Purvi was wrong today

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Today I felt Purvi was very wrong to behave how she did with Arjun. She did not even give him a chance to give his side of the story instead she gave him a very hard slap and even then Arjun was nice enough to talk to her but Purvi kept insulting him. Also how she said to Arjun,"do you not care about my reputation" was extremely selfish of her. Does Purvi not even care about Arjun's happiness? Ovi definitely does. The Karanjkars (Sulo, Archana and Purvi) have always been slapping people when their heart desires. Sulo has slapped Manav thrice, Archana slapped Manav twice and later Sulo slapped Sachu and now Purvi slaps Arjun? Also the way Sulo told off Sachin was extremely unacceptable she is no one to yell at him.

In the precap Arjun is defending the person who slapped him. Purvi had no right to even show any anger at him one bit. It is Ovi who should be reacting this way, Arjun betrayed her and not Purvi. Ovi would never have been this rude to Arjun, she loves and trusts him so much from their childhood. Purvi has never shown any love for Arjun at all.

Please do share your thoughts😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I too had the same feelings after seeing Purvi behaving like this... I know she is deeply hurt but she shud have waited to hear out the answers of questions asked by her...She was like going on saying not giving Arjun a chance to speak..She slapped him and Arjun even didnt react to it...It seems like he was so much hurt that he didnt feel the pain of being slapped by ur loved one😲😲😲 Arjun was wrong in not stopping the engagement but he is trying to correct the wrong done by him by telling his dad the truth...But who knows whether he wud tell also or not bcoz in sbb they showed his date with Ovi😡😡😡😡 Now Punni telling the truth to all wud be a help for Arvi in some way.. Plz Purvi get back to normal and hear out what Arjun has to say as u both love each pther a lot and sacrificing ur love for a third person's happiness is just a mistake which a person regrets his whole life... Be brave and believe Arjun bcoz he loves u madly and we luv u guys😉😉😉 Luv u Arvi😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Good Post Bhalla 👏with a different view😊

- I do not view this whole situation to analyse who is right and who is wrong...they both are right in their perspectives.. but the sadest part is both are in tremendous anguish and feeling dire..my heart goes out to both of them

- Purvi, getting to know of Ajun's promise to Ovi, about coming back and getting engaged, ovi telling her about her childhood love and about Arjun's love..seeing the same bangles on Ovi's hands.and Arjun not talking to Purvi about any of his past promises ,...all these reasons caused Purvi to believe that he betrayed her and any person, who has been betrayed in love would take out their anger on the same person who betrayed you..Purvi yelled and screamed and slapped Arjun..

i do not see this as Purvi's wrong... even Arjun does not feel offended by her slap..the physical slap never affected him.. since his heart is in deep turmoil and the anguish in his heart took over every other thing off his mind...it was natural.. for Arjun knows, he did the wrong only in hiding the facts from her.. so he was trying to explain things to her and he did not feel any anger towards her for her slapping him or for her accusing him.. it was all sadness and all anguish and despair and guilt for hurting her .. for loosing her love and her trust.. he was frustrated with himself for not able to explain things to her

- when arjun was explaining it to Purvi..there was a ray of hope in her eyes for 3-5 seconds which Arjun ruined once again by saying wrong words in wrong time and wrong place.. he used his dad's reputation .. which was so not the right word at that time

-Arjun's love and trust for purvi is unquestionable...but for purvi it's just been 2 days since she realized her feelings.. and she is still relishing the first flushes of love..there were no times where we have been shown of Purvi's implicit trust in him...

- Arjun did not care for the slap... he wants Purvi, his love back in his life.. this time he will not want to let her down.. so he is talking to his dad...

- sorry i do not think it is a question of defending Purvi when he was talking to DK.. he was telling his dad about him loving someone and not wanting to go ahead and marry Ovi

- Purvi right now is in tremendous emotional turmoil..when emotions are high people fail to see the truth.. same thing is happening with Purvi... when things get more clear.. she will feel that those circumstances were to be blamed and not Arjun.. and she will realize Arjun never betrayed her and his intentions were never wrong... but this takes a really lots and lots of talking and convincing by Arjun to gain her trust back

- this situation. i think will strengthen their relation as it is going through a rough and dire phase


- cannot comment on the Kaanjikars.. since i haven;t seen the show then..
-and Ovi's love and trust in Arjun just goes above my head😕 i haven;t seen such love where you cannot see your beloved's anguish and restlesness😕



Edited by munnihyderabad - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Purvi was not wrong today, she was the one wronged and Arjun knows this.
Oh, Ovi's turn will come to rant and rave against Arjun that is if she ever realizes that he doesn't love her and doesn't want to be with her. Poor girl lives in fantasy land, made worse by that first mistake of Arjun in agreeing to marry her.
Arjun has wronged both of them and has to pay for it.
Edited by soapwatcher1 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhallarox

Today I felt Purvi was very wrong to behave how she did with Arjun. She did not even give him a chance to give his side of the story instead she gave him a very hard slap and even then Arjun was nice enough to talk to her but Purvi kept insulting him. Also how she said to Arjun,"do you not care about my reputation" was extremely selfish of her. Does Purvi not even care about Arjun's happiness? Ovi definitely does. The Karanjkars (Sulo, Archana and Purvi) have always been slapping people when their heart desires. Sulo has slapped Manav thrice, Archana slapped Manav twice and later Sulo slapped Sachu and now Purvi slaps Arjun? Also the way Sulo told off Sachin was extremely unacceptable she is no one to yell at him.

In the precap Arjun is defending the person who slapped him. Purvi had no right to even show any anger at him one bit. It is Ovi who should be reacting this way, Arjun betrayed her and not Purvi. Ovi would never have been this rude to Arjun, she loves and trusts him so much from their childhood. Purvi has never shown any love for Arjun at all.

Please do share your thoughts😊


This is ridiculous. of course purvi had the right to be mad. y should she give him a chance. he knew he was engaged and yet he told her he loved and did not even break it off with his fiance before he told purvi. and he knew that ovi is purvi sister. is he trying to cause problems in purvi life. and purvi saw the same bangles on ovi hand. that to me would be an indication that the guy was playing me if he gave his fiance and his gf the same bangles. and if ovi cared about arjun's happiness she would have recognized that he was not happy about the engagement. even manav recognized it. ovi see's what she wants to see. and trust him. do u remember how she sent tej to spy on purvi when purvi answered his cell. SOME TRUST??. and yes he wronged purvi too not just ovi bc he gave purvi the impression that they were going to be together. so no purvi is not wrong for reacting the way she did. and as far sulo she has a right to tell off sachin. sachin knows about the forged signature and yet he tries to blame archana for the divorce. who the hell is he to throw stones? plus sulo was sachin grandmother at one point. even if he doesnt like archana sulo never wronged him. so he should learn to respect his elders.besides sachin was disrespecting sulo daughter. if some buffoom tried to disrepect my kid in front of me i would tell them off to.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@bhallarox: In a way you are right.. it did cross my mind. She cannot physically assault Arjun for any reason. If she truly loves him, she wouldn't do that. If I were in her situation probably I would have slapped that guy too..She is helpless, she has no way of expressing her feeling to anybody except him at that point. so forgive her..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Bhalla good topic...Agree abt the slap and arjun's explanation..
So what is new? Typical Karanjkar Behavior..Like Aaji, Mother like daughter..😈
Ofcourse Purvi is hurt, Everyone could see the pain and anguish in Arjun's face, Ovi looking confused at Arju and Archana crying while talking to her..
But slapping, yelling and not listening is typical Karanjkar (Archana) behavior..Purvi should have atleast let Arjun explain. That does not getting off the hook but everyone has a right to give explanation.
I think Purvi got the look at how much Ovi loves Arjun, their looong friendship of childhood which turned into love for her. Promise by Arjun to marry her and verbal engagement announcement in public by both Manav & DK. So when this Arjun-Ovi engagement is broken off Ovi's reputation also will be ruined just like Purvi thinks her reputation is ruined..
There is no easy answer here..
But Bhalla you are right Purvi's slap was uncalled for as I dont condone any yelling, screaming or slapping...But karanjkars are aadat se majboor..😡
Lets see what Ovi does when she finds out the truth abt Arjun loving Purvi..Slap or not..She might be the surprise package who does not deserve so much hate by Arjun-Purvi fans..
BTW Slappochana Sulo was telling Sachin how to talk to his Aai Archana, she should remembre how to talk to Daamad and Sachin who is from Archana's ILs family...BIL's son...Slappochana had no right to slap him, manav 3 times ...While she let the bigomist FBD off the hook, Manju off the hook, Archana off the hook and last but not least her greedy self off the hook..😡
Edited by Dabulls23 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I completely agree with nikki1591...i Don't think it was purvi's fault today the way she reacted.In general when people are angry or frustrated they tend to say harsh words which they dont mean so i guess its the same thing puvis is going through ... Think about how she was feeling i mean she couldn't share it with her mom nor anyone as a matter of fact so the only person she could pour out her anger is arjun. I am sure tomorrow when arjun comes and explains wht exactly happend she will regret herself of wht she did.

If u look at it from one end i would blame him but not completely though cos he is completely in luv with purvi & who in dreams will think about abt such a situation ..else he would be preapred right????
he never thought abt all these complications cos it was just few days ago tht purvi said tht she luv's him and at tht point of time i am sure he dint even think abt anything else except purvi ..and also he might hv thought tht purvi will him and go which i think he cannot take it ..
and at the party too he couldn't do anything i mean as i mean in front of so many people u cannot say i will not get engaged right when it was already announced if it was not announced then its a different story though

But we cannot deny tht he was trying to reach Ovi and as a matter of fact he even tried telling Ovi but she never listened to him...

Second view point is he should hv told purvi tht this he agreed to marry Ovi just for her happiness as he never planned tht he will fall in luv with someone...and also at the party i was a bit upset on arjun tht atleast once he should hv thought abt purvi too instead of just thinking abt his Dad and Ovi...

So based on today's episode arjun has has to really try hard to get back purvi in his life... i am sure its gonna be tough for him..but lets seee i really hope they get back together soonnn😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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BTW Nice acting by Rithvik Dhajnani...He emotes really well.. And Ovi did look gorgeous ⭐️
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Bhalla good topic...Agree abt the slap and arjun's explanation..
So what is new? Typical Karanjkar Behavior..Like Aaji, Mother like daughter..😈
Ofcourse Purvi is hurt, Everyone could see the pain and anguish in Arjun's face, Ovi looking confused at Arju and Archana crying while talking to her..
But slapping, yelling and not listening is typical Karanjkar (Archana) behavior..Purvi should have atleast let Arjun explain. That does not getting off the hook but everyone has a right to give explanation.
I think Purvi got the look at how much Ovi loves Arjun, their looong friendship of childhood which turned into love for her. Promise by Arjun to marry her and verbal engagement announcement in public by both Manav & DK. So when this Arjun-Ovi engagement is broken off Ovi's reputation also will be ruined just like Purvi thinks her reputation is ruined..
There is no easy answer here..
But Bhalla you are right Purvi's slap was uncalled for as I dont condone any yelling, screaming or slapping...But karanjkars are aadat se majboor..😡
Lets see what Ovi does when she finds out the truth abt Arjun loving Purvi..Slap or not..She might be the surprise package who does not deserve so much hate by Arjun-Purvi fans..
BTW Slappochana Sulo was telling Sachin how to talk to his Aai Archana, she should remembre how to talk to Daamad and Sachin who is from Archana's ILs family...BIL's son...Slappochana had no right to slap him, manav 3 times ...While she let the bigomist FBD off the hook, Manju off the hook, Archana off the hook and last but not least her greedy self off the hook..😡

@ red - I hope Ovi does turn out to be a surprise package and is half as generous as Purvi. In all her pain, Purvi accused Arjun of deceiving Ovi who had loved him for 18 years. How magnanimous of this girl. We should be singing her praises for her saying that and for also renouncing her love for the sake of Ovi's happiness.
Purvi was in the wrong today, on second thoughts, wrong because she did not behave with even an ounce of selfishness, she could have made a scene, she could have clung to Arjun, she could have told him to rip the ring off his finger (what was it still doing there in the first place when he chased after Purvi? Why did he not fling it when Purvi pointed to the ring?), she could have told Ovi, Archana or Sulo. The girl did none of these things. Yeah, she slapped Arjun, and that was wrong, one slap was not sufficient for what he did, lakh thapad marna chahiye tha. He kept her in the dark, he deserved much more than a slap. He will rue this day, and I hope he writhes in agony for what he did to her.
Edited by soapwatcher1 - 13 years ago

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