The complicated web of relationships - Page 3

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Of course Mini and HS - mahaan duo.

I hope Mini does Khuranas chores. Cooks for them. Handles their flip flopping and so on.

Unfortunately, everything will be dumped on Babita.

I have seen my mother do this for 37 years of her life. Still doing it. Without single word of appreciation. I have lagaav but respect is I struggle to find. Some real years she has spent sacrificing and sacrificing. I have lovely type of person too in our life. It’s sad when I think back to all those years and bitter moments. It still sometimes bothers my mom. We all do it as our duty. It makes my father happy. But it’s not fair to my Mom.

I agree about empathy for elders. But it doesn’t take away from your bad karmas. So someone who does injustice, should be excused coz they are elder? What about the message that you do good, you reap good. This is like torture Bahu but at the end on humanitarian ground, she has to look after you.

Mini can have her relationship with her grandparents independently but I don’t think it’s fair to expect Babita to have anything to do with them. Her suggestions were all valid and practical.

Also, HS was hiding behind NB when he himself just 2-3 days back asked Babita to be honest and not hide behind Mini. He should’ve come clear to her. Practice what you preach.

Also, Mini and Hs can’t always be excused. I get that some have deeper attachment with the 2. But then some of us do not feel so. I disagree with different characters at different times. I have bashed Babes too. We all can have our opinions.

Hey i don't want to comment on your personal experience as am noone to do so but just have to say at bold you yourself said you do it as a duty it is not like you or your family have cut ties as is b3ing expected from babita because in realitu these things are hard and you really need to not have a heart to abandon someone just caz bad karma or whatever. Noone is saying babita should do seva or anything or she is obligated to put her life on hold nope all we are saying is she can think of it as mini'a duty towards her grandparents too esp when they haven't wronged mini at all. They are a separate entity from ashok and that's it. She cannot decide for mini and her grandparents and what kind of relationship they want to share

Why is Mini madam not thinking about calling Lovely and Ashok and letting them know of Khuranas's situation? Mini itni samajdaar hai, apne dadu-beeji ki taklif samajhti hai, so she needs to call her biological father or her aunt and tell them to come and sambhalo their responsibility. At the end of the day, it is Khuranas's children that should take care of them, not Hanita, not Mini.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Also, Mini and Hs can’t always be excused. I get that some have deeper attachment with the 2. But then some of us do not feel so. I disagree with different characters at different times. I have bashed Babes too. We all can have our opinions.

@bold: They are not always excused. That is your perspective if that's what you think I do.

Rest, we can agree to disagree. No point going into details when minds are made up on both sides.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

🤣....Tu itna gyaan without watching the epi de rahi hai?😆

I'm not a fan of the Khuranas either and I very much remember the selfish things they've done....but I'm talking about the realities of life.....old age mein sab saath chhod dete hain.....but kisi ko toh step up karna padta hai.....is it always "fair" who ends up being the one taking responsibility? No it's not....but life isn't always fair....you work within what you get....there are no perfect solutions.

And same.....main bhi wohi soch rahi thi....Babita herself has seen times where she was helpless and homeless in a sense.....tab HS ne madad ki, NB ne madad ki.....ab wohi log Khuranas ki madad kar rahe hain when they are in a helpless state toh chubh raha hai? lol sab apne apne perspective se hi dekhte hain.

Neither are the Khuranas saints, nor are they monsters.....and same goes for Babita.

Rofl kya karoon subah se bhari bhaithi thi main readinf about zaalim khurrannas deserve this and should be abndoned ab nikal aaya😆 And i totally agree with the bold part and they need to decide it being a neutral

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Why is Mini madam not thinking about calling Lovely and Ashok and letting them know of Khuranas's situation? Mini itni samajdaar hai, apne dadu-beeji ki taklif samajhti hai, so she needs to call her biological father or her aunt and tell them to come and sambhalo their responsibility. At the end of the day, it is Khuranas's children that should take care of them, not Hanita, not Mini.

At the end of the day, it should have been Babita's brother taking care of her when her husband abandoned her....why didn't he? Wasn't he her only maternal connection left in the world?

If only life was so simple as people doing what they SHOULD do in stepping up towards responsibility.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Rofl kya karoon subah se bhari bhaithi thi main readinf about zaalim khurrannas deserve this and should be abndoned ab nikal aaya😆 And i totally agree with the bold part and they need to decide it being a neutral

LOL this is what happens when we are the last ones to get to watching the epi and we wonder ki itni ranting kis baat ki ho rahi thi bhai? 😆

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Why is Mini madam not thinking about calling Lovely and Ashok and letting them know of Khuranas's situation? Mini itni samajdaar hai, apne dadu-beeji ki taklif samajhti hai, so she needs to call her biological father or her aunt and tell them to come and sambhalo their responsibility. At the end of the day, it is Khuranas's children that should take care of them, not Hanita, not Mini.

Hahah nice joke😆 As if mini has not seen how much ashok and lovely care for her beeni dadu as if she hasn't seen how they have abandoned her when she needed the very same ashok and lovely. What makes you think that they will come running for them as of ashok isn't the reason they are forced to live with NB in this state. Mini is only being sensible what is the point of calling the behiss log that are the reason in first place for putting them in this syate

Originally posted by: AreYaar

At the end of the day, it should have been Babita's brother taking care of her when her husband abandoned her....why didn't he? Wasn't he her only maternal connection left in the world?

If only life was so simple as people doing what they SHOULD do in stepping up towards responsibility.

Yes, Babita's brother should have helped her, but Babita was still capable of taking care of herself and her daughter. Situation with Khuranas is different. They are old. Their children should take care of them, or at least find out a solution so that they are taken care of when both of them venture out in bidesh.

Why is no one questioning Ashok and Lovely that they left their parents homeless?

Oh and the other thing that made me laugh so loud was irfaan saying why khurrans don't live with their kids despite them being well setlled hahahahah the pot is calling kettle black🤣 Irfaan mian aap kyon NB ko saath nahi rakh sakte despite being a lecturer at aligarh. Apna dikhai nahi deta dosron pe ungli uthao pehle khud aine main shakal dekh lo apni. I wish Hanuman said that to him vada aaya kahin ka chahudhry

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Yes, Babita's brother should have helped her, but Babita was still capable of taking care of herself and her daughter. Situation with Khuranas is different. They are old. Their children should take care of them, or at least find out a solution so that they are taken care of when both of them venture out in bidesh.

Why is no one questioning Ashok and Lovely that they left their parents homeless?

You would be surprised at how often this happens in real life....parents are old and children shirk responsibility from taking care of them because it would cramp their lifestyle.

So there is no "should" in this....it's not a foregone conclusion that children will step up to take care of their old parents....they consider them an inconvenience.

Aise time pe insaaniyat jis mein bhi ho...apne ya paraaye...woh hi help kar sakte hain.