Originally posted by: devashree_h
KS Didi, its ok that Shravani has moved on but she says she is lucky to get Manav as a husband??😲She never said she is happy to have Manav as her baby's father but as her husband??So she forgot Sachin so quickly.I am all for her moving on but what about all that divine love she had for Sachin?? she forgot it so quickly??
It is not like that devashree . Just look at Shravani . How much did she know Sachin?As much as Archu did Know Manav ..........for a relatively short period ............typically the way young girls know their husbands in arranged or love cum arranged marraiges in that society they r showing in PR . In that short time , they r kind of mentally trained to accept that man as a husband , give him full trust [ like archana was expected to] or love [ like Shravani very literally did by even giving up her body ].
I think it is safe to assume in Shravanis case that although she indulged in premarital sex , she did NOT take initiative , merely gave her consent ........as nothing suggests to us uptill now that Shravni was was a fast gal . Her dressing , her behaviour , her sobriety does not suggest that she was a forward gal . On the contrary we have ample evidence that Sachin was a forward guy , who eve teased gals and pinched their butts . Not one with exactly high morals . Girls like Shravni who fall in love for the first time , are wax in hands of guys like Sachin , who know exactly how to 'proceed ' in such matters . The only good thing that happened was that Sachin did fall in love for the first time , and did not intend to play fast and loose with this girl who obviously succeeded in getting under his skin with her goodness and showed him the right path . Goes on to prove that rakes like Sachin sometimes develop a conscience , guys like Ashwin and Ajit are far too hardened.
The 'divine ' love that u guys speak of always needs to be modified , channelised in different ways as circumstances in life go on changing . In Shravni's case , after Sachin died , she channelised it to the baby , the living person , than waste it on a person who will now always remain a memory . To bring the baby up , she realised she has to steel herself and move on . There can be innumerable debates as to how she is US returned and cud go back etc etc ........lets just see from the point she took the decision of giving birth to Sachins child and staying connected to his blood family as the same blood was in her womb..........she felt she owed it to Sachin to stay connected when the chance was offered to her via Manavs proposal which she hadnt dreamt of . There was manav , being divorced , and her dad suggested this and whats more Manav constantly assured her this wud work out and be fine for ALL ........especially the baby , a higher cause .
Isnt that love for Sachin divine if she chose to live in that chawl inspite of being immensely rich , whats more , she adjusted there mutely without any damned complaint just like Archana ?
Had she gone there coz she lusted after Manav the hottie? I think not . Lust isnt even in her mind now . And now that she is going to bring a life in the world shud she not give a hundred percent to the marraige so that the baby can have a normal life not a nakli family putting on a perfomance for the sake of the baby ? Is it so wrong ? It is the same divine love being channelised and modified as circumstances demand , bas , coz Life doesnt stop . THat doesnt mean she stops loving the people who have gone .
If u guys must talk about divine love ...........hasnt Manav modified his great divine love and channelised it in another direction for a higher cause ? Has he forgotten Archna or SAchin or stopped loving both of them ? Or is he merely walking on the course that Life is taking ?
Same with Savita . She celebrates functions saying she is doing this for SAchu . I am wearing gold for Sachu wished me to wear gold , Im going to dance today coz Sachu wud have wished it ........Damodar acted in a play on the day he died saying The show must go on , sAcchu wud have wished it . Compared to that isnt Shravni sober and restrained ? The principle here is the same that the horrible truth of life is LIFE HAS TO GO ON.
So why are everybody unnecessarily only targeting Shravni ? Isnt it unfair ? Sure in future she may turn negative , Im ONLY TALKING UPTO this point . Today too she gave up all jewels to Savita , not having the faintest interest herself in any of them . See her extreme youth and her renunciation , isnt it a part of that divine love ?
The truth is dear, everyone badly wants her to be negative , to get out of the picture so that ARMAN unite . But a bigger truth is that both ARchu and manav are themselves responsible for their problems , not Shravni . Infact I will feel sorry for her in future as clearly once ARMAN unite in heart , she will get the most unfair deal in life for Manav will never be able to live upto his end of the promise . Tough on the girl if u ask me .
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