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Posted: 14 years ago
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Wow....is this why Parents bring up daughters with so much Love n Trust?
I was amazed to see that on 16th Nov 2010 Episode Sulochana wasn't ready to beleive savitha that Archana indeed had come to Manav's mandap leaving her Own wedding Altar and she is the reason her Parents had to undergo such insult AND Not a single Word that Savitha said Was wrong!!
Waah Archu Waah...So for this day you had done all that Nautanki -Main Manav ke jeevan se door chali jaaongi...Aai main teri saari baat sunungi etc etc??
I am not sure about others BUt I'd never even want a daughter like Archana who cannot be Trusted at all..Its ok to love your Husband but never Ok to disregard your parents...If Archu didn't want to marry Jaywant did she necessarily hv to run away with Manav/ N most importantly I'm shocked to see that the daughter didn't even worry what might have been happening in her house to her family she was at peace sipping coconut water😲...Waah-kyaa beti hai...it was Manav who was worried-'main janta hoon Archana,tumi bhi apne parivaar ke baarey mein soch raahee ho'My foot...she's become so selfish that I find varsha n manju to b far better than her...
Really i Agree with savitha-Kyaa sanskaar hai..but sadly sulochana is not responsible for it!!
do u reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeally support what archana has done?
She could've done this long back,in proper respectable way but yeah i also agree she's now besharam too..
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sherma thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i totally agree wid dis.i am very disappointed wid archu.i dont believe she is d same archu who used to carry astama pump for her mom every were.today it was manv who was worried abt sulochana,archu gav such a blnk face.archu dad has got an attck alrready all cause of her.her mom is prompt to astama attack atleast show thoda concern or worried.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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agree... sherma posted on same topic... actually wat ever savita aai told today is the blunt truth... and am happy the sanskari got to know abt... really each daughter out does the other...
there are many who are writng that their family is against them and that what choice they had etc etc...

i can understand manav that until shrav told him to go he had not decided to do.. but what abt archana? her family never forced or obligated her with anything.. no body did any emotional black mail saying u have to get married or i wil die etc etc.. atleast manav was thrown into such a family obligation to keep sachin's child.. i dnt think archana had any such problems...
infact her parents esp her dad has been very understanding unlike savita who puts her self b4 manav's happiness.

what ever guts archu has shown now is completely mistimed...first of all she shld have never said yes to jayawant.. and after making a mistake of doing it ( on manav's insistence ) she yet again for go a chance to say no to jayawant after the jail fiasco..couldnt she tell that i wnt be comforatble marrying some who has tried to cheat me...
jayawant said yes she stood like a pillar...where was her guts then....

they are a middle class family.. other than the emotional distress she has made them spend on a wedding she wasntt interested in and was gng to desert at the last minute....

truly.. wat a lead.. WAAH!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallai

agree... sherma posted on same topic... actually wat ever savita aai told today is the blunt truth... and am happy the sanskari got to know abt... really each daughter out does the other...
there are many who are writng that their family is against them and that what choice they had etc etc...

i can understand manav that until shrav told him to go he had not decided to do.. but what abt archana? her family never forced or obligated her with anything.. no body did any emotional black mail saying u have to get married or i wil die etc etc.. atleast manav was thrown into such a family obligation to keep sachin's child.. i dnt think archana had any such problems...
infact her parents esp her dad has been very understanding unlike savita who puts her self b4 manav's happiness.

what ever guts archu has shown now is completely mistimed...first of all she shld have never said yes to jayawant.. and after making a mistake of doing it ( on manav's insistence ) she yet again for go a chance to say no to jayawant after the jail fiasco..couldnt she tell that i wnt be comforatble marrying some who has tried to cheat me...
jayawant said yes she stood like a pillar...where was her guts then....

they are a middle class family.. other than the emotional distress she has made them spend on a wedding she wasntt interested in and was gng to desert at the last minute....

truly.. wat a lead.. WAAH!

i agree wid u but after d jail scene she cldnt say no cause her dad wld get another attack,but wat i dont understnd dint she tink abt her parents now wen she was running.if satish and archu bth wld hav handled d situation maturely it wldnt hav been so bad.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Archu's decision to run away was very wrong.

1.) Her parents are very understanding and have consistently shown support. Last time when Sulo had come to know that Deshmukh family had lied about Manav's credentials, she had not let Archu go with him even though she was married- cos she cared about her daughter. If Archu and Satish had told the family the truth about Jay, then would the family have pushed her into marriage saying no keep up the family izzat? NO! They would have cancelled the marriage then and there.

2.) Her parents are both ill- always. Her Dad got a heart attack, and Aai gets asthma attacks. She didn't think for a moment what would happen to them?

3.) By running away, she spoilt her own untarnished image. If she had told truth about Jay to her family, then they would have cancelled the marriage saying the boy is a fraud. Jay ki badnaami hoti, Archu ki nahi. But now, since she ran away, everyone is gossiping about her that see she has run away with her lover, and Jay has become the hero deserving sympathy in everyone's eyes.

4.) Even after running away, she is not concerned about her parents. It was Manav who was more concerned today.

5.) Even if they would not have believed her, then atleast she could have said fine, don't believe, but I won't marry. Gunpoint pe shaadi thodi na karate uski.😆

Wake up CV's!!! Yeh kya kar rahe ho????
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sherma


i agree wid u but after d jail scene she cldnt say no cause her dad wld get another attack,but wat i dont understnd dint she tink abt her parents now wen she was running.if satish and archu bth wld hav handled d situation maturely it wldnt hav been so bad.



ya even now things are not so good.. even now her father is at risk.. and along with her dad her mom's asthma attack might be around the corner...
see the thing is she had ample opportunity to say no.. getting things this far and then running away is worse...

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallai



ya even now things are not so good.. even now her father is at risk.. and along with her dad her mom's asthma attack might be around the corner...
see the thing is she had ample opportunity to say no.. getting things this far and then running away is worse...

d ting is tat archu character is like chameleon she chnges her way according to her wish. archu got divorce for shravani and sachin,now wen manav was getting married to shrav she came bck,wat if shrav wldnt hav bcked out,tat time she dint cre abt shrav and sachin future.cvs hav ruined archu character totally.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikitagmc

Archu's decision to run away was very wrong.

1.) Her parents are very understanding and have consistently shown support. Last time when Sulo had come to know that Deshmukh family had lied about Manav's credentials, she had not let Archu go with him even though she was married- cos she cared about her daughter. If Archu and Satish had told the family the truth about Jay, then would the family have pushed her into marriage saying no keep up the family izzat? NO! They would have cancelled the marriage then and there.

2.) Her parents are both ill- always. Her Dad got a heart attack, and Aai gets asthma attacks. She didn't think for a moment what would happen to them?

3.) By running away, she spoilt her own untarnished image. If she had told truth about Jay to her family, then they would have cancelled the marriage saying the boy is a fraud. Jay ki badnaami hoti, Archu ki nahi. But now, since she ran away, everyone is gossiping about her that see she has run away with her lover, and Jay has become the hero deserving sympathy in everyone's eyes.

4.) Even after running away, she is not concerned about her parents. It was Manav who was more concerned today.

Wake up CV's!!! Yeh kya kar rahe ho????

i agree,her decision of running was totally bad.i pity her parents so much. her chrcter potrays how a daughter shldnt be.her parents hav alwys been supportive towrds her.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I don't completely agree what what everyone is saying.. sometimes you have to listen to what your heart says, even if that means going against parents will. Yes, parents are trying to make sure the child has a better life but sometimes they get so overwhelmed with the details that they never sit down and ask her, do you really want to marry the person we picked?
Archu said no in the beginning to marrying Jaywant. But with all the tension in her family and the blackmailing from both her mother and Manav, she gave in and said yes. She agreed against her own will. There was a lot of emotional blackmail for Archu to go against. Being without a supporter she ultimately caved.
With that being said, I agree that her timing was incredibly bad; because really she should never have allowed her divorce to go through, especially when both families where happy with Manav and Archu. She should have thought about herself and her happiness then, rather than now.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Had Manav not decided to Take Prego Shrav's Zimmedari by putting sindoor - Mangalsutra in proposal to marry her and Divorcing Archu none of this would have happened...
Archana has gone along with this stupid decision of Manav..Rest were all subsequent decision...Manav never thought this day would happen when Shrav will walk out with Sachu...What will happen to Savita and the family...
Shrav should have been accepted in Ds as a Sachin's wife not anything else...Sachu could have had uncle-aunt, dadu-dadi, bua etc...Manav with his stupid Zimmedari decision has created this bhudol in many families...ArMan are silly duo...What were they thinking with their so called sacrificing?
CVs bring something more intelligent and logical to the viewers...Dont throw trash @ us...We are simply tired of it...
Edited by Dabulls23 - 14 years ago

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