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nisha

@Nisha_90

Sparkler

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Posted: 14 years ago

#81

well at some extent i agree wid u abt Archu running away without telling her parents nd even i felt weird abt dis but dey are some points which striked my mind

1.Manav already told K's abt jaywant but none of dem believed him who in sapna also cannot lie and suffered alot for K's soo its whollyy sulo's fault so as Dharmesh he totally spread wrong ideas abt Manav who doesn't even know dat dose things will happen eg.dumbo said manav manipulated Archu to save himself frm dat murder case bechara doesn't even know abt it

2.Archu might have felt satish wouldve managed everything in her house as mentioned in yes'day epi but wen manav said abt satish she suddenly felt bad nd scared not dat she doesn't care abt her family but she is in a fear of losing manav and her family

3.And Savita i seriously hate her now more dan anything b'cos savita can love Archu only wen she saves vandu and sacrifice her love for shravani otherwise she is a manus and badchallan women

yes'day she was lke she doesn't deserve manav etc..where it all has gone wen it comes to shravani who became preg before marraige

she is SELFISH girish was absolutely trueeeeee abt dat lady

and abt ArMan i love dem becos dey realised you need to be selfish and selfless and dey did a mistake by seperating nd dats more importanttt

well dis is my POV dats it

nd MOSTLYYY i care only nd only abt Archu manav not any other char in PR nd till den dey are together i dun care abt rest 😆

Edited by Gene_Nisha - 14 years ago

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Kalapi

@Kalapi

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#82

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
never commented anything about Shravani should pursue her career or not. But good point, since you yourself are always blaming Archana for giving up her studies, financial independence so much how come you were tolerating Shravani sitting in chawl for 2 years doing menial house work and trying to please Deshmukhs after having US degree. .
You didn't ? As i recollect in the innumerable discussions i had with u , u often mentioned why she is not exploring other options .

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Where does the question of my tolerating her comes Arien .......my stand was clear .. Give her the same consideration u give archna . If Archnas constant giving up of financial independence is justified as her hundred percent commitment to her relationship and the fact that she never was a career gal , why not extend the same understanding to Shravni .So what if she had US degree , maybe she was not crazy after a career like vArsha and liked being a stay at home MOm ........that was her privilege to take . She had her in laws total support and her Dads money and didnt need to work . And if Shravni was NOT given that understanding and it was harped on and on about why she was not showing guts to be financially independent .........why not apply that to Archna too ?

At least Shravni was going to inherit her Dads wealth one day and D family was supporting her willingly ....Archna gave up job when Father Mom r dependent on Manju and Manju openly cribbed about her BURDEN and during 3 month stay when Savita was even counting her food and Manav stood by non supportive and silent .........as I recollect she took money 100 rupees from Damodar for Varshas wedding present as she had no moiney to buy her one herself . Her need for financial independence was anyday greater than Shravnis .

lets simpluy agree to disagree as usual .

Kools, but there is a difference between Archu and Shravani (although I am totally sympathic to her cause too), but like to take the opportunity to point out (I am on ones fan - too old for that 😆) . How I see is the difference i sthe education and the upbringing both girls had. Archu was a 9 grader (with all the sanskars she got from the K family her outlook towards live is different , she has seen her mom just trying to get her and sis married - I haven't really heard that many times Sulo rooting for higher education or supportind daughters to work for financial independence -true Manju works but it can be more for Rasika then Sulo - know it from my own experience - I work because my mom rooted during my marriage, all other sis -in -law are housewives). But with Shravani it is different, she has tasted both societies - she could with time try to figure out an alternative for herself and her child - she didn't, to me she was too much emotionally dependent on Savitas and all to think rationally beyond and settled for a simple solution of marrying Manav and her dad riches). Its not only being career oriented - to me its the need establish ones identify and a girl studing abroad could definitely need establish that more than Archu who knew nothing better....just my POV

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

Stunner

+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

#83

Only thing in Shrav defence in discussion abv is

Archu had a mother figure in Sulo...A mom, friend and ear to listen and shoulder to cry if needed

Shravni did not...

Savita was her only mother figure @ the time of pregnancy as manav proposed to marry her...If he had not than Shrav would have had to figure something out on her own...

Nothing more or less

Edited by Dabulls23 - 14 years ago

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sara noor

@mehbeer09

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#84

i dont agree with u guys cuz its not archu's fault i mean i know tht she has ran away from her mandap on her wedding day, but it was her parents who forced her to get married even though they knew tht archu lovess manav and if i was archu i would do the same thing and i know her step has hurted all her family members but she has her own life too and she deserves to be happyy like others,, manav is her lovee and her husbandd, she cant leav him