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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sometimes i feel so bad for Ovi coz she loves Arjun from her childhood.
Poor ovi.I hope she finds someone who loves her,pamper her a lot.she deserves better.




Edited by pvrr - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Dear Jhanvi,

Yes, isn't it curious, how quick we are to find excuses for him? It is because, we know that even if he made a bad mistake in a very sticky situation, his love for Purvi is deep and true and lasting. Also, he is still very young, and one has quite maternal feelings towards him and wants to save him from himself, that is to say his follies.

I also agree that "being in love makes you more prone to blindly trust your loved one". There are some beautiful lines of unknown provenance, possibly Shakespeare or Edmund Spenser, that say the same thing, but in a different, harshly negative context. They go like this:

" If my love swore she spoke the truth,
I would believe her though I knew she lied"

I do not think Arjun needed to tell DK and Manav Purvi's name to stop the engagement. He could have taken his father aside and done it very discreetly, saying just that he loves someone else and cannot go thru with this. But there would have been a major scandal any way, with such a large gathering being told, suddenly that, in effect, there would now be no engagement. Even so, that would have saved both Purvi and Arjun a lot of heartache and suffering .

I like your analysis when you say "Also probably when you are in love, you tend to believe your loved one knows your intentions and will forgive you regardless. It is perhaps with this assurance that Arjun took the step he took, he did not have time to logically think through but made an instinctive decision. He is right in a sense..".

Thus when the ring ceremony is over, Arjun is so frantic and so desperate to locate Purvi and talk to her that everyone for miles must have been able to see that something was VERY badly wrong. But no one does, not Ovi,of course, not DK, and not even Archana. Only Manav broaches the subject near the end, and Arjun obviously intends to break the news about him and Purvi to Manav then and there. Alas,the phone rings and it is Savita.

Incidentally, Rithwik carries off these sections brilliantly; the quick changing expressions on his face - especially when he is forced to talk to Savita, his bid to escape having failed, and then is kept waiting by Damodar till he hangs up and walks off abruptly - are remarkably well done and are very convincing.

As for his missing the boat with Purvi now because of his blunder, I think that even if he had told Ovi in advance and thus headed off the 'surprise' party, the end result as far as Purvi is concerned would have been the same, tyaag and all. This is because Ovi, on getting that call from Arjun, would have caught the first flight to India and would have generally raised hell. By the time the dust settled, Purvi would have realised that this was her aayi's real daughter, and then it would be but one step to the grand sacrifice.

It would have been exactly the same if he had told Purvi in advance, for she would have insisted on knowing who the girl in Canada was. Nothing could have saved poor Arjun! Which should be a source of some solace for the beleaguered young man.

Shyamala


Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Shyamala, right on the mark, "By the time she is home, she is no longer questioning his love, when she says that one daughter cannot selfishly ruin the happiness of another daughter (of Archana's). She is here obviously taking it for granted that Arjun loves her and, left to himself, will marry only her."

Yes, when Purvi says that she already knows what Arjun told her is the truth. When she tells him I don't know which one of us is wrong she already has forgiven him for his trespasses, being in love makes you more prone to blindly trust your loved one πŸ˜ƒ She has already realized that even though he has wronged her, he probably did the right thing in not exposing everything at the last juncture. Her izzat would have been blown to pieces if he had brought up her name. Arjun's mistake was in thinking consciously of his dad's izzat and Ovi's but not mentioning Purvi's even to himself.

But then when you love someone, protecting them is second nature and as Arjun tries to reassure her he would never have let any beinaam fall upon her. Also probably when you are in love, you tend to believe your loved one knows your intentions and will forgive you regardless. It is perhaps with this assurance that Arjun took the step he took, he did not have time to logically think through but made an instinctive decision. He is right in a sense, Purvi will forgive him but he has missed the boat, at least this boat for now.

Here I am already beginning to make excuses for the guy when all I could think of yesterday was ways that Purvi could be avenged.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#43

Why is Ovi being judged?? Why can't Ovi be accepted for who she is? Not because she is Tej's sister (Tej being good) , Archana or Manav's daughter, Because Arjun is basically a good guy and is her friend from childhood, ETC

Ovi is all that but she is individual person within those relationships...She is nice gal, a good caring, loving , smart, Intelligent gal..WHy is she been labled as dumb, airhead or snooty?? Because she is pretty, carries herself well, into fashion and modeling? Aren't we generalizing and labeling her here?
Give Ovi the credit that she deserves..
GN folks..it is almost midnight and time to hit the sack...hasta manana πŸ˜ƒ
Edited by Dabulls23 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I quite agree about the Fevicol part. That is what I mean about a 'fatal attraction' for a couple of virtual characters who are at the mercy of the CVs and over whom the viewers have NO control at all .

Not that this is something new, or even an Indian phenomenon: in the 19th century, Americans used to throng the wharves where ships from England used to bring the latest instalment of Charles Dickens' The Old Curiosity Shop, and all of America wept when Little Nell died. The problem now is that communication is practically instantaneous across the globe, and so we are forced to agonise or rejoice every second in front of our PC/laptop screens.

I am told that even for Indian TV soaps, such a fatal attraction (I apologise for quoting myself!) is not common, and that it is in fact unique for this track of PR. If so, this is because Arjun and Purvi have been so extraordinarily well developed, written, cast and acted. We connect with them viscerally, rather like falling in love oneself, but free of all the attendant complications that arise in real life. It is surreal.

Shyamala B.Cowsik

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

^^^^^^ Lord have mercy!!!!!!!!!!!!!! πŸ€ͺ

That is all I can say after reading this post abv by sashashyam..Seems like we have many pundits here who know the best about love and attachment...Wonder if they realize that they are attached so tightly (Glued=Fevicol) to these serial characters Arjun-Purvi' romance or So called love...πŸ˜‰
Egyptian = In De Nile 😈

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Posted: 13 years ago
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even I thought slap was a bit unnecesary but everythng else she said was fyn...I loved their scene but I dnt like why everyone is blaming arjun means he called purvi so many times buty she was unreachable infacet b4 confessing to purvi also he called to tell ovi everythng..so arjun is not to be blamed fully the situation is
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Varsha, fevicol it is or more like super glue, trying to get a little unglued as it is past midnight :)
Shyamala, will look up that quote tomorrow:)
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Posted: 13 years ago
#47
purvi is right... Arjun wrong...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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pruvi was nt wrong in somehow bez in dat kind of situation it was natural to react any anybody in ths way.. watever she told was true and he promised that he wud tel to his dad abt them bt yeah we knw arjun tried to tel his dad bt still he cundt..poor purvi i feel so bad for her, no one is in her side..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhallarox

Thanks to all for responding and sharing their views.😊


pkyek4evr and Varsha Di fantastic posts. Agree with you both 100%. Munni, Soapwatcher1 and nikki1591 I respect your opinion completely.

I was very angry to see Purvi slap Arjun. Once Purvi slapped him he didn't even have to explain to her. This is the habit of Karanjkars, interrupting, slapping, pointing fingers etc. Purvi did a lot of that today she does not love Arjun at al. If she did she would have at least heard his explanation and listened to him but she slapped him. Arjun should take serious offense to the slap, slapping someone is not right.

When Ovi finds out about Arjun loving Purvi she would be too nice to slap him as she is the one who really loves Arjun. She has shown her love for Arjun so many times as she always praises him and defends him against the world. All Purvi is worried about is her image, she blamed Arjun for the MMS issue when it was actually her own fault(Not even Punni's) Ovi however is always showing concern for Arjun, her #1 priority is him but for some reason Arjun seems to love the person who is so selfish and hates him rather then the person who loves and cares about him. I wish they could show Arjun starting to love Ovi and marry her. Purvi would wreck his life.

Sulo the less said the better. This woman is so double standard to the max. One day she hates and criticizes Arjun for the MMS issue and the day she hears that he is getting engaged to Ovi she starts praising him to the skies just so she can get her hands on Arjun's money.😑 She has slapped Manav thrice and Sachu once. She let FBD(Dharmesh) off the hook when she got to know his truth about bigomy, Punni off the hook when she got to know about her affair, Manju off the hook when Sachin(Manav's brother) died, and her own daughter Archana off the hook for all the crimes and sins she has committed since day 1 but never hesitated to slap poor, innocent Manav and Sachu.

With what face was she scolding Sachu? When Sulo said to him, "today is the engagement and that is why I let you go but had it not been today, I would've taught you how to talk to elders."😑 I was upset that Sachu stayed quiet and allowed Sulo to insult him like that. He should've said to her, "what about you who can't talk to my baba in a civil way, and slap him and I every chance you get?" Or he could have said, "it was your daughter who who abandoned her daughters, my younger brother Soham died due to your daughter's careless and selfish behavior and why is she unnecessarily trying to bond with my sisters now? To separate them from my baba?" It won't help much if Manav finds out about how Sulo insulted him though he may not do much. He is already so happy that Sulo could come to Ovi's engagement and his own mother could not come. Hopefully Savita gets to know about what's going on she can definitely take down Sulo.



U r absolutely right😊😊😊😊
Its Ovi who loved Arjun for so many years though he doesnt love her and she knew this fact too but still she always praised him and respected him and his dad...If D.K. wudnt have told her that his son loves her she wud still have been happy with this one sided love as Arjun told her b4 also that he wnt give her too muchtime as he is workaholic...She is so innocent that she thought Arjun wnt fall for anyone else as he loves his work so much.But then a girl like Purvi completely changed him and influenced his life so much that he changed from a khadoos to a lovable guyπŸ˜›πŸ˜›πŸ˜›
I am a big Ajun-Purvi fan and have been watching PR since the beginning...I know Purvi is hurt the most by all these incidences but never expected her to behave like this...The character of Purvi was of a strong independant girl who had the sanskaar of Archana but I never thought she wud also follow the trend of slapping ur loved one without hearing what they have to say to u😲😲😲😲
Ovi deserves this right of slapping Arjun as she is the one who has been cheated not Purvi...Ovi knew that Arjun didnt love her from the beginnig but she wnt have imagined that Arjun wud do this with her...
As far as Purvi is concerned she has not been cheated by Arjun as he told her after the engagement also that I love u Purvi not someone else...Its just that his timing of confession didnt go well as Ovi landed in India too early...
Purvi just needs to give Arjun a chance to explain all the situation so that she may come to know that everything happened so quickly that he didnt get time to tell anyone about his love...
Plzzz Purvi dnt be stonehearted as Arjun loves u only (his tears tell everything silently)..And for Arjun its better if he doesnt listen to anyone else except himself as our own heart never tells us to go on wrong path and if matters of heart are solved by heart then its good otherwise if solved by brain everything gets spoiled...
Arjun's expressions once again steled my heart😳😳😳😳😳😳😳
Luv u Rithvik u r rocking❀️❀️❀️
Arvi wud be together again...Luv u ARVIπŸ˜›πŸ˜›πŸ˜›πŸ˜›πŸ˜›

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree wit ur point of view..But for me both of them have done mistakes in last epi..

Arjun should have thought about purvi nd he could hav spoke 2 ovi or DK in a private manner..or he could hav told purvi abt ovi earlier..

Purvi was in anger..so she dun know how 2 react..Everyone would hav reacted the same lik she did..Bcoz her most loving person in life both Archana nd Arjun played with her emotions..nd she is nt in a state 2 understand anything..Bt she was wrong in one way..She knew tht the engagement was a complete surprise..even arjun dint knw this..So she cannot completely blame him..if he knw it.he never allowed fr this..nd mreover abt her reputation..i think arjun was the one who stood fr her before entire people 2 save her reputation nd by removing vinay from the office..

So frm POV..i thnk both of them have done some mistakes..None of them can be blamed..itz the situation tht made them 2 react lik this..arjun was right in his POV nd purvi in her...So better tey take time 2 think nd have a chat wit each other 2 avoid these MU..
Edited by ..StarAngel.. - 13 years ago

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