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I woke up early to watch raavi - shiva bonding & got raavi-rishita bonding & what actually is raavi doing..she want to do opposite of shiva but actually going against dhara, like dhara di which i don't think she actually mean to go...

This was unexpected track 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: manny136

I don't think anything is wrong with how raavi acted in the past two days she has been through hell and back and hasn't even had time to breathe before being kidnapped, given divorce threats and lectures on how to be like guara lol on top she now finally thinks shiva really hates her even although in the past she saw the good in him. Why can't she act pissed off and bratty just coz it doesn't fit the cookie cutter description of what she should be doing.?

Originally posted by: manny136

I don't think anything is wrong with how raavi acted in the past two days she has been through hell and back and hasn't even had time to breathe before being kidnapped, given divorce threats and lectures on how to be like guara lol on top she now finally thinks shiva really hates her even although in the past she saw the good in him. Why can't she act pissed off and bratty just coz it doesn't fit the cookie cutter description of what she should be doing.?

It’s all good. She’ll act out for now. It’s just I don’t recognize her and that’s sad. Hopefully, she’ll come back to herself when things clear up. Two days into a forced marriage is not going fix things.

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

After seeing this episode, I hope they tone down on the bantering (I'd rather they stay silent, than say anything hurtful). I feel like their nok-jhoks might make them say something that both of them will eventually regret.

As for seeing something good in Shiva, I don't think she is in the right mental state to. Based on the precap, I feel like she'll only foster more hate towards Shiva, and as such, become even more blinded towards every action he has.

Definitely not the honeymoon I wanted...

I feel like outside of his breakdown,the only way Raavi can see his other side is if some harm comes Raavi's way and Shiva takes the risk to save her by getting hurt himself. Otherwise, she'll continue to believe what she thought.

Originally posted by: manny136

I don't think anything is wrong with how raavi acted in the past two days she has been through hell and back and hasn't even had time to breathe before being kidnapped, given divorce threats and lectures on how to be like guara lol on top she now finally thinks shiva really hates her even although in the past she saw the good in him. Why can't she act pissed off and bratty just coz it doesn't fit the cookie cutter description of what she should be doing.?

I completely agree. That girls has been though a lot. She got left at the alter with the boy she was in love with and had to marry a man who hated her. That’s why even though she was a brat today it’s okay. It’s part of her character and she’s going to grow ya know. Through this all shiva and Ravi will experience so much pain and heartbreak. But that’s going to lead to a love that withstands it all. And so I’m patiently waiting hahah.

Honestly though I’m annoyed how scot free dev got away. Like even rishita sacrificed, poor girl left her family for him.

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

I feel like outside of his breakdown,the only way Raavi can see his other side is if some harm comes Raavi's way and Shiva takes the risk to save her by getting hurt himself. Otherwise, she'll continue to believe what she thought.

Yep because right now she thinks shiva isn’t affected by anything. She doesn’t know the real him, the vulnerable side and she’s going to see all that

Originally posted by: Jalebi-Bhai

2 things.

First I think for Dhara the kids have always been children, I think right now we’re gonna have to see her learn to accept that she can’t always have it bright and happy and merry. She hates conflict, and from how she tackled things today, she just wanted to get it over with. So I think we’re going to see that, and I agree she shouldn’t have said the thing about the sandwiches. At least not like that in front of everyone. The boys may be children to her, she raised them... but these are their wives and so she is gonna have to learn to handle that differently. But see I love that because we see that she’s not a perfect person, she’s flawed and it makes her more human.

Second I was reading about shivas breakdown, is this something that happened in other versions? Is that why were anticipating this track. My heart literally goes out to him. That boy is being pulled back and forth and everyone is just trodding at his emotions. I know he was really mean and rude to Ravi and so she’s only seen that and it makes sense cause she’s misunderstood, she’d always laughed his meanness off but now she’s giving it back 3x fold. Idk it’s just hard to watch Shiva. Maybe cause he doesn’t say anything and just bottles in his emotions. But ugh my heart breaks for him, i love him so much.

I agree with your points about Dhara. She has honestly spent so much time with just the five of them as family. Now that two extra people have entered, it'll be hard to change overnight. She'll need to learn to step back and trust others to take care of the men she raised. I think she'll be making many more mistakes as time passes, but I feel like Raavi and Rishita will help her get to a place where she can feel comfortable letting the reigns loose.

As for Shiva's breakdown, yes, it happened in every version (but differently in each version). And couldn't agree with you even more. As the audience, we have a perspective of Shiva that the other characters do not have. GauRa and Krish know he's hurting, Dev thinks his brother is hurt, but also believes he is much stronger than that, and Raavi considers him to be rude and mean. None of them have the full picture of Shiva like we have, so his hurt is way more palpable for us, especially considering he hasn't had the time to let out his emotions...

Originally posted by: manny136

I don't think anything is wrong with how raavi acted in the past two days she has been through hell and back and hasn't even had time to breathe before being kidnapped, given divorce threats and lectures on how to be like guara lol on top she now finally thinks shiva really hates her even although in the past she saw the good in him. Why can't she act pissed off and bratty just coz it doesn't fit the cookie cutter description of what she should be doing.?

That's true and that's why it make it a good episode. It's realistic and we all have probably acted like that at some point in life. I know she'll come around and apologize as well when things start to fall in place.

I guess as an audience who's seen the good side of her, doesn't want to see her that way. It's like when our fav person does something wrong, and you understand their pov, but you're not happy with the action they took to achieve that goal. And that's also one of the reasons why I don't know how to feel about this episode.

Originally posted by: Namita-M

Yes!!! This is it!!

She is just not able to see any future with him right now and lost hope ig...that's where her behaviour is coming from

Originally posted by: Jalebi-Bhai

I completely agree. That girls has been though a lot. She got left at the alter with the boy she was in love with and had to marry a man who hated her. That’s why even though she was a brat today it’s okay. It’s part of her character and she’s going to grow ya know. Through this all shiva and Ravi will experience so much pain and heartbreak. But that’s going to lead to a love that withstands it all. And so I’m patiently waiting hahah.

Honestly though I’m annoyed how scot free dev got away. Like even rishita sacrificed, poor girl left her family for him.

@bold - couldn’t agree more. Is he really that dense that he couldn’t see how hurt his younger brother is?

Actually, no one seems to be aware. Shiva keeps mum about his feelings so people take him for granted!!

ShiVi need to start from scratch so I understand that’s what going to happen. Broken down and rebuilt with new emotional strength, love and each other’s support.