how can she when she herself shares similar complexes?
Well YES if u put it THAT way 😛😆
But I mentioned the Savita Archana Manav track coz it showed a SIGNIFICANT CHANGE post REMARRAIge of ARMAN
It showed the GREAT INFLUENCE Archana had on Manav .
He CHANGED his thoughts after she had talks with him and pointed new ways of thinking to him .
He did not wanna call mom for inauguration , He did AFTER she told him
He did not wanna go to spend nights with Mom ...He did AFTER Archana told him to
He even moved in again only at Archanas behest
In fact post Remarraige he does everything only to please Archana .
He is a different Manav now .
He even EATS food twice for fear of HURTING her . It was the LIMIT of being a wuss although some found it ROMANTIC .
He simply FEARS HURTING her . He remains tongue tied although he disapproves of her giving HIS BABY AWAY .
This post is only FOR that . That CVs shud read usand rectify this if at all the choose to peep in .
Being honest to ur feelings doesn 't mean u stop loving ur spouse .
If Archana feels that way when Manav voices his true feelings and she remains hurt , its immature of her .
Its equally immature of him to think that the ONLY WAY TO EXPRESS LOVE IS TO AGREE WITH EVERYTHING YOUR SPOUSE DOES .
The only time Manav opened his mouth and let her have it was at the stupid English fiasco at the party .
He told her what he expected from her ...smartness , learning to manage finances , speaking English so she cud attend those parties without complexes .etc etc .
For that , He had to apologise to her IN PUBLIC . CVs ensured this by putting Ashna in as their mouthpiece.
Why he apologised publicly , I fail to understand. Why this silly subservient position in ROMANCE , I cannot fathom .
Is ROMANCE all about Men being subservient to females ALL the time ?
cannot Men have Honest Talks with spouses ?
cannot Men let their wives have a earful when their babies r given away or when wives maika constantly pulls crazy stunts and embarass them ?
Why Pamper Pamper and Pamper ?
And why Shud women expect this like fools ?
Manav starts gulping and apologising like the March Hare who constantly says oppsin Alice in Wonderland .
All these kharchas for Archanas maika are done on the basis and the strength of the very job she constantly makes him feel guilty about.
Archana is NOT as stupid as some make her out to be . She handled Madhuri very well when she wanted her out of her sisters life .
I do believe Archana takes advantage of Manav as a woman .
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 14 years ago