Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #6 - Page 109

Originally posted by: Raingoddess

The chemistry between the three bros is fab!! Gaumbi’s age being called out again! 😆

We were predicting Shiva’s breakdown... I wonder if Gaumbi will have an enough is enough moment 🤣 Imagine him locking Dhara in his room for a few days 🤣

Would be blessings for all of us. I so want to see them as couple more than ma-bapuji roles. Gosh they are like in their late twenties early thirties. Why are they acting like they're 50 yo?

Bache bade hogaya hai. Ab unke haal pe unhe chod do. Sometimes falling is good. They will learn to stand up on their own. This mollycoddling needs to stop. Start your own family planning. I miss preleap GauRa.

Originally posted by: Transference

Quite the unpopular opinion here, but I love Raavi’s portrayal of grief so much. If she had reacted differently, I would not have been impressed. But, I am convinced for sure.

She is feeling miserable and unloved! And, Shiva’s betrayal has stayed with her for now.

Her anger at Dhara is justified and much needed.

Same here! And the acting was top notch in that scene! I think we got a lot of insight on Raavi & Shiva’s feelings (even though he didn’t voice his) in this episode... I’m hoping from more scenes of Raavi and her feelings!

Raavi's anger is misplaced, but it's realistic enough for ITV and goes to show how much he means to her. You don't get so worked up over someone who doesn't matter. She's the most comfortable with Shiva and the most attached to Dhara, they're getting the outbursts. Dhara deserves to hear Raavi's harsh words because they're true, but I hope Raavi starts holding everyone involved accountable after she's gotten over the peak of her grief - she'll be more rational then. Shiva definitely does not deserve to hear all that on a daily basis, but I can empathize with Raavi here.

She's about as affected by him leaving her alone as he is by her attempted suicide. From what I've gathered of their equation, Raavi's always had expectations from Shiva - despite their bickering and his rude behaviour, she believed in her soul that he would never let anyone hurt her or leave her alone in a situation where she could get hurt.

Despite her mooning over Dev, Raavi's always been way more connected to Shiva and she's always real with him, same goes for him. It hurts her to think that he'd leave her there way more than anything else - she's not shown to be upset at Dev for ruining her life or breaking her trust in him, despite their friendship. She almost lost her life and yet it doesn't trigger a reaction towards her "friend" Dev.

(Perhaps she's compartmentalised it for the moment or she's just plain ignoring Dev, refusing to even acknowledge his existence after all that's happened - we don't know yet, hope we get a monologue about this.)

However, she can't bear it when her innate trust in Shiva shatters - that's what it boils down to, Raavi wants the assurance back. She wants to know that he wouldn't do that, no matter what. Despite being the "villain", his company and the faith she has in it matters a lot.

Judging from my perception of Raavi, she is more transparent with those she's closest to. By close, I'm alluding more to a subconscious comfort level rather than superficial relationships, hence why I'm describing Shiva as being "close". She's positively volatile around him when upset, a stark contrast to her silence with people like Dev and Rishita. I do feel that she should stand up for herself but I'll let that slide because she's not in the right state of mind - Raavi 1.0 wouldn't give two hoots about Rishita's taunts and would definitely give it back to her in style.

Originally posted by: Transference

Quite the unpopular opinion here, but I love Raavi’s portrayal of grief so much. If she had reacted differently, I would not have been impressed. But, I am convinced for sure.

She is feeling miserable and unloved! And, Shiva’s betrayal has stayed with her for now.

Her anger at Dhara is justified and much needed.

Completely agree with you!!

She has this feeling that everyone leaves her and goes... and she is like a punching bag to everyone

Originally posted by: Transference

Quite the unpopular opinion here, but I love Raavi’s portrayal of grief so much. If she had reacted differently, I would not have been impressed. But, I am convinced for sure.

She is feeling miserable and unloved! And, Shiva’s betrayal has stayed with her for now.

Her anger at Dhara is justified and much needed.

So true! I completely agree. Alice did a fabulous job today. You could feel her pain and the sense of being unwanted and unloved. I dont blame her at all. She is in a loveless marriage, with all the misunderstandings just growing. Plus she is taking Shiva's words superficially and not analyzing the deep meaning behind them or his hidden care/concern. She is not in a state to go into the depth of what Shiva is saying and what he truly means. Unless and until the misunderstandings clear she will never start afresh!

Originally posted by: Transference

Quite the unpopular opinion here, but I love Raavi’s portrayal of grief so much. If she had reacted differently, I would not have been impressed. But, I am convinced for sure.

She is feeling miserable and unloved! And, Shiva’s betrayal has stayed with her for now.

Her anger at Dhara is justified and much needed.

Yes,all of that was do e well. Especially Dhara-Raavi scene where she puts her POV across. The one thing that I didn't like was her misplaced blame towards Shiva for what Rishita said.

Originally posted by: Transference

Quite the unpopular opinion here, but I love Raavi’s portrayal of grief so much. If she had reacted differently, I would not have been impressed. But, I am convinced for sure.

She is feeling miserable and unloved! And, Shiva’s betrayal has stayed with her for now.

Her anger at Dhara is justified and much needed.

My thoughts exactly!

Need to make it clear to cvs to stop showing illogical dhara lectures....mommy mommy always...

Dev and rishith overdose is already pissing many and to add on that...dhara's advice🤢

I really liked her when she sadi shivii should sort out things themselves in the pooja scene...i dont know what booth enters her suddenly and she goes on this lecture spree

Originally posted by: ItsmePriya

Need to make it clear to cvs to stop showing illogical dhara lectures....mommy mommy always...

Dev and rishith overdose is already pissing many and to add on that...dhara's advice🤢

I really liked her when she sadi shivii should sort out things themselves in the pooja scene...i dont know what booth enters her suddenly and she goes on this lecture spree

at least she has spared shiva for now

we have to hear more of her lectures to shiva once the kesar kaand comes out 🤢

Originally posted by: Raingoddess

Today I felt like Raavi’s words and behavior affected Shiva quite a bit. He was hurt but didn’t show it... his expression changed a few times but he was def hurt and taken aback. For once, I think he kept aside taunts and was genuinely being nice. It was like a childhood friend showing support for another. Like saying “I’m here for you.” I wonder if he’ll take a step back once she takes a step forward. Shiva doesn’t really show emotions outside of anger and if he believes he’s doing too much or isn’t being valued, he might tone it down and maintain a distance in such moments (outside of nok jhoks).

My thoughts too! He was genuinely nice to her and wanted to help her, but Raavi's blind hatred😳and she is taking out all her anger on him, so not done.

I like Raavi a lot and want her to get all the love and respect she deserves, but today her anger was misplaced. Where is her anger on Dev? I am glad that she gave it back to Dhara.