Originally posted by: ismita
@Kool.
I have seen all ur posts on shravani.I really like all your posts,but on this point I disagree with you.Your saying shravani's reaction is human..........I would say you should try to fight which is rightly your's ,but not forcibly take it .I agree manav gave her this right,But inspite of being educated girl she cannot stand on her own feet and try to bear the burden of her mistake.This is her first mistake .....I feel she is nothing but a parasite ,weakest of all the characters in the show.
You can be practical ,but not selfish.There are many strong women in the world who inspite of loosing everything are trying to stand up on their feet with head held high.She being young ,,does not let her of the hook.
Shravani inspite of knowing that manav loves Archana,the confession she heard from manav's mouth cannot put 2+2 together.Why couldnot she at that point stand up and say ......I will take the responsibility of the child myself and you and Archana are made for each other.Instead she took the easiest option of hanging on to take support from somebody.
I know Archana is taking all the crap thrown on her........but we have to understand one thing.....she is uneducated ,she does not have the outlook towrds life ,all her life she was in between the family ,trying to bind relationships.Even when Bhavana selected for satish ,she told that though Archana is uneducated ,she knows how to bind relationships.so how can we expect her to all of a sudden change her attitude .Shravani inspite of being educated ,self made is behaving like this ,there is no wonder in Archana being a spectator in taking all the crap.
I feel shravani does not have a mind of her own........
I know it is a long post ,But i will end with one question.....
what would you do if your were sharavani and you heard manav confessing his love for his wife?I know you won't disappoint me.
Sorry if this post hurt anyone.
I would have not married a man who loved someone else . But at the same time I know that there are many women out there who would have , confident that they could change the man given the passage of time , and their own efforts . I have actually seen the thought processes of various women .They believe Love is an emotion that is EASILY changeable iunlike the stupid myth that one loves ONLY ONCE or Love can Never Change .Facts remain that with the passage of time love changes , affairs r done , divorces take place , some even murder their same wives with whom they did love marraige simply for insurance money !
I find Shravani very practical , very realistic . She is not Mahaan ..........today we saw her admitting this HERSELF in todays episode . She Could have been shown going to US and delivering baby but then this track would not have existed so creatives made her agree to Manavs marraige proposal .
Manavs admission of love to Tarun need not really affect a practical woman . My own best friend as i wrote in another post bluntly told a guy It is ok , your past doesn't matter to me when the guy told her that although he had broken up , he was still in love with his former girlfriend and coud not forget her . I personally wud have never agreed to such an alliance or even u , but that girl did .She said I dont care , with time u will learn to love me . And it proved right , the guy is so happy now with two kids and crazy about her . So u see , this big Hype about Love being permanent is false . It changes just as EVERYTHING in the world changes .Sometimes it survives but many times it changes too .
So on this background I dont blame Shravni so much for not giving that so much credence . She is young and believes she can change things with passage of time , she also cud not resist Manav who is so hot , such a gentleman , so willing to be her knight in shining armor . THis combination is irresistible , and 90 percent gals will not be able to resist it is the blunt truth . Manav tells her If u tell me I will go to engagement , If u say no I wont . Tell me which gal will be able to resist this man ? Manav tells her You are my priority now , dont even think of my wife .
His family supports her , wants her . All things r conducive for her . Let us not go into the she cud have gone to US point as creatives r not showing it so why bother discussiing it .
Another thing held against her is how she forgot Sachin so quickly . Well , honestly , creatives r in a hurry so they ARE NOT gonna show a wait of a year to elapse to show Shravni is now ready to move on .What we shud see is the context not the time as creatives rush in serials , even leaps r shown in one episode . So speaking strictly of the context , I feel , people hype mourning very unrealistically too . Like for years people r not expected to wear good clothes , eat well , weep buckets of tears this and that .
But in reality , the body feels hunger at its determined times the very next day , people join offices after a fortnight of mourning , wear ironed clothes for officewear , attend functions , start frequenting insurance offices to collect money of even sons . People MOVE ON . This reality is shown really nicely in PR but fans of ARMAN find it hard to accept as they r unduly romantic !
Savvita has moved on much faster than Shravni .........she wears jewels , dances at her marraige anniversary , celebrates it , greedily grabs insurance cheques..........yet I dont see Savita hate club as all take her villainy for granted . Compared to her Shravni is more sober and restrained .
Girish and Shravni r both practical , not so mahaan , normal people who look out for themselves . I dont see any reason to hate them this much upto this point ...........what will happen later Im not commenting on that . Archna and Manav r themselves to be blamed for their rift ...........they were too slow , too dim witted and too much under the thumb of their mothers to take their own decisions or even talk frankly to each other before the divorce .
Today Shravni cannot bear to see Manav with anyone and told him so . But what do Archu Manav do?Instead of bluntly acknowledging their innermost feelings they push each other in other peoples arms ...like Archu is pushing Manav to Shravni and Manav decided to sign on divorce paper so she cud marry Satish without even talking to her . So why blame Shravni is my question .Just coz these two r terribly mahan the world around them cannot rise upto their heights and if it doesnt the normal people cannot be called parasites as they r only being very very normal .