@Kool......
Honestly this is what i expected ,I know many believe that they can change their man with time.But the case is where the other one loses their love or cheated by love ,this would be rational to think.But here Archana and Manav are right infront of her.She can see that they pin for each other so much.iam not asking her to be mahan,but be practical.Being considerate is also human nature.I am also with you on the point that one should move on ,not mourn .I am not even saying she forgot sachin ....but marrying his brother is little bit unrealistic,because when she loved sachin and wanted to marry him,she would have thought about this family ,she would have thought manav as elder brother and suddenly after sacchin's death ..........she accepted him as his mangethar.iam not against shravani marrying,I would have been happy if they would have showed her though she was living in this house .......she should have found a suitable guy and marry .
BUt she didnot want to go though all these things ,instead took the easiest option.
You are ignoring two vital things in wanting to see this serial as u wish it had been .
1] The marrying a guy who is like a brother point : How can u hold it against only Shravani when the same thing applies to Manav too? Wasnt she like his kid sister all his life ? Yet he was the one who proposed to her . So ok , if u are going to hold that as a crime , then why is Manav absolved from it .........had anyone forced his hand ? Why is a Manav hate club not there for committing moral incest? I dont understand this logic at all . At least she asked him twice or thrice if he wanted to get back with Archu . The reason for this whole Bro Sis marraige was the child in the womb , The Deshmukh blood that the Deshmukhs wanted very very badly .U keep saying she cud have married another guy but answer this question first .............will Manav like it ?
I am telling u NO .Coz their child........the Deshmukh child will go to another man .The Deshmukhs want this child as Sachins memory . They want their blood to grow up in their house . I dont think Savita and Manav wud want Sachins child , their Deshmukh bloood to go away from their lives . Archna is not his priority at all , its ok for him if she goes , its definetely NOT ok for him if the baby goes elsewhere .Priorities r clear .They want Shravni much more than she wants them , make no mistake !
2] Being considerate is human nature ..............Yes ! Look where it got Archana . See her misery . Normal people dont bother to be considerate beyond a certain point . She showed consideration by asking him thrice when he proposed if he wanted to still go back to Archu . He said No . When he gave her the power to decide if he shud go to Varshus engagement that time also she said Ok . She is not an inconsiderate girl .........she is only not upto Archanas Devi level , bas . Do girls like Archu really exist ?Only in Tv serials .And Shravnis exist , very much they exist .
And if she leaves at this point hundred percent this Manav will run behind her saying Dont go........for the Deshmukh baby which He wants at any cost in his house . He threw Archana away for it . Face facts guys .
My best friend married coz the gal was out of the picture ............not exactly dear . She had dumped him for another guy but wasnt married and later broke up with even him . She was free for a long time after that too . This guy had told my friend he simply cudnt forget her . My point is .........females go to any extent if they r practical enough . They adjust on so many levels . I dont find Shravni a parasite at this point at all . A weak character yes , needs a dose of self respect , yes . ......but not evil or parasite .The parasite is Savita who is feeding on Manavs happiness and money both , greedily like a leech right from the days she stole from his pockets .