Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
A love story that hurts so many people is not worth it . . Both her parents have ill health . 28 year old woman who has done rampant manmani is Archana Karanjkar . . When she chose to she believed the photos and walked off with her mom not trusting her instincts or her observations of Manav during 15 day stay , but Ajit's words . At that time she was neither Sati Savitri nor ancient Hinduism practising Nari .........she was a modern girl walking with the times .
She was only married 15 days and the first few days are pretty impressionable, even for a 28 yrs old, who could she believe a man she is only married to for 15 days (with also coming to know that man's family lied about his credentials) or her mom. Who could she trust?...in this case her mom, don't forgot this was an arrange marriage with the tamashas starting from mandap. Not sure if I blam her for choosing mom over a husband of 15 days whos family lied to get her married )When she chose to she did not believe in giving Manav even a chance to hear his side of the story and was more interested in the dance in her Mothers function , uncaring about the lock on the chawl door when the full family was jailed .Again, she was too new to know...I could do the same as well.When she chose to she decided to fall in love AFTER hearing evidenceI could argue she has slowly come to know the man...it took him...it also takes time to understand the situation and analyze it......I remember one of her dialogue being 'how can this man do this to me who walked around and prayed to god to get me' (I can remember the hindi version, not great at hindi). So time was acting on her and she was slowly falling in love...those who have arrange marriage might understand where I am coming from...it is not necessarily love at first sight!When she chose to she decided to come back even when too much water had flown under the bridge , uncaring whether OTHERS whom she had hurt wanted her back nowThen the next three months she forced herself on all and ensured she left a mark on them coz now she WANTED to be emotionally embroiled with this familyWhat options did she have? She know Manju & her mom duo could get her and Manv of not staying together under the court instruction. Could everyone be happy, if this was the reason for Manav going to jail again right after Sachin's death?Then she chose to divorce although she was requested not to coz it was HER choice to please her husband more and win him as a man rather than have the marraigeShe was in love and following Manav...I could argue love is blind...infact lets assume she listened and did not take divorce..what could happen then, was Savita planning to have Shravani there too with Archu as Souten? Wasn't that a little problematic? Isn't it better it was Shravanis decision to go...this way it is a better situation..Then she chose to be good friends with her ex to an extent where society tongues started waggingWell tongue rolls, and tongues are rolling now too....but atleast the love birds are united!Then she chose to remarry coz her ex told her too and such was his hold over her she agreed to wreck another mans life just to please hIMThen she chose Not to break off inspite of knowing the man was no goodSee I could argue it was an emotional blackmail from all quarters, and Sulo no less...to me she was trying to offload her without giving her ample time to forget and move on. I would say Sulo was doing this (including having Manav do it) just to get her off from an economically burden family...I am sure people will not like what I am saying here...but is the hardest fact of life...parents can be selfish too and can do things in ways that are masked by love...plenty of examples are around if u look where parents becomes a child worst enemy and ranges from money to so many things...Then she chose to run away from the mandap and subject her family to intense humiliation and risk her parents getting an attack and dying even though her father suffered a recent one due to her emotional pressures even then .I just love this...it has made my day😃, but seriously if she or even Satish came and said again the truth about Jay, who could believe them...they haven't believed when Manav came and said, Don't u think Dharmu could have sided with Jay and neutralized it.....And seriously I just love the story line now...a 28yrs girl eloping to marry😆This whole story is of her manmani .Both her decisions and sense of timing to implement them SUCK . She is a good girl but immense trouble .Her decisions can't be taken separatedly, there are all linked together..
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