The complicated web of relationships - Page 5

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Fact is it's not insaniat whch is making Hanuman think if moving Khuranas to his Haveli.. it's solely Mini.. and another fact is that it is not insaniat which is making Mini worry about Khuranas.. it is her blood relation.. and it's not like Babita wants to throw Khuranas onto the street.. she is willing to help them financially but keep a distance from them emotionally and physically.. how is that being inhumane? Fact is Biji tried to stop Babita and not Lovely when she was spewing venom during the wedding ceremony.. that made it clear where her loyalty lies and that's what pushed Babita over the edge and that's what is making her worried that Biji would poison minis mind against her.. her happy moments will come again but for now she needs time and it's not unreasonable if she expects Hanuman and Mini to respect that.. Is it fair to keep Mini away from Khuranas forever? No.. but till the time that she overcomes her bitterness, it is not too much to expect..

Let's not forget that it is because of Babita that Mini got her Grandparents back in her life.. warna they had broken all ties with her, which of course Minj seems to have conveniently forgotten.. tab the old and feeble Khuranas did give two hoots about Mini and what she would go through.. Babita had to cry and request them to meet Mini

Also, whatever happened to Imaandaari?

Why was he hiding behind NB? Tell her about what Irfan said, what Mini heard.

If Babes hide behind Mini toh she isn’t being honest.

Aur aap karo to?

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Arey but he did say in the last scene with Khatri na that he wants to take his mom with him😆....that's his grand plan apparently....to sell the house and take his mom back with him to Aligarh.

But mujhe toh lag raha hai ki he wants to kill two birds with one stone....ghar bech ke paise milenge and NB ko saath le jaayenge to take care of the kid while the parents work.

HS aajkal neutral observer mode mein hai....kuch nahin bolega😆....bachpan ki dosti ka lihaaz and all😆

And this is exactly what it is warna itna sudden pyar on ammi kahan se aa gaya isko? Free ka makaan and naukrabi milegi na aur kya NB ko bhi khurrannas ki tarah darr darr ki thokrein khane ko chod dega once he gets the money *sigh*

Honestly i am surprised babita ke basic inaaniyat instincts have disappeared like she seriously is getting mad at mini aftwr hearing the nonsense khatri was spewing? Itna toh insaan ko jaanwar se bhi laagav ho jaatahai ke jab koi bahar wala kuch bole ya kare toh you feel angry and babita was all blank and getting pussed at mini for speaking up for her grandparents.like are you kidding me? Aaj toh sach main khatri drserved karate kuch bhi bakke jaa raha tha without any provocation from anyone. Aise logon ko sadak pe taang ke hoote maarne chahiye but no he and kammo needa rehabilitation while bechare poor khurrannas deserve this behavior

Oh well🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I made a lot of points in my original post that aren't being addressed....

1) If those 17 years were all torture, why did her in-laws support her in getting a BA?

2) Does the CD not remind Babita of "kadvi yaadein"? So why not toss that out just like she tossed out the grandparents?

Yeh do points conveniently ignore ho rahe hain🤷‍♀️

She isn’t playing the CD everyday. Use yad bhi nahi hoga CD thi uske paas. Khuranas under same roof can bring back bitter memories.

17 years weren’t torture. Might have had some good memories. She was fine with them until Lovely came and Saare taunts taaza kar diye.

It’s her wedding day. Lovely is taunting her and yet Biji sides with Lovely. And wants Babita to stay mum. Wah.

That was her breaking point. After that she doesn’t want to do anything with them.

Khuranas even made Mini apologize. They wouldn’t care about Mini had lovely and Ashok been here. If Meeta too had been here with her kid, fir to who is Mini?

They are so not worth it. Babes is right in feeling so.

She did not toss out grandparents.. she is willing to help them financially which is more that can be said about their own children.. She does not want them in her life

Why did they let her do BA? Because that had no impact on them

Why she is angry with them now? Because her 17 years of Seva was not enough for Biji to stop her daughter from churning nonsense

Why she kept CD? She kept it... But it's not like she was niharoing it constantly that it would remind her of kadvi yadein all the time. It was lying in the cupboard unattended.. maybe she thought Mini would want to see it some time down the road.. maybe she kept it as a one last learning memoire of her past.. or maybe she thought she looked beautiful in it.. keeping the CD in no way implies that Babita wants her past to remain a part of her life

The sensible Mini was wallowing in self pity thinking of moving out when things were not going her way.. the mature Hanuman doubted mini because of his insecurity.. But Babita is not allowed to prevent her daughter from meeting her grandparents due to fear.. excellent

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

And this is exactly what it is warna itna sudden pyar on ammi kahan se aa gaya isko? Free ka makaan and naukrabi milegi na aur kya NB ko bhi khurrannas ki tarah darr darr ki thokrein khane ko chod dega once he gets the money *sigh*

Honestly i am surprised babita ke basic inaaniyat instincts have disappeared like she seriously is getting mad at mini aftwr hearing the nonsense khatri was spewing? Itna toh insaan ko jaanwar se bhi laagav ho jaatahai ke jab koi bahar wala kuch bole ya kare toh you feel angry and babita was all blank and getting pussed at mini for speaking up for her grandparents.like are you kidding me? Aaj toh sach main khatri drserved karate kuch bhi bakke jaa raha tha without any provocation from anyone. Aise logon ko sadak pe taang ke hoote maarne chahiye but no he and kammo needa rehabilitation while bechare poor khurrannas deserve this behavior

Oh well🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Maine bola na.....Babita ka phobia hai ki she will start feeling sympathetic towards the grandparents seeing their feeble state....lol so she wants to keep them away taaki woh khud carried away na ho jaaye seva karne mein....self-preservation😆

That is why she is angry with Mini ki usne uska self-preservation plan mess up kar diya....lol

Irfan matlabi hai....it's quite obvious.....lol

Itna lagav insan ko janwar see hojata hai lekin lovely and oldies ko Babita we nahi hua.. and to top it.. babita does not even know k akhir main masla kia hai.. these ppl are hiding things from her and expect her to be all understanding.. and then talk about imandari😆

Originally posted by: shazam1

After all this ends, and supposedly NB house is no longer available, where do you think the Khuranas should stay?

Good point. What is a permanent solution?

Lol wah wah babbo ji kya plan hai😆Apni mahaanta ko under control rakhne ka😆 you know what else was hilarious her throwing aapka makaan hai jo karei tantrum like a kid like really? If that was the case he didn't really needed to ask or discuss with ya waise hi le aata since they have made him son too at some point phir babita ne kehna tha mere se poicha nahi tantrum. Like how old are you babita? It's amazing to see how human mind works in a twisted way apni pe aaye toh mahaanta central warna tu kaun main kaun wah

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

She isn’t playing the CD everyday. Use yad bhi nahi hoga CD thi uske paas. Khuranas under same roof can bring back bitter memories.

17 years weren’t torture. Might have had some good memories. She was fine with them until Lovely came and Saare taunts taaza kar diye.

It’s her wedding day. Lovely is taunting her and yet Biji sides with Lovely. And wants Babita to stay mum. Wah.

That was her breaking point. After that she doesn’t want to do anything with them.

Khuranas even made Mini apologize. They wouldn’t care about Mini had lovely and Ashok been here. If Meeta too had been here with her kid, fir to who is Mini?

They are so not worth it. Babes is right in feeling so.

Dude, you are clearly very triggered by Babita's situation. I get that. But can you please stop trying to project that into the story?

As I said, we have different perspectives on the scenes. I really don't have the energy to sit here and try to convince you....and you clearly said, that's not the point....you enjoy opposing views. Toh establish ho gaya hai ki humaare opposing views hain.....ab same point ko kitni baar repeat karenge?

If you feel Babita is 100% right, that's your call.

Poor Babita cannot even react like human without her insaniyat being questioned😆 and if she does take them in, it will be because she is mahaan.. poor woman has no way out😆