Pandya Store|Episode Discussions Thread #2 - Page 93

Originally posted by: Jalebi-Bhai

I completely agree. That girls has been though a lot. She got left at the alter with the boy she was in love with and had to marry a man who hated her. That’s why even though she was a brat today it’s okay. It’s part of her character and she’s going to grow ya know. Through this all shiva and Ravi will experience so much pain and heartbreak. But that’s going to lead to a love that withstands it all. And so I’m patiently waiting hahah.

Honestly though I’m annoyed how scot free dev got away. Like even rishita sacrificed, poor girl left her family for him.

I'm annoyed with how the Dev-Shiva-Raavi situation was handled too. After this episode, I'm convinced it won't be broached again. And even if they wanted to bring up this topic, it might be too late with the characters dealing with other problems.

I just hope Gaumbi's words make Dev a little more compassionate towards Shiva and Raavi. Even if he can ask his wife to tone down the romance (which I think she will considering she now thinks a little more positively about Raavi), that would be good.

Originally posted by: Jalebi-Bhai

Yep because right now she thinks shiva isn’t affected by anything. She doesn’t know the real him, the vulnerable side and she’s going to see all that

Yes, it’s a necessity!! She needs to see and get to know him all by herself. She’s not going to believe anyone. She’ll feel it’s just talk.

Originally posted by: Namita-M

@bold - couldn’t agree more. Is he really that dense that he couldn’t see how hurt his younger brother is?

Actually, no one seems to be aware. Shiva keeps mum about his feelings so people take him for granted!!

ShiVi need to start from scratch so I understand that’s what going to happen. Broken down and rebuilt with new emotional strength, love and each other’s support.

Also I know it’s going to be really difficult to watch but we’re gonna see these two say really mean and hurtful things to each other. They’ve always been fire against fire, we can’t expect it to change overnight. Hopefully one day when they start caring they’ll see how much it hurts the other person, although shiva definitely knows that. He’s so much softer with Ravi. Even we he laid her down that day he told her to rest and not fight. So before these two write each other love poems and romance, we are going to see a lot of hate.

And the show already foreshadowed that too, most people have flowers fall on them, but these two...nope they’re hot dried chili’s haha

Originally posted by: akki2

all I want right now is Shiva's breakdown to be as fast as possible

Don’t drag it out like a chewing gum. It needs to happen quickly with maximum impact for the viewers.

Kanwar was fabulous. I could feel Shiva’s pain radiating off him.

I have some strange feelings about the episode today not because Shivi’s non grata status but because of Gautam and Dhara.

I have seen such behaviour in real life from people who have raised kids brothers from a very tender age. What happened today was a reflection of how blind are Gaumbi and Dhara.

Marriage is a very big change in every human’s life. There are complexities involved and intricacies to be handled.

People marry each other and not Parivar!

Parivar comes next. Dhara and Gaumbi need to seriously cut their umbilical chords with the boys now. This mollycoddled behaviour is getting on my nerves. They are adults and not toddlers anymore. Marriage needs conversations amongst spouses and not Yadon ki Barasat song.

As much as Rishita annoys and irks me, today she wasn’t at fault. The way she chided Dhara being a school teacher was in fun. There wasn’t any need of her being offended.

Sandwiches for instance, Dhara might be the cook of the century but Rishita isn’t. Day 1 is not really the time to teach those to the Bahus!

Dhara has done a lot for them, now, it’s her time to take a breather and cut them some slack. Her sacrifices are a lot and I do wish, she has that time to think about herself too. Her selflessness is just so heartbreaking. This over indulgence may lead to suffocating new relationships.

Dhara is almost like a mother to them but these are men in new relationships now. She should stop being this “mommy will make a dollhouse for you” attitude.

she made Raavi-Shiva together but it’s not her duty to facilitate them every second. Let them find their own way.


For once, I thought Raavi has a heart of a child. Like Dhara, she is stuck to her childhood and her changed relationship with Shiva hasn’t even registered much in her cute brain. Her whole life revolved around Shiva’s acknowledgement as a child, during growing up and now she just wants to reprimand him for marrying her and leaving her with the Gundas.

Her childlike dissatisfaction and disappointment when Dhara and Gaumbi decided not to beat them was an indication of their childhood. Maybe they always fought and brothers would get into fist fighting too! They have this whole history of togetherness which is Natural to Raavi, Dev and Gaumbi-Dhara.

But, the marriage has probably registered in Shiva’s brain. Humans are insecure people. The sheer fact that his life partner doesn’t view him compatible bruises him subconsciously.

For Raavi, Shiva is still her Shiva, so laughing at him comes naturally to her. Shiva on the other hand seems to have subconsciously registered that there’s a marriage that has happened and he is grossly incompetent as a partner to someone like her.

He is sensitive to her suicide. Today he refers to that again during her choice of song.

Ahhh! There’s so much to write about today’s episode!

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

I'm annoyed with how the Dev-Shiva-Raavi situation was handled too. After this episode, I'm convinced it won't be broached again. And even if they wanted to bring up this topic, it might be too late with the characters dealing with other problems.

I just hope Gaumbi's words make Dev a little more compassionate towards Shiva and Raavi. Even if he can ask his wife to tone down the romance (which I think she will considering she now thinks a little more positively about Raavi), that would be good.

It’s so annoying when they romance in front of anyone...it’s like you’re rubbing their currently failing relationship and a innocent girls childhood love for you in their face...also the sacrifice his brother did for his family’s respect

Originally posted by: Namita-M

Don’t drag it out like a chewing gum. It needs to happen quickly with maximum impact for the viewers.

Kanwar was fabulous. I could feel Shiva’s pain radiating off him.

Today's episode

I feel like punching someone

But honestly I don't know why I think Raavi is going to get all this back at herself, who knows what's in store for us.

I just hope not, but somehow I feel she could be responsible for dhara being hurt🤦

Like we all are waiting for Shiva's breakdown and pata pada we'll get dhara's instead just because she knows how hurt her shiva is😆

And if something happens to dhara then raavi will be on everyone's hit list well excluding her new found friend of course

Originally posted by: Transference

I have some strange feelings about the episode today not because Shivi’s non grata status but because of Gautam and Dhara.

I have seen such behaviour in real life from people who have raised kids brothers from a very tender age. What happened today was a reflection of how blind are Gaumbi and Dhara.

Marriage is a very big change in every human’s life. There are complexities involved and intricacies to be handled.

People marry each other and not Parivar!

Parivar comes next. Dhara and Gaumbi need to seriously cut their umbilical chords with the boys now. This mollycoddled behaviour is getting on my nerves. They are adults and not toddlers anymore. Marriage needs conversations amongst spouses and not Yadon ki Barasat song.

As much as Rishita annoys and irks me, today she wasn’t at fault. The way she chided Dhara being a school teacher was in fun. There wasn’t any need of her being offended.

Sandwiches for instance, Dhara might be the cook of the century but Rishita isn’t. Day 1 is not really the time to teach those to the Bahus!

Dhara has done a lot for them, now, it’s her time to take a breather and cut them some slack. Her sacrifices are a lot and I do wish, she has that time to think about herself too. Her selflessness is just so heartbreaking. This over indulgence may lead to suffocating new relationships.

Dhara is almost like a mother to them but these are men in new relationships now. She should stop being this “mommy will make a dollhouse for you” attitude.

she made Raavi-Shiva together but it’s not her duty to facilitate them every second. Let them find their own way.


For once, I thought Raavi has a heart of a child. Like Dhara, she is stuck to her childhood and her changed relationship with Shiva hasn’t even registered much in her cute brain. Her whole life revolved around Shiva’s acknowledgement as a child, during growing up and now she just wants to reprimand him for marrying her and leaving her with the Gundas.

Her childlike dissatisfaction and disappointment when Dhara and Gaumbi decided not to beat them was an indication of their childhood. Maybe they always fought and brothers would get into fist fighting too! They have this whole history of togetherness which is Natural to Raavi, Dev and Gaumbi-Dhara.

But, the marriage has probably registered in Shiva’s brain. Humans are insecure people. The sheer fact that his life partner doesn’t view him compatible bruises him subconsciously.

For Raavi, Shiva is still her Shiva, so laughing at him comes naturally to her. Shiva on the other hand seems to have subconsciously registered that there’s a marriage that has happened and he is grossly incompetent as a partner to someone like her.

He is sensitive to her suicide. Today he refers to that again during her choice of song.

Ahhh! There’s so much to write about today’s episode!

Omg yes I noticed that too, he was like you always talk about dying. I’m pretty sure seeing her hanging like that triggered something in him. He’s probably still scarred by that