Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #9 - Page 73

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The scene was shot beautifully...i wish it was longer ..the ambience was so romantic❤️

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

Wow! Thats such a beautiful topic to write about! Would love to read it some day! Haha yea Shiva said that during the mehendi right? I want these two dorks to slowly realize what they really mean to each other. I want the makers to make these two fall in love organically in the most unconventional way possible. Actually these two are already in love its just the realization and the process of realizing that would be beautiful!! I really want some childhood memories and flashbacks helping them in this process❤️

Yeah, lo, I a copy-pasting from Felicie’s thread

Well, needless to say, that Shivi were the one who attracted me back to the show after Gaura’s Pyaar!

I didn't realise what attracted me towards Shivi, but I know why?

Let's address the reasons for the attraction between them and the strange tension that prevails in the atmosphere whenever they are around each other.

A. Anger, Arousal and a curious case of erotic rage.

Have you ever wondered why the World celebrates angry heroes in fantasies, and their fixation tropes are so popular not only in pop culture but any form of literature that revolved around romance?

The answer is pretty simple, which lies in introductory biology/Psychology. Did you know that the body physiology during anger mimics that of sexual arousal given the surge of adrenaline that has the same consequence when you are attracted to someone on a very primal level.

That's why you'd see most people who hate each other and consider themselves forbidden tend to have strange physical compatibility. Certain studies have revealed that people crave to remain closer physically to their object of hatred or anger. The touch gives them a sense of sanity amidst all those heightened rages that program their body for sexual intimacy.

It isn't effortless, but there are high chances that your brain is telling your body to react in a Certain way. It tells you are in a state of emergency to interact with your object of physically anger or hatred.

Now, I am sure; you'd understand the push-pull and madness between the two dorks. Shiva is involved more, given his fixation and channelising all his anger towards her. It's a very frustrating situation to be in! On the one hand, your brain tells you to feast on your object you hate and on the other, you look at the natural world around you. This chemistry is palpable between the both and exudes the obvious. So, the manhandling is more Shiva fighting his frustration than actually hating upon her.

B. Emotional Intimacy Vs Physical Compatibility

These stereotypical couples share strange physical compatibility rather than any form of emotional intimacy. That's why you'd see their pre-wedding scenes are fire as compared to the Post-wedding ones. There is a slow gravitational shift towards their journey of emotional Familiarity and eventually, finding peace. If you see, Shiva’s emotional journey has started the moment he saw Raavi hanging from that noose.

Their blockage is not their physical familiarity; you'd slowly see Raavi getting physically attracted to him very quickly despite her hatred. Why? Simply because her object of fixation is now Shiva, too, unlike pre-wedding where she was in a La La Land with Dev. Her mind will soon burst into flames, given the level of anger she is harbouring for him. Such fire is frustrating and disruptive, given your body dancing on your head. Trust me; if she were half non-dissing towards Shiva post her wedding, it would have been a tornado for both of them together to act up on their already bottled up attraction coupled with rage.

Tables have turned a bit; as you can see, the frustration of Shiva is at ease now. Generally, men become subconsciously stable once they know that the woman belongs to them. Her heart might still be in her past, but Shiva knows that her physical being is around him and belongs to him only at a subconscious level.
Remember, the Haq and audacity with which he claims his rights to do things to her, and he’d kill anyone who claims a stake at his place. A classic case of territorial aggression against anyone who’d dare claim a physical space around her.

This is ITV and for Sanskaari Raavi, Dev should now be as good as a log of wood, so they aren't focussing much on that. Just go back to the strange glance of the kidnapping scene where Dev holds her shoulders and see Shiva’s expressions. Leave Raavi and Dev in some situation and then be ready to witness Tandav by Shiva . Well, well, It's ITV

You'd now see Shiva pulling her in anger only when she withholds his physical dominance over her. But, Raavi’s frustrations are growing by the day.

Well, as much it sounds easy for Suhaag, Bindi and Sindoor to give them ‘Haq’ over each other, the challenge is not their marital status; the cacophony of their craziness is a lot to deal with.

They are compatible physically in a crazy way, but their journey towards emotional intimacy is a very long one!! Hence, their gradual transformation is a slow burn than their instant compatibility.

C. Dominance, Challenge and Aggression

Hate or anger also triggers a flight or fight response in people. You'd see, in most of the scenes pre-wedding, Shiva is either shirking her away or towering her with his ‘Sher jaisi Badi Ankhein’ as pointed out by Raavi

It's all about dominance, then! The game of who opposes the enemy better. That's why you'd see them challenging each other most of the time. Like Raavi admiring how sensuous Shiva looks in his shirt and then immediately trying to tell him through her eyes that she looks better.

There is a whole exciting dynamics that could have been explored had this been a web show. But, sadly this is the Pandya store-TRP run show. Haha! Wait, till Sindoor Dhaga etc become their basis of union.

Well, that's it for now from my side.
P.S- This looks like a freaking college essay

Originally posted by: Felicie

If that's not an offhand comment, this line is again an indicator of their camaraderie. This suggests it's happened before too, and she says it casually like it's a common occurrence.

I might be reading too much into it haha

I think it was a regular characteristic of their fights. Maybe. Whenever he was salty, he found an outlet in fighting with her regularly

Everything else on one hand, my love for their childhood history on the other

Raavi and the brothers in any scene together have my heart! Today's scene of her happily looking over from a distance made me feel satisfied as a viewer, I'm glad she got to witness that!

She understands what the brothers share in a way an outsider would never, and being able to partake in the joy by simply being a silent part of it, even from a distance, is beautiful to me.

And ofcourse, we got the quintessential shot based off her fated connection to her "kismat ka ishara".

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Such a beautiful song choice❤

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Okay I really didn't wanna bring this up here since hume onscreen story se matlab hai, but I hope there's no drama behind the scenes. Like others pointed out, Pallavi who plays Maami isn't connected with KD and Alice on insta anymore, vice versa too. In yesterday's 100 epi repost, she blacked out their tags alone. Ig Anita doesn't follow her either. It just makes me sad to think there might be something going on because they were adorable a month ago, especially her bond with Alice seemed heartwarming. I haven't seen such a family like cast in a while, wishing nothing goes awry with their bonding!

Hey guys. I completed watching all the episodes finally. I couldn't help but write these things about this unique show.

1)Gombi is such a beautiful character.kudos to the writers for writing him and kinshuk for giving him life. We usually see the male itv leads as side characters or as angry young insensitive men without any feelings.gombi is sensible,calm, responsible, loving..I ill run out of adjectives describing him.

2) Shiva is a layered complex character. He has extremes of emotion. He loves with devotion. He does not question his loved ones.he is not afraid to speak his mind.his hatred is also extreme.can you blame him for hating Mami? After what she did. What is interesting is his relationship with raavi.he hates his mamikibehenkibeti bt can't really hate the innocent raavi.who can?we can clearly see the play of emotions in his eyes during the marriage episodes.

3) Dev is a character whom I can't understand till now. But I think his indecisiveness and being mute was needed for the story to progress and bring shivi together.maybe his character arc will develop and we will get more insight into what he is really like.

4) Krish has emerged as one of the favourite characters of many. His one liners give life to the show. Even during the serious wedding episodes,he managed to crack us up. Apart from providing the much needed comic relief, I believe he I'll have a much bigger role in the future in bringing shivi closer . I cant wait for him and raavi to team up and play pranks on shiva.

That's it.wrote my heart out.after so many years back to a journey with an Itv. Hope the makers keep the show as beautiful as it is.♥️

Originally posted by: Felicie

Okay I really didn't wanna bring this up here since hume onscreen story se matlab hai, but I hope there's no drama behind the scenes. Like others pointed out, Pallavi who plays Maami isn't connected with KD and Alice on insta anymore, vice versa too. In yesterday's 100 epi repost, she blacked out their tags alone. Ig Anita doesn't follow her either. It just makes me sad to think there might be something going on because they were adorable a month ago, especially her bond with Alice seemed heartwarming. I haven't seen such a family like cast in a while, wishing nothing goes awry with their bonding!

Oh really? That's rude! I think Pandya store is pulling in a lot of fan base because of Shivi!

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