Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #9 - Page 88

Originally posted by: mpks1

Synopsis

Shiva, Dev Get Sneaky

Shiva and Dev secretly share a meal with Gautam and Krish and get punished by Dhara. Later, Suman feels some tension in the family upon her arrival.

awww this sounds sweet!

dhara 😕

I wish Suman would ask Shiva what's up - I just remembered she once said when he lies his eyes goes round and round (can't remember exactly what) but I laughed so much at that 🤣🤣🤣

Dhara has not prepared these guys for adulthood in many ways. Yeah they are educated and can work and take care of the shop etc but emotionally they are still in many ways little boys lol and depend way to much on dhara for things and her approval. They are not being flexible to new people and things like even food lol Dev is more mellow so he seems reasonable on the surface but even his dhara food love shows little chinks in his marriage. Shiva is the most inflexible he won't budge on top his history with raavi. Rishita and raavi are on an uphill battle to gain partners in life coz these boys still need to grow up and come out of Dharas control of their lives and emotional attachments.

If you bring breakfast for husband and he says I want what Bhabhi cooked, this should be enough for any woman to Be irked and angry

Originally posted by: Transference

I do not like it a bit! The story seems to be warped in circles and lacks imagination after this. What worked for 10year old kids cannot and should not be used for adults who are married. These men need to grow up and respect the women who they married. Trust me, in real life, any woman would get irritated at a Dhara sort of character.

I want to see individual stories too, where the couples don't bring Dhara’s sacrifice every second. Imagine the only conversation you have with your husband is Dhara Bhabhi. It's as problematic as having a terrible Saas.

I dont know after today's episode I kind of sympathize with Rishita to some extent. Yes she is annoying, disrespectful, rude but her points about Dhara and the toxic relationship that she shares with the boys are valid. Dhara has mollycoddled the guys to such an extent that all they talk about is "Dhara bhabhi" . Any wife will be pissed off. After marriage your priorities should change. You cannot be that pampered mamma's boy anymore. This will definitely not go down well with the wife and will lead to constant fights. Dhara should back off and stop interfering in each and every matter of the house. I did not like Shiva's dialogue today to Raavi "Tu mere aur mere bhabhi ke beech mat aa" . He needs to understand she is his wife and has an equal say in everything. Stop worshipping your bhabhi and placing her on a pedestal every single second. She is human and not God.

i can't believe dhara is being shown as so selfish 💔

she feels insulted if shivi fight because it is a jodi she brought together ❤️

Originally posted by: ItsmePriya

Precap

Savage suman😎

She tells u guys alrready hid many things from me and so much happened (marriage fiasco).

This time also if u hide things and anything happens Dhara will be thrown out..i wat her to know everything about the thrashing torture

go suman!

i hope she gives good to dhara for thrashing her sons 😕😈

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

i can't believe dhara is being shown as so selfish 💔

she feels insulted if shivi fight because it is a jodi she brought together ❤️

Its like Dhara is God, she has created Pandya family and now each and every person in the Pandya family will dance to her tunes. I find her character selfish and annoying, nowhere close to being motherly🤢

Originally posted by: Transference

Brilliant post. SP is pathetic when it comes to storytelling! The shows become frustrating beyond a point. I am not sure I will have any more patience to watch if this Dhara nonsense happens.

Why can't they focus on Dhara-Gaumbi’s parenthood? Pregnancies in the ’30s aren't that complicated, but some issues can crop up. Why not focus on them?

What about them reminiscing about their lives discussing how they need to step back! How about Gautam guiding her to cut her umbilical chords systematically. So many things. Gautam feeling lonely because Dhara’s focus on the kids. What about realistic issues like a mid-life crisis and Gautam trying to look for friendship in Hardik. Bringing Anita again as a third angle for Gautum makes no sense.

The brothers would tear her to pieces. So, it will again become about Dhara.

@ bold Why not? It is common these days to have children in 30s, but will be a good l message to reach any population, be it rural or urban.

Again, sorry for bringing up the original, this is the track going on there right now. Dhanam is pregnant after 15 years of marriage and they are showing realistic portrayal of the same-pros and cons of getting pregnant at that age.

I agree with the rest of the points too. This is SP we are talking about, of all the channels, they seem to be the most regressive and there is no nayi soch in what they show😕

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

I dont know after today's episode I kind of sympathize with Rishita to some extent. Yes she is annoying, disrespectful, rude but her points about Dhara and the toxic relationship that she shares with the boys are valid. Dhara has mollycoddled the guys to such an extent that all they talk about is "Dhara bhabhi" . Any wife will be pissed off. After marriage your priorities should change. You cannot be that pampered mamma's boy anymore. This will definitely not go down well with the wife and will lead to constant fights. Dhara should back off and stop interfering in each and every matter of the house. I did not like Shiva's dialogue today to Raavi "Tu mere aur mere bhabhi ke beech mat aa" . He needs to understand she is his wife and has an equal say in everything. Stop worshipping your bhabhi and placing her on a pedestal every single second. She is human and not God.

Word! And if she wanted to be Mahan, she should have had a conversation with Shiva. Telling him importance of wife in his life and to give equal respect and love to both. Lol I did wish for a guide/heart to heart talk between Shiva Gaumbi and Shiva Dhara, but not like Dhara being a headmaster reprepremend8ng students for their behavior and telling them to sort it out.