Waah Archu-waah - Page 2

Originally posted by: sur_aur_taal

I don't completely agree what what everyone is saying.. sometimes you have to listen to what your heart says, even if that means going against parents will. Yes, parents are trying to make sure the child has a better life but sometimes they get so overwhelmed with the details that they never sit down and ask her, do you really want to marry the person we picked?

Archu said no in the beginning to marrying Jaywant. But with all the tension in her family and the blackmailing from both her mother and Manav, she gave in and said yes. She agreed against her own will. There was a lot of emotional blackmail for Archu to go against. Being without a supporter she ultimately caved.

With that being said, I agree that her timing was incredibly bad; because really she should never have allowed her divorce to go through, especially when both families where happy with Manav and Archu. She should have thought about herself and her happiness then, rather than now.

Originally posted by: sur_aur_taal

I don't completely agree what what everyone is saying.. sometimes you have to listen to what your heart says, even if that means going against parents will. Yes, parents are trying to make sure the child has a better life but sometimes they get so overwhelmed with the details that they never sit down and ask her, do you really want to marry the person we picked?

Archu said no in the beginning to marrying Jaywant. But with all the tension in her family and the blackmailing from both her mother and Manav, she gave in and said yes. She agreed against her own will. There was a lot of emotional blackmail for Archu to go against. Being without a supporter she ultimately caved.

With that being said, I agree that her timing was incredibly bad; because really she should never have allowed her divorce to go through, especially when both families where happy with Manav and Archu. She should have thought about herself and her happiness then, rather than now.

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

Archu's decision to run away was very wrong.

1.) Her parents are very understanding and have consistently shown support. Last time when Sulo had come to know that Deshmukh family had lied about Manav's credentials, she had not let Archu go with him even though she was married- cos she cared about her daughter. If Archu and Satish had told the family the truth about Jay, then would the family have pushed her into marriage saying no keep up the family izzat? NO! They would have cancelled the marriage then and there.

2.) Her parents are both ill- always. Her Dad got a heart attack, and Aai gets asthma attacks. She didn't think for a moment what would happen to them?

3.) By running away, she spoilt her own untarnished image. If she had told truth about Jay to her family, then they would have cancelled the marriage saying the boy is a fraud. Jay ki badnaami hoti, Archu ki nahi. But now, since she ran away, everyone is gossiping about her that see she has run away with her lover, and Jay has become the hero deserving sympathy in everyone's eyes.

4.) Even after running away, she is not concerned about her parents. It was Manav who was more concerned today.

5.) Even if they would not have believed her, then atleast she could have said fine, don't believe, but I won't marry. Gunpoint pe shaadi thodi na karate uski.😆

Wake up CV's!!! Yeh kya kar rahe ho????

Originally posted by: Kalapi

I think Sulo's character and the K family flip-floped the most. If Archana didn't run and told Sulo about Jay, would she believe her. Manav said the same to VInod, as parent will not their check....they seem to have accepted Jay as a good guy simply because she agreed to marry Archana with her past (really what past?). No one tried to find out about Jay, and I felt Archu was being forced to marry (just for the sake of the family. Really the family pressurized emotionally Archu to marry her. I wonder if Satish went and told the truth of what he had overheard, what would the K family have done?

I do agree with all that it is not the best to betray your family like archu did? But there is another angel to this. There are plenty of examples about parent (specially mom) killing their child or selling kids to get money. So, if these kids revolt, is this not acceptable.

In a way, I feel Archu was being forced into a compro marriage...I am not sure many would like to be in a situation like her.

Something that have been bothering me lately is that Savita is crying about Shravani leaving with
little Sachu - was Savita thinking about this when she was asking Archana not to divorce Manav....How was she planning to keep little sachu if Manav and Archu didn't divorce --just thinking about the storyline here...any idea?

Archana's family has heard many times about the type of man Jaywant is but they've turned the blind eye and insisted Archana marry him, so I doubt her opinion would have meant anything to them. She made an impulsive decision, one that she could have handled differently but what's done is done. Archana has chosen the path she wishes to live.