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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

totally agree with niki . She has shown guts and refused to get engaged to Satish in front of ALL



Totally forgot this one. Very true.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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These same decent folk had not cared for society and taken Archu back home on two occasions- first when they found that they had been tricked during ArMan marriage, and later when they found that Manav was characterless. They might have done a lot of mistakes, but one thing is for sure- they can never let their daughter marry a bad man who doesn't have right intentions towards her, -

They would not have cared about society and would have called off the marriage if they were told the truths about Jay by Satish- Karanjkars trust Satish so much.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Niki, its one of those situation when you lose ability to take right decision and just believe other person rationality (Satish). Did you see how Satish convinced her telling her she cannot marry Jaywant and kept telling her to run away. She just trusted Satish's decision, after Satish told her what he heard Jaywant saying. There was very little time for her to think, she just acted upon what Satish told her to do. If she ran away there would be badnaami, if she stayed back and marriage was called off there would be badnaami, if she stayed back and got married to Jaywant and got dumped by him after 1 yr there would be even more badnaami. There was no escape from badnaami.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikitagmc



These same decent folk had not cared for society and taken Archu back home on two occasions(and both times it was in case of Manav, a mechanic, who was never wanted as Son-in-law)- first when they found that they had been tricked during ArMan marriage, and later when they found that Manav was characterless. They might have done a lot of mistakes, but one thing is for sure- they can never let their daughter marry a bad man who doesn't have right intentions towards her, -

They would not have cared about society and would have called off the marriage if they were told the truths about Jay by Satish(and what if Dharmesh falisified Satish's claim telling that he always had problems with Jaywant and he always favored Manav over Jaywant. Who would Karanjkars believe if they'd to choose between Dharmesh and Satish? What if Satish bringing out truth about Jaywant created problems between Satish and Dharmesh.)- Karanjkars trust Satish so much.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikitagmc

If she ran away there would be badnaami, if she stayed back and marriage was called off there would be badnaami, if she stayed back and got married to Jaywant and got dumped by him after 1 yr there would be even more badnaami. There was no escape from badnaami.
Completely disagree. If had stayed and marriage was called off by Karanjkars, then the badnaami would have been of Jay, not Archu- that he was a sinister guy who intended to ruin the girl's voice. People would have gossiped about the Rane family, not the Karanjkars, like they were doing today. They wouldn't have been raising questions about Archu or Sulochana's sanskars. They would in fact have been synpathising with her. She wouldn't have been blamed AT ALL.

When a marriage is called of, whatever maybe the reason, whichever party is at fault, both party face badnaami and then they sling mud at each other. They are not going to take Satish and his proof everywhere to stop people from gossiping. Even if girl is not at fault, she'll hv more problem in getting married again than a boy, thats Indian society.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arien_03

When a marriage is called of, whatever maybe the reason, whichever party is at fault, both party face badnaami and then they sling mud at each other. They are not going to take Satish and his proof everywhere to stop people from gossiping. Even if girl is not at fault, she'll hv more problem in getting married again than a boy, thats Indian society.



First of all, Indian society is not so bad I think. If girls parents break the rishta, she gets sympathy, in my opinion.

Here the Karanjkars would have had first chance at breaking the marriage publicly- by declaring that we are cancelling the marriage cos the boy is bad, he intends to hurt our daughter. After this, whatever Jay shouts or says in anger against Archana, most people will consider it as escape mechanism/backlash to save his respect, that he is saying wrong things about Archu since Karanjkars have humiliated him publicly. The guests were Archu's relatives too, they would have taken her side only, since they knew that this girl had a good character. They would have given benefit of doubt to Archu only. But now that she has run away and even parents are shamefaced, people are gossiping about her so badly.

At least in former scenario Archu could have held her head high and moved about without guilt or shame that she did nothing wrong. But now if people point out that look look,that girl ran away, she won't be able to say anything in her defence.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I doubt Karanjkars would go to the extent of explaining the guests the reason behind calling off marriage to avoid all tamasha that would follow. And if they believe in giving explaination they can give when Satish decides to reveal them the truth. I think Satish is at fault for keeping the truth from Karanjkars.

All I'm saying that Archana didn't think rationally, she just acted upon Saitsh conviction. Satish is such a balanced guy, if he is asking Archana to take such extreme step then there must be a reason behind it.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arien_03

I doubt Karanjkars would go to the extent of explaining the guests the reason behind calling off marriage to avoid all tamasha that would follow. And if they believe in giving explaination they can give when Satish decides to reveal them the truth. I think Satish is at fault for keeping the truth from Karanjkars.Why can't they explain? It takes one line to say the truth- they need not give a speech. Today in one line Jay's father said there will be no wedding cos bride ran away. In the same way, Karanjkars could also have declared that there will be no wedding cos it has been found out that the boy is cheating our family and our daughter.

All I'm saying that Archana didn't think rationally, she just acted upon Saitsh conviction. Satish is such a balanced guy, if he is asking Archana to take such extreme step then there must be a reason behind it.That is what I have been saying all this while 😊 that Archu behaved rashly. She should have been a bit more rational about the whole scenario, cos running away from home is a very big decision. Of course, Satish is to be blamed too for making things so messy.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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@ Nikita:
Have said this before (sigh! 😊): the CVs will draw things out as long as they can. The point is length rather than coherence of plot or consistency in characterisation. A's value system and obedient devotion to her mother - previously touted as exemplary, in fact, the reason for her leaving and staying away from M in the first place - can be flung to the winds at the altar of a monthful of mindless pre-elopement misery episodes when instead - as may very likely have happened in the case of a real life arranged marriage even without these extraordinary circumstances - all this could have been sorted out in a less chaotic and publicly humiliating way. Was it necessary or even normal, for example, for a man like M to voice his objections to a wedding before a crowd of interested relatives on both sides at a Diwali party? No. But that's what gains the Cvs time and revenues, so that's what we get. The option of quietly phoning sensible Manohar or practical Satish one morning some time back and meeting them over chai and biscuits later that day to tell them the nasty truth about Jaywant, perhaps even taking them to Ajit's ruffian friend ro convince them, is replaced by needless nonsensical hi-jinks.
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