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Posted: 14 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

I must say , I totally forgot about vaishali and Dhamresh's clove story ..Tha t particular story is considered cute in the Karanjkar house ...😕



So true!!! I want to know now whether Dharmesh was slapped or not at the time when Vaishali ran away. If not, then I am going to be very angry on Sulo. 😡

I found their love story foolish.
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Posted: 14 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

What will be WORST will be the SLAP to Manav . OMG .



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Second slap to Manav. Apology for the first never came.
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Posted: 14 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Kalapi

I think Sulo's character and the K family flip-floped the most. If Archana didn't run and told Sulo about Jay, would she believe her. Manav said the same to VInod, as parent will not their check....they seem to have accepted Jay as a good guy simply because she agreed to marry Archana with her past (really what past?). No one tried to find out about Jay, and I felt Archu was being forced to marry (just for the sake of the family. Really the family pressurized emotionally Archu to marry her. I wonder if Satish went and told the truth of what he had overheard, what would the K family have done?

I do agree with all that it is not the best to betray your family like archu did? But there is another angel to this. There are plenty of examples about parent (specially mom) killing their child or selling kids to get money. So, if these kids revolt, is this not acceptable.
In a way, I feel Archu was being forced into a compro marriage...I am not sure many would like to be in a situation like her.
Something that have been bothering me lately is that Savita is crying about Shravani leaving with little Sachu - was Savita thinking about this when she was asking Archana not to divorce Manav....How was she planning to keep little sachu if Manav and Archu didn't divorce --just thinking about the storyline here...any idea?

good points..and WHY is Shravni not wanting to stay with Sachin's family now that she herself took the decision of not marrying Manav So Can't Shravni just stay in the family as Sachin's Widow till she gets remarried?What exactly does she want??
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Posted: 14 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

@Arien: What you are saying is very very unlikely. However, if that had happened, then she could have simply said- fine, do whatever you want but I won't get married. What could the Karanjkars have done? Tied her hands and legs and made her take saat pheras forcibly? Or threatened her to marry at gunpoint? Or threatened that we will do group suicide in Dombivili lake? 😆

These are not characteristics of Karanjkars. They are very decent folk, who have always tolerated her manmani.

If she had put her foot down on wedding day saying I won't marry Jay, he is bad, her parents could have done NOTHING to get her forcibly married.

yes, the K are decent middle class family, but tell me which decent class family after hearing so many negetive things about a could be SIL doesn't check him out, which family couldn't be a bit taken aback and question their judgement about a future SIL who by deceit gets court docs. signed (what if this doc could have been something that harmed their daughter or worst still themselves), or which elder brother came back crying from Manav's and ask Archu if he could do something bad, but never bother to check it out. This same decent family was going gaga a few days back about Manav but didn't give a single benefit of doubt......God, I just am glad I am not their daughter!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Reagarding Archna RESPECTS Satish decision ..........I doubt . Satish had told her NOT to divorce Manav ....she hadnt listened .He had told her dont resign from job ..........she didnt listen .In fact after Satish giving sign scenario she clearly told Satish u went away from my heart . .

Both cud have gone in and easily told the Karanjkars about wat Satish overheard . Satish cud have said Manav wasnt lying I just now heard with my ears when I went to give wedding dress ..sulo only had sent him , is he a crackpot to come back after an errand that he never was gonna go on with a story breaking up a wedding that was gonna take place in half an hour ? Had sulo not sent him he wudnt have gone even . Of course Dharmesh wud have stood up for Jay bt the marraige wud have halted . What Archu did NOW she cud do then .....say I dont wanna take the risk .
Wont manohar get heart attack with her running away ?Why wud he get heart attack with valid excuse supportd by Satish the sensible damad



He would simply have adjusted his specs and said 'tum theek kehte ho, humein yeh shaadi tod deni chahiye.'😆 😆 😆 😆 😆

And later he Damo and Mohanrao would have had a vada pav treat together, after they came to know ArMan got married.👏👏
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Posted: 14 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: Kalapi

yes, the K are decent middle class family, but tell me which decent class family after hearing so many negetive things about a could be SIL doesn't check him out, which family couldn't be a bit taken aback and question their judgement about a future SIL who by deceit gets court docs. signed (what if this doc could have been something that harmed their daughter or worst still themselves), or which elder brother came back crying from Manav's and ask Archu if he could do something bad, but never bother to check it out. This same decent family was going gaga a few days back about Manav but didn't give a single benefit of doubt......God, I just am glad I am not their daughter!



I agree that the Karanjkars were foolish on that aspect. They did not trust Manav whom they called beta beta is another pathetic thing. They were wrong in persisting with the marriage even when Archu was not into it, and was burning palms for Manav.

However that does not justify what Archu did was right- running away from manda when father is ill, when she had other options.They were under a misunderstanding that could have been cleared before the wedding. In fact I wanted Archu to fling this at their faces that see you did not trust Manav that day, whom you called beta beta and conveniently took 3 lakh rupees and made him work like a servant in wedding and serve sherbets. See today Satish is repeating Manav's story.

If she had said all this Karanjkars ke muh dekhne layak ho jate! JAy would have been insulted in front of all the guests. She and Manav would have emerged heroes here.

But nothing like this happened. She ran away from home, and now the guests are sympathising with Jay and saying bad things about her and tomorrow Manav will get slapped for NO MISTAKE at all. He neither instigated her to run away nor was he wrong about Jay.

I don't say she did the wrong thing by refusing to marry Jay. I don't even say that she is selfish- she is not. But she was certainly rash.😡
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Posted: 14 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

@Arien: What you are saying is very very unlikely. However, if that had happened, then she could have simply said- fine, do whatever you want but I won't get married. What could the Karanjkars have done? Tied her hands and legs and made her take saat pheras forcibly? Or threatened her to marry at gunpoint? Or threatened that we will do group suicide in Dombivili lake? 😆 No they don't hv to do any such thing, they just have to tell Archana to get married and she would obey.

These are not characteristics of Karanjkars. They are very decent folk Yes decent folk, who have fear of society. Any decent folks who has Baraat standing at door and all guest arrived at wedding of their divorcee daughter would have hard time to call off marriage , who have always tolerated her manmani. Didn't Archana tolerate Sulochana's manmani? If Sulochana gave in to Archana's manmani there is guilt hidden beneath for ruining her daughters life, firstly giving her difficult start in her marriage to Manav and then in not trusting Manav and bringing Archana back to her house after believing Ajit over Manav.

If she had put her foot down on wedding day saying I won't marry Jay, he is bad, her parents could have done NOTHING to get her forcibly married. Archana already knew Jay is bad still she was ready to marry him. If Archana had stayed back she would have got married unless Karanjkars decided to call off the wedding.

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Posted: 14 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: Kalapi

So true Tanyaz, these K flip flop to much for their own conveniences😆,



Very true.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Against para 1: Why does Archu need to obey? Doesn't she have a tongue? Can't she say I don't want to get married to that rascal? What was the need to run away? I repeat, she needed no such extreme step to make her voice heard. She could have simply said I won't marry, maamla khatam. In the past also, she has stood up in this manner, and her family members had no choice but to swallow her decision- to the extent that when her Dad got heart attack, still she did not give up Manav's case and saved him, even when all her family members were angry. Saying no here, is so much more easier.

Against Para 2: No one is saying tolerate parents manmani. Everyone is saying she did the right thing by refusing to marry. But THE WAY she did it was simply not acceptable, at least in this scenario.

Against para 3: She just had to say no, I believe Satishji, I won't get married. Her parents would have been powerless to do anything beyond that. If she had so much of guts that she ran away on wedding day, then why not show a fraction of them and refuse for the wedding then and there on the spot. That would have been a good use of intellect and efficient handling of the situation.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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totally agree with niki . She has shown guts and refused to get engaged to Satish in front of ALL

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