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Originally posted by: omshreejaanu

OMG!! Wat is going on here?
Have just checked the link Divs has posted!!😲
What is this topic? Wow really ppl are getting weirder n weirder here!!
I'll just add something now plz mods dont edit my post by banning my fav vocabulary:
Chillpill ppl. It is just a show!! I know some want to discuss intensively about it but at least discuss sensibly on a real topic. "Why Archana travel in gents compartment...!!????"😕🤢 Arrey ask the Cvs!!
Kahan se kahan aa gaye hum!!

Hi Jaanu:

I hope you don't mind me saying this as I am not doing it to be confrontational but it is my expereince that when encountered with an intense and volatile envrionment the phrases "take a chillpill" or " take a valium" or "calm down" or "don't be so agitated" or the like does not have the intended effect of calming people down but actually has the opposite effect of aggravating people further as the opposite person feels their emotions, their passions or their opinions are being mocked or disregarded.

Having a discussion, however, intense or vocal is sometimes the healthy thing to do. Which is why this thread may not be such a bad idea. If one has a problem it is better to voice it and let everyone know where one stands as opposed to bottling it up and letting it fester because of the sensitivities of others. The bottling makes the toxicity grow.

I hope you don't mind me saying this but I have noticed that everytime there is a voicing of opinion, somehow the healing or the voicing out process is drowned out which I think is unhealthy for all, especially as everyone seems to want to be on this forum irrespective of their likes or dislikes.

Hope

when i say TO THE MODS ... i mean TO THE MODS ... i havent taken anybody else's name ... & i dont want to be referreed also personally

Originally posted by: prasad1991

when i say TO THE MODS ... i mean TO THE MODS ... i havent taken anybody else's name ... & i dont want to be referreed also personally

hmmm ... people saying that entire show shud go off air ... y is this negativity not handled

i my latest thread now ... der also members r stubbornly saying that they will continue to say that pr shud go off air ... & i shudnt be offended by it

People saying that the show should go off air is their perspective. They havent broken any rules by voicing their opinion that the show has run its course (according to them). Now, if they are bashing, name calling or attacking members (etc.) then that is a different issue. Previously in a thread Ravjot, the CM, had addressed that negativity and positivity is all how one perceives it. Whoever is saying that the show should end isnt necesserily being negative. Just because someone says the should needs to end doesnt mean they are in the wrong.

PR Dev Team

saying that show shud go off air is not offensive ... then just plainly saying that a particular charcter shud die , even that shud not be offensive then

Coolbie- A person who regularly does written updates. Which bhalla did for so many months. It is not an easy task. He deserves recognition for that. He has his opinions but he is never disrespectful to anyone. Ask anyone on the forum. Why should his contribution be ignored?

i to tally depend on bhallas update,he is doing a fab job,its sad when sum1 attack u like this,even i am a a coolbie in sum other forum,am just curious to know cant a coolbie have its own view,or are we just suppose to give the updates,and have no right at all participate in sum discussion.