Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #9 - Page 90

Originally posted by: mpks1

@ bold Why not? It is common these days to have children in 30s, but will be a good l message to reach any population, be it rural or urban.

Again, sorry for bringing up the original, this is the track going on there right now. Dhanam is pregnant after 15 years of marriage and they are showing realistic portrayal of the same-pros and cons of getting pregnant at that age.

I agree with the rest of the points too. This is SP we are talking about, of all the channels, they seem to be the most regressive and there is no nayi soch in what they show😕

Why sorry? The OG seems to be much more interesting than this garbage characteristic of Dhara.

I am sorry, but women don't need man-children in the name of husbands. Dhara hasn't taught them anything properly. Instead uses the stick approach, which is wrong. Why should she be even writing Shivi’s story? Both already have so much to deal with. CV’s have excellent material with these two. The writing is unimaginative.

So, we see man-children craving Bhabhi’s phaphda instead of beaming with happiness that at least a woman cooked for them? WTf is even that? I am okay with the division of labour, but they are on a holiday. You can't both cook together and then eat? These people needed wives only to procreate and not for their emotional needs.

That portrayal is pretty problematic, especially Dev-Rishita, who seem to have a love marriage. Why can't they have conversations which don't involve family?

Shiva-Raavi, I understand, don't have any common talking points apart from bickering, so they build up that UST and fragile glimpses of care. But we can't watch things in the loop. Sorry, but Suman wanting to throw Dhara away after ten years of marriage seems unrealistic to me. Why can't Suman call her separately and reprimand her for her interference? Tell her how men need wives too for emotional needs. Let them build it up.

I would love to see something like that.

I guess our weekends are for ranting🤣

This is third week in a row...🤣

Am so happy i have bunch of people together to rant and vent out here

Hum sab kya se kya hogaye

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

I dont know after today's episode I kind of sympathize with Rishita to some extent. Yes she is annoying, disrespectful, rude but her points about Dhara and the toxic relationship that she shares with the boys are valid. Dhara has mollycoddled the guys to such an extent that all they talk about is "Dhara bhabhi" . Any wife will be pissed off. After marriage your priorities should change. You cannot be that pampered mamma's boy anymore. This will definitely not go down well with the wife and will lead to constant fights. Dhara should back off and stop interfering in each and every matter of the house. I did not like Shiva's dialogue today to Raavi "Tu mere aur mere bhabhi ke beech mat aa" . He needs to understand she is his wife and has an equal say in everything. Stop worshipping your bhabhi and placing her on a pedestal every single second. She is human and not God.

This is Gem!!

Originally posted by: Transference

Any sorry, the OG seems to be much more interesting than this garbage characteristic of Dhara.

I am sorry, but women don't need man-children in the name of husbands. Dhara hasn't taught them anything properly. Instead uses the stick approach, which is wrong. Why should she be even writing Shivi’s story? Both already have so much to sea with. CV’s have excellent material with these two. The writing is unimaginative.

So, we see man-children craving Bhabhi’s phaphda instead of beaming with happiness that at least a woman cooked for them? WTf is even that? I am okay with the division of labour, but they are on holiday. You can't both cook together and then eat? These people needed wives only to procreate and not for their emotional needs.

That portrayal is pretty problematic, especially Dev-Rishita, who seem to have a love marriage. Why can't they have conversations which don't involve family?

Shiva-Raavi, I understand, don't have any common talking points apart from bickering, so they build up that UST and fragile glimpses of care. But we can't watch things in the loop. Sorry but Suman wanting to throw Dhara away after ten years of marriage seems unrealistic to me. Why can't Suman call her separately and reprimand her for her interference? Tell her how men need wives too for emotional needs. Let them build it up.

I would love to see something like that.

I would like to tell that am a fan of your posts and wait to read them. Your views are so practical and realistic and on point

A big heart to you for such amazing posts❤️

Dhara didi aise zabardasti se pyaar nahi hota. Period!

Originally posted by: mpks1

Dhara is writing Shivi's love story, will make it a success at any cost and take credit for it😭baad me jaaye Shiva aur Raavi ke feelings

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

i agree.. dhara kahin nahi jaane waali, even if she is kicked out by suman and no one stops her by some miracle 🤣

LOVED, LOVED, LOVED 👏 the precap and Dhara’s facial expression when Suman said she will kick her out!

Don’t know how this show moves forward but this was awesome! For all the insult, hurt, and pain she gave Shish and Raavi! I don’t believe in insulting and doing drama in front of all but I am so upset with Dhara that even if Suman is not right in calling her out in front of all I am okay for now.

Every time Dhara acts mean I will watch this precap for some peace 😂👍🤣 Loved Gautam’s fearful expression too! They both deserve it! 👏👏 Go Suman!!!

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

This show time and again proves it's not just important to be right. It's just as important to deliver the message as it's intended. Otherwise it's just rude/comes off as insult.

Originally posted by: Prana1

Suman is a smart woman. She observes things, senses when things are off but no one tells her full story 😏 she is the only one who really understood the sacrifice that Shivi made, even when she was mad at Ravi for insulting her son she immediately addressed her endearingly as “beta” when she told her to make a decision about divorce.

She is direct and calls it as she sees it unlike Dhara who holds things inside and boom explodes 🤯

Suman was caring towards Dhara too when she noticed her efforts within the family (before she went psycho 😂)

She gives people their due and I REALLY hope Dhara gets it from Suman! Dhara needs a reality check. I can’t stand to watch her anymore -it’s sad 😢

very well said! i am unable to see dhara on the screen too.. because of her i can't enjoy gaura 😕

i hope her character writing improves soon

Originally posted by: ItsmePriya

I would like to tell that am a fan of your posts and wait to read them. Your views are so practical and realistic and on point

A big heart to you for such amazing posts❤️

🤗Thank you for all that love. I am not sure how ranting at a TV SHOW is realistic , but there is nothing more I’d want at this time than the story to evolve correctly. This story seems to be stuck to an unrealistic time loop.