Manav's decision and character - Page 2

GAURIMISHA- had no right to give his word to Shravani without Archana's consent in the first place.This is marriage n it cant b broken just by his sayin tht I dont want to hav any relation with Archana.Who gave him tht right to promise to shravani?

I am very glad that many of you expressed your opinions here,it made me see other point of views.

I agree with several opinions here that Manav did not need to consult Archana when he made that promise to Shravani. But Manav and Archana both signed the divorce papers regardless of under what circumstances because they know what it meant.

I also think that Archana's primary reason to come to back Manav was selfish- she wanted forgiveness and Manav to accept her. If she really loved Manav she should see that she has caused so much pain to him and his family. I know that Manav's family is no less and that they have caused pain to Archana. I think that Manav was more wronged by Archana than other way around.

Mostly, what i don't understand is that Why Archana inserts herself in Manav's life? she knows that Manav has made promise to Sharavani. Manav has told her that it is better for both of them to move on, then why does she play holi with him? why couldn't she say that i will not sit with Manav is puja? She claims that as a wife she will support Manav's decision-- is this how she plans to do that? if she loves him so much doesn't she see how hard this is for Manav and shouldn't she make it easier for him?

Originally posted by: iamindian

GAURIMISHA- had no right to give his word to Shravani without Archana's consent in the first place.This is marriage n it cant b broken just by his sayin tht I dont want to hav any relation with Archana.Who gave him tht right to promise to shravani?

Archu herself gave Manav that Right because She herself had done that when She didn't even Care to listen to what Manav had to say n She accused Manav of Cheating her,insulted him unthinkably in Public ans eventually left him...Did She Ever ask Manav what did he have tosay? Did she take his consent while 'breaking;' their relationship???????????

So Manav has every right to decide about leaving Archana for good n Move on!!

After all It's NOT ONLY HUSBAND's Duty to beleive in his wife...it is Vice-Versa....that's one of the Vows of Hindu marriage So what's left for the Other person to follow that if one of them breaks that Vow..??

If u remember Archana atleast went ahead to hav a talk with Manav before signing divorce papers,Manav hardly tried.