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Preeti

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Posted: 13 years ago

#51

A fellow proposes you and then 2 days later you have his father announce his engagement to another girl infront of some 100 people. This guy goes n gets engaged to that girl his father chose infront of the girl he proposed 2 days back.

Do you feel in such situations Purvi should have gone there and Congratulated him for a Happy Married Life? I am sorry but I dont think that Purvi's reactions to all this was wrong. The situation she was in ...it was natural for her to react like this.

Infact she actually controlled her emotions all through but then a point when she couldnt she preferred leaving the place.

I dont wanna get Archana or Sulochana here. This is purely about Arjun-Purvi and I dont think Purvi was wrong in the way she reacted yday. If she is wrong Arjun is equally wrong too. They both are right or wrong at thier respective stands.

About thr precap - Arjun spoke to DK bcoz he knew he was wrong in hiding thr truth from Purvi and others. Now its to be seen if Arjun still stands by Purvi or does he lets go off his Love for Family Reputation and bla bla.

Its a testing time for both.

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Bluefalls

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Posted: 13 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: -Preeti-
A fellow proposes you and then 2 days later you have his father announce his engagement to another girl infront of some 100 people. This guy goes n gets engaged to that girl his father chose infront of the girl he proposed 2 days back.

Do you feel in such situations Purvi should have gone there and Congratulated him for a Happy Married Life? I am sorry but I dont think that Purvi's reactions to all this was wrong. The situation she was in ...it was natural for her to react like this.

Infact she actually controlled her emotions all through but then a point when she couldnt she preferred leaving the place.

I dont wanna get Archana or Sulochana here. This is purely about Arjun-Purvi and I dont think Purvi was wrong in the way she reacted yday. If she is wrong Arjun is equally wrong too. They both are right or wrong at thier respective stands.

About thr precap - Arjun spoke to DK bcoz he knew he was wrong in hiding thr truth from Purvi and others. Now its to be seen if Arjun still stands by Purvi or does he lets go off his Love for Family Reputation and bla bla.

Its a testing time for both.

True . U cant blame one for the other. Arjun shud hv at least told purvi abt ovi before. Purvi was completely clueless abt what his commitment has been at Canada. Its not weird on her part to react like that. And to add to that dont forget she has been hurt on the same day and same event not only by arjun but her mother also. She really felt alone at that point.

But I m sure Arjun will come around and try to confide the matter to his father but I hv full doubts whether purvi at that point will allow it or will becum the sacrficing queen for her mother and sister. Problem is not Arjun...his mistake is temporary and he will flash the truth and there's still a little chance left to mold the situation but if he continues this love love acting with ovi as per purvi's decision i.e. if purvi does what we dont want her to do then there's bound to be sum big permanent damage. And arjun wont do anything without her permission i guess :(

Edited by saheli2610 - 13 years ago

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Preeti

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Posted: 13 years ago

#53

Absolutely!

Well said Saheli. Its not upto Arjun as to how would he handle this Situation. Would he go by Purvi's decision to sacrifice for Ovi? Or would he make her understand that this isnt happening and her decision might put an end to 3 lives being hers, Arjuns and Ovi's too.

This matter is messy. For Arjun is in love with Daughters of the same mother of whom one is Adopted and the other was away from her mother for almost 18yrs. Arjun Purvi Ovi's relationship would eventually affect the lives of others too.

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purethought

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Posted: 13 years ago

#54

It is weird how they turn beautiful love stories into ugly ones.

I am actually wishing that Arjun had never come to India and had never met Purvi. He'd have married Ovi in Canada and Purvi would have been a happy person with her aai and might have married a good man here in India. There would not have been so much pain for one girl right now.

I feel Purvi is more vulnerable than Ovi is. The dialogue or something to the effect that " mein sach mein anath hoon" proves that. Purvi has seen no luxury is life, received all love from a foster mother, and all of a sudden received so much love from Arjun. Now that has been taken away. Now she will have to share her love for her aai with her real daughters as well. She is acclimatising right now. As she is a very loving person, she will adjust to this situation and soon.

Coming to Ovi -- Ovi has never seen an intensely in love side of Arjun for her, so intensely in love with her, like Purvi, and she probably never will. She may have imagined intense love from him after marriage or when DK told her over the phone that Arjun loves her, but she has never experienced that full-on emotional confession from him ever in her life.

Purvi fortunately or unfortunately has experienced this emotional side of Arjun for her and now seeing him engaged to someone else has really broken her heart and badly.

I wish Arjun had never come to India. 😭 Then we wouldn't have to judge any of Archana's daughters. I' would love to see Ovi shower love on her mother, and ultimately forgive her one day. I would love to see her with someone who loves her back. I would love to see her treating everyone with respect. I would like to see her touch DK's feet as he is going to be her father-in-law. As the sbs segment suggested a while back, she shouldn't be yelling at Purvi. This is what hurts me a lot. 😭

I do dislike that Arjun and Purvi have been torn apart in a very unhealthy and ugly manner, especially after developing their love story so beautifully over the past few months.

Anyway, having said this, I feel right now Purvi is quite alone, and that Bappa sends someone to support her.

And when Ovi is all alone, Savita will definitely be there to help her favorite granddaughter. Ovi won't be alone, and am sure of that. Manav and Teju will all be with her. Sulochana will also support Ovi. I am sure.

I am very unhappy with the current PR track, and cringe to see the episodes on television. All the love developing in the past few months has been washed out in two damn days.

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-Nups-

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Posted: 13 years ago

#55

Originally posted by: Dabulls23
Neither Archana is magnanimous or Purvi...They are shown to be Mahaan mother's Mahaan daughter...Nothing else..

Poor Sadak se uthaayi huvi, orphan, adopted daughter Purvi...She deserves all the sympathy and praise for what ever she does..

But But

SHame on Ovi who is born in priviledged family, rich, beautiful, loves dressing up and looking good...so given name Barbie doll..But she also has brains and heart...She is not dumb..But hate her as she is not magnanimous yet like Archana her mother or half as magnanimous as purvi since she is the one who is hurt right now..

Gosh I am so shocked at people not even having a heart to see what is coming Ovi's way but only stuck to Purvi's current pain...Dont get me wrong I feel for Purvi too...But I also feel for Ovi much more as she has loved him for a looong time...Love is love whether it is reciprocated or not dear..

I feel sad to see such words being used for Purvi, n it was Arjun who blackmailed her n forced her to reciprocate to his love, it was later wen Purvi realised that she lloves him too...rest is well said by others...Purvi truly deserves Arjun n ArVi r made for each other!!!😊

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kriti ( Neha)

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Posted: 13 years ago

#56

I think she was not did right but at that time she was so hurt again..once by Vinay and then by Arjun...i think anyone in her place would have done the same...

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Anahita Nanda

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Posted: 13 years ago

#57

Doesn't that happen in every other show? Betrayal, Trust, Unanswered Truths. Wait and Watch. 🤔

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Krupa

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Posted: 13 years ago

#58

i think ovi is quite polite and Arjun should go with her only where as purvi i cant she love in her eye and she is more arogant lady and thinking of something great about her and look wise also she cant stand anywhere near Archana and ovi-i think ovi is the best choice for Arjun i didnt like purvi since begining.

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Esha Singh

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Posted: 13 years ago

#59

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

Good Post Bhalla 👏with a different view😊

- I do not view this whole situation to analyse who is right and who is wrong...they both are right in their perspectives.. but the sadest part is both are in tremendous anguish and feeling dire..my heart goes out to both of them

- Purvi, getting to know of Ajun's promise to Ovi, about coming back and getting engaged, ovi telling her about her childhood love and about Arjun's love..seeing the same bangles on Ovi's hands.and Arjun not talking to Purvi about any of his past promises ,...all these reasons caused Purvi to believe that he betrayed her and any person, who has been betrayed in love would take out their anger on the same person who betrayed you..Purvi yelled and screamed and slapped Arjun..

i do not see this as Purvi's wrong... even Arjun does not feel offended by her slap..the physical slap never affected him.. since his heart is in deep turmoil and the anguish in his heart took over every other thing off his mind...it was natural.. for Arjun knows, he did the wrong only in hiding the facts from her.. so he was trying to explain things to her and he did not feel any anger towards her for her slapping him or for her accusing him.. it was all sadness and all anguish and despair and guilt for hurting her .. for loosing her love and her trust.. he was frustrated with himself for not able to explain things to her

- when arjun was explaining it to Purvi..there was a ray of hope in her eyes for 3-5 seconds which Arjun ruined once again by saying wrong words in wrong time and wrong place.. he used his dad's reputation .. which was so not the right word at that time

-Arjun's love and trust for purvi is unquestionable...but for purvi it's just been 2 days since she realized her feelings.. and she is still relishing the first flushes of love..there were no times where we have been shown of Purvi's implicit trust in him...

- Arjun did not care for the slap... he wants Purvi, his love back in his life.. this time he will not want to let her down.. so he is talking to his dad...

- sorry i do not think it is a question of defending Purvi when he was talking to DK.. he was telling his dad about him loving someone and not wanting to go ahead and marry Ovi

- Purvi right now is in tremendous emotional turmoil..when emotions are high people fail to see the truth.. same thing is happening with Purvi... when things get more clear.. she will feel that those circumstances were to be blamed and not Arjun.. and she will realize Arjun never betrayed her and his intentions were never wrong... but this takes a really lots and lots of talking and convincing by Arjun to gain her trust back

- this situation. i think will strengthen their relation as it is going through a rough and dire phase

- cannot comment on the Kaanjikars.. since i haven;t seen the show then..

-and Ovi's love and trust in Arjun just goes above my head😕 i haven;t seen such love where you cannot see your beloved's anguish and restlesness😕