrong or right, i dont care if you hate purvi but i love her very much

Simusha I am sorry to butt in...How does someone having opposite opinion or contrary opinion makes them hate anyone???? How did u get to that conclusion? R u not being bit judgemental here @ underlined. And you can speak for yourself but you are using "WE" so on whose behalf r u writing this??? 😕😳

Originally posted by: mandy321

Dear Jyothi,

Loved your posts

Ovi is good in who she is - our character doesn't change overnight but what happened to Arjun. What did he mean when he said face it "Purvi"? I thought our spineless Arjun is back to Organic Arjun " the Kiloskar". I think there is nothing wrong in saying what Archana said to Ovi but the ironic thing is that Mahaan Tyaag Sanskari Archana brushing aside what Ovi did & giving that suggestion to win Arjun's love through her friendship was very surprising. I don't hold Archana for Arjun,Purvi & Ovi's choices.But as a mother ( like what Manav said to Ovi)I expected her to address first like what Ovi did was morally wrong & her marriage is built on deception,manipulation,blackmail,conspiracy not just harping on Purvi's great sacrifice ( to me it was the greatest moronic deed - I won't even call that a sacrifice in my dictionary) She even failed to correct Purvi too in that case even though she slapped her and asked why,why?- when Purvi said she didn't do anything wrong. They all hugged each other how great their sacrifices are !Forming MAC (Mutual Admiration Company). Archana is the best person to tell Ovi "marriage built in all this foundation is like a foolish man who built his house on sand". Ovi needs to address the core issue first.I am not surprised with Ovi,she is always pregnant with creative ideas to separate Purvi from Arjun.

I hope to see a transformed Arjun strong but yet tender in his pursuit ( though at the moment I really don't know what his pursuit is).I would like him to have an aura of masculine leadership which rises from the mingling of power and tenderness, forcefulness and affection, potency and sensitivity, virility and delicateness.It is disheartening to see passive Arjun reduced just to a remote control.

What can I say about Purvi - oh Purvi Purvi - It is also common to find people who put on a charade of love and loyalty, only to conspire against.Loyalty is what you do, not what you say.Someone once said that loyalty is like the juice of an orange ' the flavor cannot be determined until the orange is squeezed to the breaking point.Circumstances can squeeze us to a point that we reveal our highest loyalties.And what I can say about Purvi- she has chosen her part.

All these three are still pity partying & none of them are repentant. Sinking deeper into dark cold water or will it be like in Pilgrim's progress when the hopeful says "Be of good cheer, my brother; I feel the bottom,and it is good!

Personally for me,the day Arjun got married with Ovi.I lost my ARVI. I will never buy Ekta's perspective of PR.

@bold.. I agree on all of it. Yes, that is why I said I expected more from Archana as a parent.

@red I hope to see that Arjun too. But, that is the romantic idealist in us talking. For, if he does that now, he will be blamed that being a married man, he is pursuing Purvi again. At this point, nothing he does will come out right. I have a different perspective on why he is doing what he is doing. Initially, I also expected the above, that he will be forceful, bad to Ovi, relentlessly puruse Purvi, and eveyrthing would be fine. But, if you really look at the situation now, he cannot morally do any of that. He is a married man, for all purposes. So, what he means, I think, by "Face It', is Purvi might have subjected him to this life (he did it too, i agree), but that does not mean that he will still do as she wishes. She asked him to live with Ovi like a husband. that he is not going to do. He will lead this life as per his rules. So, ultimately, Ovi might have bagged him, Purvi might have dumped him, but Ovi and Purvi will never get what they really wanted, happiness in Ovi's life with his complete cooperation.

Originally posted by: smilegirl

Ovi could have very well just asked this lil thing too directly to Purvi...cause Miss.Grab Grab knows full well that Miss.Give Give can give away anything for her...(remember the statement that Manav made about Savita and Archana)

And Miss.Purvi (I don't even like to add Deshmuk here now) will feel honored to give it away anyway...and flee to Alaska or Timbaktu...maybe Ovi is thinking "out of sight...out of mind" :) good luck Miss.Ovi!!!

Not sure what was her intent to ask Archana here...hmm, CVs are showing us how she is teaching her sanskaars already??? maybe...

I know Marriage is not a joke...but what Purvi is going thru now is not a joke either (agree she was stupid n very very grateful)

nice titles ... very appropriate ...👏

And now...of all people, only Purvi sees Varsha in the reception pic album (how can she even think of going thru the albumt beats me)

I hope to see a transformed Arjun strong but yet tender in his pursuit ( though at the moment I really don't know what his pursuit is).I would like him to have an aura of masculine leadership which rises from the mingling of power and tenderness, forcefulness and affection, potency and sensitivity, virility and delicateness.It is disheartening to see passive Arjun reduced just to a remote control.

Jyoti,I hate to say this – but I didn't mean I want Arjun to pursue Purvi but what I meant was I want Arjun to be clear in his purpose .I stopped watching PR just reading from WU now. For me and I believe for you too marriage is a lifetime commitment and only death can separate it. I know the romantic in me still want ARVI but no matter how much I want it,I won't endorse for Arjun Purvi again. Unfortunately I lost ARVI when Arjun married Ovi. If ever they come back again it will never be the same for me. More than PR I look forward to AshVik's off screen segments.

Originally posted by: smilegirl

And now...of all people, only Purvi sees Varsha in the reception pic album (how can she even think of going thru the albumt beats me)

So picture (showing gratitude to aayi) abhi bhi bhaaki hai my friends...now since Purvi is jobless and needs to keep herself occupied, will start investigating why Varsha showed up at the reception...then Soham discovery n bringing him back to her Aayi...only then will her Mission gratitude will be accomplished!

You are absolutely right.. One more task left for Purvi before she can have a life of her own..Nobody to blame, except herself.

Mandy, superb post, I agree on all points.

Firstly about Archana, as a mother I can understand her reluctance in ruining one daughter's marriage to restore her other daughter's right to that happiness. It is like when 2 of your children want the same toy and fight over it, after one hands her doll to the other, you can chastise the other for being mean, for wanting what did not belong to her, but the fight is over as one child willingly if sorrowfully gave the toy away. If it were a toy, it would behoove the mother to take it away from both or to give it back to the first. Unfortunately, the toy here is a living being and more unfortunately we have all the sanctimonious rites tied to giving the toy away (do rites make a marriage? one can rightly wonder). Her motherly hands are effectively tied, but and this is a big but, in my opinion, Archana needed to have reprimanded Ovi for doing the wrong thing followed later by the advice she did give Ovi. Glossing over what Ovi did smacks of wearing an eye-patch when it is not needed or as Jyo puts it Archana is afraid to rock her boat of new found happiness. She is human and the child (Ovi), evil or not, has just now turned accepting of her.

You have said it all where Arjun, Purvi and Ovi are concerned. Idiots 3 they are, Vishnu will be like a breath of fresh air when he arrives next week, unsullied by love/infatuation/obsession call it what you may. That spring in his step, that twinkle in his eye should suffice to blow away the blues that envelop the D household.

Jyothi, I do not want Purvi to pursue Arjun, he will scoff at her and make her feel humiliated for giving him away. Or do you want her to pine for him openly as balm to his wounded ego? If she does that, she will be looked upon as a home wrecker, she will not be able to face her sanskari Aai or baba. Arjun needs to set things straight with Ovi first, talk to her, make her understand that he is not for her, no more talk of how long will this take, and then once his marriage is behind him then you can want/expect Purvi to pursue him when he is single again. Yes, I understand and bemoan with you that Purvi forced him into this marriage but he is an able bodied adult, he could have said no and not been led like a bhakra to slaughter. As Shyamala said elsewhere, they made their beds and have to lie on it. Even if one of them chooses not to, they have to singly unweave the tangled mess they have created together.

As for Purvi, less said about her the better. She is turning out to have zero brains between her ears. If Ovi comes a begging to her (which she will, never fear), Purvi will agree to marry Rane or whoever is ready to have her. Of course, Ovi will be doing this just to "save" her marriage, justification enough for who would not want to save her ill gotten gains? Purvi will not hesitate to throw her life away yet again to keep her mother's life wrinkle free. It won't be Archana's fault as it will be Purvi's decision and Purvi is an adult. Parents should not interfere in the lives of their children, children learn from their own mistakes (hint, hint, only Savi dear has that license to meddle in her son's life), so idiotic Purvi should keep jumping into the well repeatedly, she has not learnt the lesson, once bitten, twice shy. She will marry Rane or the dhobi on the street to get out of Ovi's way and happily lead a middle class sanskari life with sanskari children with a sanskari man in a sanskari middle class chawl. Her sanskari middle class mom turned millionaire wife/mom will pat her and bless her absent-mindedly but proudly and quickly return to her spoilt non-sanskari OvAr grand kids. Serve Purvi right for being an orphan, for having been adopted, for carrying a mammoth chip on her shoulder.

Ultimately, all will be well with the D kids, biological and adopted, all of them would have gotten what they wanted - Aai's happiness, baba's acceptance, Ken's love, aaji's sukhi. "aai's in sasural, all is well with the world (apologies to Browning).

Just my POV 😆