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Tulsey

@Tulsey

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Posted: 14 years ago

#141

Originally posted by: Dabulls23
Tulsey I love your moral of the story and advice...Excellent points...

I will add

Never ever sell your home and move in with children as long as u live permanantly....Go stay for a while but you must have your own home in your name....If u have become handicap and old age move into one of those homes over moving in with children...Save up for these type of unforseen expenses...

Dont give all your money or control over your money to children...No money or no home you might as well be dead IMHO...Everyone loves guests for few days not permenant pests as they say...I am being honest.....

It is enlightening to read everyone's experiences and we know we are not alone...Dysfunction exist in every family...

Most mothers excuse their son & Dils off responsibilities and holds daughters responsible for the same....But when it comes time to support the one who did the most for them they turn around and support their sons...Not sure why?

Thanks Varsha for the excellent point of never to move in with your children. Hold on to your fort small or bigger. It is your freedom. Children respect you more. I have started early on. I told Monica that if are spending a lot of money on her and her educations and if she does not study hard and get good scores to finish her BSc program, she will not be able to get into any decent post grad programs. No studies means nothing on the will for her. It is really working Varsha. Sometimes it is a good incentive. She also know that Pam is on the will. She also knows that she and Pam will only get after we are gone and not before that. I am not putting her name on any of my properties. Want to learn from other people's mistakes.

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Tulsey

@Tulsey

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Posted: 14 years ago

#142

I have come to a self realization Kool. I have lost my dear father. I love my mother because she gave me birth and raised me to be who I am today. I just care and love her for that.....nothing else.

She gives me 1 and I am ready to give her my whole life.

In the end, Kool, she is our mother and we love her for that. Nothing else. Mother may not feel the same.

Edited by Tulsey - 14 years ago

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

Stunner

+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

#143

Sorry for my post...I have edited it...

Edited by Dabulls23 - 14 years ago

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SaffyFlower

@SaffyFlower

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#144

Hi Mommies😆Am in transit and bored😕So am gonna say wat our generation will do to u sasummas😈😆 Of course,I cant speak on anyone's behalf😳But I think we r far more cool and pleasant to elders - more jovial u know😕no time for the petty stuff I think

Personally,I will checking out the MIL more than the Munda😆I always had someone elderly @home,even now I prefer to be a PG with an elderly lady - she is extremely unkind many times,and I do exactly wat pleases me,but she starts and ends the day with saff..😆😆

My grandma always says 'u bring us respect when ur MIL praises u' - none of her daughters cud do that,coz all of them had 🤢for MILs but my mom and grandma both endured to be gud bahus - I felt the more jhukna happens,more all others beat the bahu,not just the MIL.And tis always the hubby whoz @fault coz he needs to establish her position in the house😕

Okie,dis 2 much for me,bye😆

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Nikita Lakhe

@nikitagmc

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

#145

Awww... Tulsey Di, this is for you... 🤗

You are really a very good daughter!! Muah muah!!!

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unknown18

@unknown18

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

#146

For all the ladies here🤗🤗 U guys experienced a lot in life but whatever u r today is bcoz of that and by sharing all this with us, u r giving us some advice too😊

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

#147

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No one is perfect .The pain , sadness remainss coz expectations r there .Cut them out and everything is bonus .

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Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 14 years ago

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SaffyFlower

@SaffyFlower

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#148

KoolDi,is this experience going into ur book?

Actually feel sad for all of u - but mildly shocked to see it being written.

I always gave private grief a private burial

I cant imagine women doin all this,wat satisfaction or self-respect they feel treating their elders so?They must be v materialistic,and egoistic,wat a waste of life !

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

#149

Which experience saffy ?

Saffy , private burial has already been done , now we r past that stage .nothing to lose . It doesnt matter anymore ...........

Chalo gals , off to give dinner to kids . It was a great evening with u guys .

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

#150

Btw before i go ...........I MISSED FIFS in todays discussion ....Fifs when u come back , know that I MISSED U .And HOPE who I suspect is peeping in when MIL isnt looking😆

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