Manav's decision and character

hi everyone,
i usually just read people's post and never write, but there is something that i would like to share.
Looks like i am the only one who actually does not want Archana and Manav together at this point. I think that archana and manav were made for each other and they were given the chance. whoever, they lost that chance and i think it is time to move on.
To me, archana has several instances where she could have gone to manav and had some faith in him but she did not. Manav had also several opportunities which he did try to make amends. But now that he has promised Girish Sir to marry Shravani, i for one think that he should unless Shravani declines. Shravani had also asked manav to not make decisions in haste.
with this whole situation and i think with manav's character development- it is necessary for him to say true to his word and follow through. it has been constantly said that he fulfills his responsibility and now he has agreed to marry Shravani with his choice.

i just thought to share....what are your views on this?

Practically speaking,Archana shud leave Manav after three months,go ahead hav her educstion completed,hav a job n b independent...after all tht she hav had to endure,I wud like to see her grow stronger leavin Manav to suffer the outcome of his hasty decisions taken in the name of responsibiltiy.

In actual sense Archu should move ahead!!!But I guess it wont send a right message at all if Manav and Shravani marry!!!The serial title PR will have no meaning and also it would convey a wrong meaning that women of our Country dont have any voice after thier marriage and are used as scape goats!!!I beleive Manav and Archu both need to take their stands for each other and show that marriage is sacred and pure love when marriage cant be broken or sacrificed for some unreasonable cirumstances just to save family prestige when both of them are not at all at fault and being punished for sins committed by Shravani and Sachin!!!
They should never allow women like Shravani get away who are disgrace to all other women of our country!!!She and her father needs to be taught a lesson for using Manav as a scape goat for their own deeds!!!!And of course Savita who is good by nature but overcome by greed needs to be shown that she has learnt her lesson and how Archu is priceless for her!!!ITs imp to show this as there is always a sensitive thread btwn Mother in law and daughter in law which even by a slight essence of wind can disrupt the entire relationship!!!

Regards
Jai

I agree with the topic starter .

For Manav's character development he must marry Shravani or only step back now when Shravani releases him voluntarily . For she had given him two three chances to reconsider his decisions but he was adamant at that point .

Now if he steps back , it will be like this ............

Hey now i got my first wife back , I find I have still feelings for her , u know what , still I'll give your child a name , u go baCK ok , ill give my name na !

Just see what a ghatiya , chauvinistic message that is . For his character to develop he MUST be shown sticking to his end of the promise .

Archu Manav both blew the chance they had and desrve to move on , develop , then get back together .

Just see what a ghatiya , chauvinistic message that is . For his character to develop he MUST be shown sticking to his end of the promise I found his promise to shravani even more chauvinistic ...how can one person decide the fate of two people without consultin the other?

This is a very good topic and I am glad someone has opened it .

After she gets divorced I would like Archana to go back to college , work ...do well for herself in life and keep away from manav and his family .

I think Manav is still very much committed to the promise he made to Shravani and his father and thats why he didn't want to sit in Satyanarayan puja with Archana. But lets review under what circumstances Manav made this promise :

Thanks to Savita and Manju, Manav thought Archana has moved on in life and is going to marry Satish and therefore wants a divorce from Manav. He had given up on this relation and signed the divorce papers. When he finally managed to collect evidence against Ajit, his whole family landed up in jail and were brutally beaten up and Manav was badly shaken up and he hated Archana to core of his heart, it didn't matter to him if Archana had lodged complain or someone else in Karanjkar's family. Archana was the reason behind all this suffering and that reason was enough for him to hate Archana. He then went to Archana's house and broke his relationship with Archana, that was divorce itself for him. His relation with Archana was over. Divorce in court is just legal formality for him now. To add to his hatred for Archana, Sachin died and indirectly Archana was again blamed for it.

And then when question of Shravani and her child came, he took entirely selfless decision to offer marriage to her to take up resposibility of Sachin's actions and to save Shravani from disgrace and to give father's name to the unborn child. Archana was a closed chapter at this point when he made this promise. We cannot call his promise to marry to Shravani as his choice, its a compromise.

But my one question to all is does such a promise be held a valid one when we know that Savita and Manjusha had clouded Manav's decision? When Manav made this promise he was mislead by his own mother and Manju about Archana. We know Archana is not at fault and Manav has begun to realize that too. So just coz he gave his word, he should marry Shravani even if it is a wrong decision and would possibly ruin 3 lives? Shravani asked him couple of times to reconsider his decision but he said everything is over between them, why? Coz he knows that its impossible for Archana to come back to his house as Savita hates her so much and he wanted to hide his feelings from Shravani. Shravani was very vulnerable according to him and he was her only hope. Manav will abide by his promise but I think its wrong decision to stick to his promise. The way now creatives will hv to develop the track is to make Shravani negative or Shravani falling out with Manav and denying to marry him.

Objectively thinking,he shud go ahead and marry shravani as per his promise...but subjectively,this one decision will ruin so many lives...I doubt Manav's ability to fall in love with anyone other than Archana,this will only make another savita out of shravani...unnecessary complications n pain ...the reason being only to keep his words which he made under various circumstancial obligations n in haste.

You are right GM. What is more important ? A promise or 3 human lives ?